White guilt and the elephant in the room
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Since the movie Wind River ( great movie in some respects ) came out , a lots been mentioned about the rate of Native women who have been murdered or disappeared .
In the movie , somewhat predictably, the villains were bored , horny oil field security personnel who were white.
The reality ?
In real life , the perpetrators are almost always fellow tribe members . No conspiracy behind it. Alcohol and drugs , things get out of hand , a girl ends up dead and no one talks.
Having lived in Indian country all my life , the narrative gets old . Wanna be a victim of Indian crime ? First step , be Indian.
But the reality also holds true in primarily Black areas.
Why does society ( You know , James' group ) continue to deny truth ? Boco , who seems to think Natives descended from Heaven , his Canadian Natives claim a murder rate similar .
Thoughts ?
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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Feeling guilty is easier than solving problems. To solve the problem of criminal behavior in trailer parks full of white people in rural America, Indians on reservations, or black people in ghettos, there are some facts that need looked at, starting with welfare destroys 100 times more people than it helps. Need to end with the war on drugs makes things worse.
p.s. lots of stuff inbetween those two as well. number one being low iq
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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Because it is almost illegal to be a straight white male these days thanks to snowflakes and their supporters.
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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welfare destroys 100 times more people than it helps. I agree with this.
Eh...wot?
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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Good movie and a very good gunfight scene.....very realistic.
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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Violence to indigenous women by indigenous men is recognized here.Like in the US interracial violence on both sides gets more publicity. Although a persons lifestyle doesn't justify violence against people it sadly goes with the territory. And To you Profitt,I call out bigotry against Indigenous people because my wife and Kids are Cree.
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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Violence to indigenous women by indigenous men is recognized here.Like in the US interracial violence on both sides gets more publicity. Although a persons lifestyle doesn't justify violence against people it sadly goes with the territory. And To you Profitt,I call out bigotry against Indigenous people because my wife and Kids are Cree.
What did she do to get punished that severely?
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Take it for what it's worth FAS rates Nation wide is around .03 the last Native American training I was at said they have over 20% so that is a huge difference by any standards. Just looked up one study that claimed 30%.
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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Maybe if we had a national "work or starve program" it would help?
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Maybe if we had a national "work or starve program" it would help? My son is married to a First Nation girl, she is first class people. Her mother is an accountant for the band.....she agrees with you. The Liberals create these problems with free handouts, but they know it will get them back into office so they dont care...
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Maybe if we had a national "work or starve program" it would help? My son is married to a First Nation girl, she is first class people. Her mother is an accountant for the band.....she agrees with you. The Liberals create these problems with free handouts, but they know it will get them back into office so they dont care... Wasn't that the traditional way of life before white people improved their lives?
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I don't have white guilt. That's for the weak. Unless you have had a DNA test it doesn't pay to be guilty about being white. Your ancestors might have been hatched on a fence post in Africa.
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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One time I started a grass fire here in the spring. All the neighbors showed up and we put it out carrying 5 gallon buckets of water and chainsawing trees and connecting up a trash pump and dowsing everything real good. We called in the State boys just to be safe. There wasn't much for them to do when they showed up. One of the firefighters complemented us on doing such a good job. He said usually when they get called to put out a fire in a village the people are just standing around and watching things burn. Sad!
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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Pretty sure I'm bashing the government.
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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native trapper if you think handouts are a good thing then what do you see behind all the addiction, theft, assault and sex crimes on reservations?
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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pike river whats your take on high crime areas? all those jokes about trailer parks are because they are high crime high addiction communities. at least a lot of them are. same with inner city black neighborhoods. common denominator in my mind is welfare.
reactions like native trapper is having are why no one can talk about it.
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I didn’t say handouts are a good thing. Not once. I got hostile when it degenerated and just turned into a bunch of folks talking about general problems with “Indians”. You wanna talk about the economic factors that’s fine. Just seemed like half of the posters were focused on race. But I don’t think welfare is the problem. Or the commodity program. Or Naha. Nor are they the solution. People are right when they say that the solution to our issues lies with us, but they’re wrong as to the why. Our problems don’t stem from laziness or ungratefulness or a sense of entitlement. Our problems are because native people struggle with reconsiling who we are, where we came from, and our culture with the world we live in. Part of it is rebellion. Many find it galling that after 80% of our race was wiped out, without mercy, that we should bend to the whims of the government that so happily murdered us, and not so long ago. The goal was assimilation. “Kill the Indian, save the man”. That was the mantra. So if we go to college, get a degree, live off the reservation next to white folks, work with white folks, talk like white folks, live like white people, then we have assimilated. And many would see that as us losing our identity. It’s a hard line to walk. Believe me, it’s one i toe everyday.
