Re: some people shouldn't give advice
[Re: adam m]
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He who can, does. He who cannot, teaches.
Some people refuse to see the truth when you bludgeon them over the head with it.
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
[Re: adam m]
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Gotta love the finacial guru, that has a payment on a $600.00 car! And all else is rented. I have a brother in law that has been married four times, but twice to the same woman. Some people are not meant to be married!
If your mind draws a blank, turn off the sound, because ya can't learn a thing if you're doin all the talkin
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Had some jail lawyer telling other inmates what they should do when they get to court and the same guy himself pleads guilty every time he went to court~ LOL
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Got a brother that's been divorced a few times and every women is "The One" for a short time , Really hits the hooch hard and has no loyalty to family! Loser
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Anybody who gets married once should not give marital advice.
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Anybody who gets married once should not give marital advice. If they have been married 20+ years (to the same person) it doesn't matter. They have the wisdom & knowledge to give marriage advice.
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Had some jail lawyer telling other inmates what they should do when they get to court and the same guy himself pleads guilty every time he went to court~ LOL Bahahaha
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Not as long as EdP , but my wife and I will be married 30 years in Oct. we will never part !
If your mind draws a blank, turn off the sound, because ya can't learn a thing if you're doin all the talkin
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Not as long as EdP , but my wife and I will be married 30 years in Oct. we will never part ! You and EDP- what was it like the first 5-10 years?
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Something I learned: Don’t take advice from people who are eager to give it. People who think they’re the smartest, aren’t. If you want advice, look for the quiet people who are humbly successful at whatever you want to succeed at. This goes for marriage, trapping and about everything.
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Been married once. Been married to the same woman for 43 years. Still very happy with each other, best friends, don't know what I would do without her. Don't think I know anything about making a marriage work? Don't want my advice? OK. Same here. Forty-three years to the same woman. Jim
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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I have met a few divorced or repeatedly divorced people that had very good advice on where they went wrong and what not to do
America only has one issue, we have a Responsibility crisis and everything else stems from it.
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Got married in June 1998. Have six children with same and only wife. My dad believes the advice from our catholic priest was the reason why. Like he has a clue! People are fools! I don't mean to sound harsh here, but a Catholic priest giving marital advice, really? A friend of mine who lives to fish met the girl of his dreams. She cared as much for him as he did for her. He warned her that he was a fishing fool and would never stop fishing even after he married her. She said that wasn't a problem and the last thing she wanted to do was stop him from doing something he loved like fishing. After several pre-martial counseling with a priest, the priest convinced her that he was being selfish by allowing fishing to rule their marriage. The priest said until he changed his attitude, their marriage would never work. They broke off the engagement and to this day, he's still single and fishes several times a week.
We are told not to judge all Muslims by the actions of a few lunatics, but are told to judge all gunowners by the actions of a few.
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Maybe the priest called it right, lol.
Right now I’m having amnesia and déjà vu at the same time. I think I’ve forgotten this before.
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Maybe the priest called it right, lol. A lot of women will “not mind” something that later they “despise”, especially when it is an obsession. I love fishing, but I have to put that well below my marriage and kids. Sitting here typing with the youngest asleep on my shoulder. Wife and I will be celebrating fifteen years next month. Dated close to five years (through college). Will be twenty years together this fall. Not always easy. Life hasn’t always been easy, but I’m not about to quit the wonderful family that God gave me, no matter how tough it is sometimes.
Brandon
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Ok guys, take it easy I too have some years on this relationship treadmill too. We dated exclusively for 4 years and then got married. So we have been together almost 35 years and married almost 31 years. Our motto is that we are saving two other really nice people from a lot of misery! After 50 years, I may have some good advice.
FRAC LIVES MATTER
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Ok guys. You want advice, ask away. Its pretty clear I have by far the most experience...
Been married for a solid five months now so I guess that qualifies me right??? That makes you an expert in this site!
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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I have no advice to give on marriage, every day is something new whether it is something petty and stupid or grand and life-altering but what I do know for sure (after 7 years of marriage) it is darn hard work most of the time and sometimes it hardly seems worth it but then there are times it seems worth all the hassles and then some.
Mark Skokan, Buffalo MN.
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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The first 25 we're the hardest...LOL! Bahahaha Thanks. I'm only on 9 years of marriage and 10 together. Marriage and raising kids the hardest job and responsibility one can ever have. You get home from work your day is just starting.
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Not as long as EdP , but my wife and I will be married 30 years in Oct. we will never part ! You and EDP- what was it like the first 5-10 years? It was always good for me. Oh, we went through some rough times financially, which can be hard on a marriage, but we always found a way, together. My inlaws told me that I can't afford the house I built. But we did it. As Vince Gill would say, Look at US!!!!
If your mind draws a blank, turn off the sound, because ya can't learn a thing if you're doin all the talkin
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Ok guys, take it easy I too have some years on this relationship treadmill too. We dated exclusively for 4 years and then got married. So we have been together almost 35 years and married almost 31 years. Our motto is that we are saving two other really nice people from a lot of misery! After 50 years, I may have some good advice. This cracked me up. Lol Good luck on making it to 50
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Anybody who gets married once should not give marital advice. If they have been married 20+ years (to the same person) it doesn't matter. They have the wisdom & knowledge to give marriage advice. I know i am getting older when i fall into this category.
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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25 married-30 together and i gotta go cause she just took scalloped taters and ham outta the oven.
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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Racerboy - glad you like that. There have been plenty of days when those two unknown people have been very very fortunate! We are commmitted to their happiness. Thanks for the good wishes. God willing we will make it to 50 and beyond.
Best wishes to all.
FRAC LIVES MATTER
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Re: some people shouldn't give advice
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