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That I can understand.
I can't help but think that giving people handouts takes their pride. they start off thinking its a lifesaver. after weeks months years and generations it is IMO a soul killer
Those who would give up essential liberty, to purchase a little temporary safety, deserve neither liberty nor safety. Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790)
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I am sure there is some racism against Native Americans in parts of the US. Here in Ohio people will proudly tell you they are of Native American blood, often people who have blonde hair, blue eyes and lily white skin. People in Ohio are proud to have Native American heritage, especially if they hunt, trap or fish. When I met my new neighbor, he told me he was of Cherokee blood within minutes of meeting. People here tell you because they are proud and know most people here think it is good to be Native American.
Successful whites generally have guilt. Unsuccessful whites generally don't think about things enough to have any guilt at all. Race does not matter much in our society anymore, which is overall a good thing.
The biggest problem facing society is that irregardless of race, the wrong people have most of the children. I think this is why all human societies eventually fall. Our government makes it worse by paying the wrong people to breed with money taken from the people who should breed.
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I probably live in worse poverty than most natives, but I have to do stuff to feed myself , heat the house, maintain the equipment and property, If the government was providing all these things with no effort by me, it wouldn't be much of a life. This would lead to apathy. Apathy is the problem.
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Driving down 83 off of 90 some years back in my semi, when I made that little jog in Mission, some little boys were throwing rocks at my truck. Some adults were watching and laughing. I was just hauling a load to NE. Didn't even stop there. I still don't get that. Adults condoning little boys damaging private property that way. Something aint right in that part of the world. Blaming me for something my ancestors did isn't going to benefit anyone.
FWIW I don't feel any guilt over a wilderness being turned into the country we all benefit from today. I see more opportunity today than probably anytime in our nations history. I cant feel sorry for people who choose to sit around feeling sorry for themselves.
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P.S. I live 45 minutes from Haskell university. my kids couldn't even pay to go there let alone go free
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Friend of mine has a trucking business. I trap on his place and haul for him sometimes. his daughter is studying nursing at Haskell. I don't believe it is substandard education.
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What did you pay for your house? Who paid your medical bills? My kids were not even born in a hospital. They didn't go to a government provided school. We had a pitcher pump and used an out house. Lived in a 12X16 log cabin. Wife used to wash cloths in a 5 gallon bucket with a toilet plunger. You are barking up the wrong tree here.
Yet, I seem not to have all these poverty related issues.
BTW i worked my way up to a higher level of poverty since them early years.
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Nativetrapper, thanks for sharing your life experiences.
I agree with you that poverty is a major part of the problem whether it's on the "rez", in "the hood", or trailer parks. Where we may be in disagreement is on the solution to that poverty. It doesn't seem that the welfare state is accomplishing much and in fact there is evidence to support it's making it worse.
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Most of natives here don't live on reservations. They don't live in poverty.
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Well. I tried. I swallowed my pride and talked nice after my initial outburst. Didn’t work. Think what you want, do what you will, in the end it’s all just hot air. Happy trapping. Democrats, Republicans, libertarians, Christians Muslims Jews, whites natives blacks. If you trap your ok to me and I wish you all nothing but the best. I appreciate your thoughts and views .
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Around here if you live on a reserve, you get free housing, a government check every month, free University, and you pay no tax. You can hunt, fish and spear fish all year long and have no limits on what you can take. The government literally is throwing money at reserves to invest, give grants, wind farms, etc..native ceremony and teachings are entertwined with our education system. We have public school powows twice a year with drum circles, and classes on native spirituality and teachings. Awareness on native issues is huge. We are proud of our native people here in Canada, and we don't have widespread racism issues by and large. Reserves self govern and have their own police forces which also police off reserve if needed.
And yet most reserves are still very impoverished.
We killed no natives during colonization. We have a dark bit of history called residential schools, but our government didn't kill any native people like in the us.
We took a much different approach than the us did and still, poverty, drugs, and all the crap that goes along with it...
I live near a reserve, and would love to see it flourish more than it does. The reserve by me is much better off than most. I have many employees from the reserve. Awesome people...but like I said, most places are still impoverished and the youth are in trouble. And we are not even mentioning the skyrocketi suicide rates in Canadas more northern reserves and inuit communities. Many inuit communities have declared a state of emergency as youth suicides are a monthly or weekly occurrence.
What is the answer?
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Coyote trapping is here is top notch though. Silver lining. Most folks don't understand South Dakota so they surely won't understand how the Rez works.
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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I paid 160,000 dollars for my house. Money that I earned. My insurance pays my medical bills, blue cross. Comes with my full time Job. You can shove your insinuations dirt. Then you are not poor or dependent. If your house started on fire, you would probably try to put it out. You don't like it I won't join you at your pity party? Because I don't. You are an example of the solution.
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Big problem I see is putting one race, religion, sex or political orientation into the same shoe box and bad mouthing or stereotyping them. I have lived with a lot of different folks big cities and small, fought with and worked with people of all races, religions and political beliefs. One thing I learned is there is trash in all walks of life, I have know several trappers one in particular, I would put with the scum of the earth wife beater, child molester including his own and thief. For sure not a shining example of a trapper, I have even had two doors closed in my face because of his lack of ethics I guess those folks thought all trappers must be the same shooting deer for a bait. I guess my point being seems like there is a lot of bashing going on these days for unjust reason and I sure hate to see it on this forum.
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We killed no natives during colonization. We have a dark bit of history called residential schools, but our government didn't kill any native people like in the us.
I'm sure Metis Leader Louis Riel would beg to differ with you, but he can't since the Saskatchewan Government Hung him by the neck during the Native Rebellion in 1885. OOPS !!! w
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out here in rural America if you go into a run down trailer park you will find out the stereotype is real. certainly not 100% but real all the same. people who sit around feeling sorry for theirself, taking whatever drug is handy, nicotine, ethanol, meth, marijuana, whatever they can get their hands on. waiting on their food stamps and cash assistance. both are all gone in two three days and they start waiting again. most of their stealing is from each other. it never stops. promiscuity and incest abound. never make any attempt to do for theirself but whine and cry nonstop about how bad they have it. I have little sympathy for them.
I don't mind helping somebody out of a hole. throwing money and food to them so they can live in the hole is just stupid.
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There are a lot of problems, and unfortunately not very many today are doing much to help. Most people would rather be “right” than be helpful. You can be absolutely factually right about the problems, the victim culture, welfare etc, and still not contribute anything to the solution. Unfortunately that’s what most Conservatives are doing these days, which leaves the Liberals to try to “fix” things with their faulty systems.
Reading this conversation brings 2 specific things to mind, that badly need to stop:
1.Victim Identity. Quit telling people how bad you have it. Quit making it a goal to convince people that you had it as bad or worse than someone else. No matter what color you are or how hard you really did have it. If you feel that you need to explain your poverty or disadvantage to someone to explain your identity, then you have a victim identity complex, and you’re just as pathetic no matter what color you are. I’m straight, white, blue collar conservative male and I’m sick to the gills of hearing how “persecuted” straight white conservative males are. It doesn’t matter if it’s true! When did we become such whiners?? Once upon a time men took pride in overcoming disadvantages and wanted to be known for success, so they would downplay their hardships and brag about their victory, because that’s how they wanted to be identified. Today it seems that everyone just wants to win the moaning contest. We as a culture need to grow some pride again.
2. Stereotyping. There’s nothing wrong with noticing correlations, and there’s nothing wrong with stating them. Stereotypes exist because we humans as a species instinctively notice patterns and group correlations. It is wrong, however, to presumptively judge individuals based on them. It’s wrong to assume that a Native is welfare-dependent. It’s wrong to assume that a white person, or anyone, is racist. It’s wrong to assume that someone thinks you’re racist. It’s wrong to assume where someone gets their money, or what they do with it, or what they should do with it. We just need to stop. Stereotypes simply perpetuate stereotypes. Natives understandably had a strong distrust of whites for a couple generations. That caused them to make decisions that were often economically detrimental for them, such as withdrawing from white society and avoiding jobs. Then a new generation of whites started judging them for being poor and antisocial, and the Natives judged the whites for being racist all over again, and the cycle continued.
We as people need to simply refuse to act on stereotypes and evaluate each other as individuals. There is a difference between knowing a stereotype and acting on it. For example, I know that statistically Alaska Natives have a high rate of alcoholism. But I am still willing to hire them and give each one a chance on an individual basis. As a business owner, I’ve hired and worked with many natives and whites of different backgrounds, and here’s basically what my policy is: “I’m an individual, and I’ll treat, respect and judge you as an individual. We don’t owe each other for anyone anyone else did, and we have no right to blame each other for anything anyone else did. You owe me the work I pay you to do, and I owe you the wages you earn, nothing more, nothing less.”
I think that’s the way it should be, and the sooner we all start acting that way, the better everyone will be.
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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out here in rural America if you go into a run down trailer park you will find out the stereotype is real. certainly not 100% but real all the same. people who sit around feeling sorry for theirself, taking whatever drug is handy, nicotine, ethanol, meth, marijuana, whatever they can get their hands on. waiting on their food stamps and cash assistance. both are all gone in two three days and they start waiting again. most of their stealing is from each other. it never stops. promiscuity and incest abound. never make any attempt to do for theirself but whine and cry nonstop about how bad they have it. I have little sympathy for them.
I don't mind helping somebody out of a hole. throwing money and food to them so they can live in the hole is just stupid. Very true.
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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out here in rural America if you go into a run down trailer park you will find out the stereotype is real. certainly not 100% but real all the same. people who sit around feeling sorry for theirself, taking whatever drug is handy, nicotine, ethanol, meth, marijuana, whatever they can get their hands on. waiting on their food stamps and cash assistance. both are all gone in two three days and they start waiting again. most of their stealing is from each other. it never stops. promiscuity and incest abound. never make any attempt to do for theirself but whine and cry nonstop about how bad they have it. I have little sympathy for them.
I don't mind helping somebody out of a hole. throwing money and food to them so they can live in the hole is just stupid. Maybe not. Maybe that is just where they belong, most would fail in the work force anyway and just be a headache to most employers.
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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Anytime you pigeon hole any group based on a perceived notion your going to be more wrong then right often. You see it all of the time on here people will focus on or even search for what they "need" to confirm their created beliefs rather then think beyond what they want to see.
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Anytime you pigeon hole any group based on a perceived notion your going to be more wrong then right often. You see it all of the time on here people will focus on or even search for what they "need" to confirm their created beliefs rather then think beyond what they want to see. What happens when facts back up the notion ?
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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Anytime you pigeon hole any group based on a perceived notion your going to be more wrong then right often. You see it all of the time on here people will focus on or even search for what they "need" to confirm their created beliefs rather then think beyond what they want to see. What happens when facts back up the notion ? "And To you Profitt,I call out bigotry against Indigenous people because my wife and Kids are Cree."
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Again , I appreciate Native's input on this matter .
The reports I've read say that Native women and girls are 10-25 times more likely to be victims of violent crime , specifically rape and murder, than women in any other demographic. Those aren't my numbers .
Secondly, we know that practically all victims of violent crime know their assailant. So, stands to reason that other Natives are the perpetrators.
Again, not Aaron Proffitt's opinion. Facts.
The solution lies directly within the respective communities.
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The Cherokee of Western NC get a dividend from the Casino. A DNA is required to show a distant heritage. Charles , how does that work as, last I'd read , DNA can't be used to establish tribal membership . Elizabeth Warren found this out .
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Anytime you pigeon hole any group based on a perceived notion your going to be more wrong then right often. You see it all of the time on here people will focus on or even search for what they "need" to confirm their created beliefs rather then think beyond what they want to see. What happens when facts back up the notion ? You drive around the Rez pointing fingers at everyone your going to be wrong more then your right a higher percentage of problems per capita that comes with the substance abuse issues yes but not everyone. I have ran into more people trying to make things better then worse over the years but there are a lot of horror stories also but still it's not everyone!
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At this time I’ll ask that everyone keep civil and refrain from taking scalps, women, and children...firewater and horses are fair game though lol
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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Anytime you pigeon hole any group based on a perceived notion your going to be more wrong then right often. You see it all of the time on here people will focus on or even search for what they "need" to confirm their created beliefs rather then think beyond what they want to see. What happens when facts back up the notion ? You be the bigger person and choose to treat people as individuals rather than the stereotype. You control your actions regardless of your opinions OR facts. I could treat every Alaska Native I meet like an alcoholic child molester, and I might be right 40% of the time (more for alcohol), but it wouldn’t do anything to help any problems. I choose, based on my own character, to treat every person as an individual with a blank slate until they show otherwise, regardless of the facts of their heritage, culture or family. What it comes down to, Aaron Proffitt, is whether your own behavior is controlled by statistics or character. Or another way to put it, is your character bigger or smaller than the facts about other people?
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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kenaikid, might as well leave it alone. most of these people have their minds made up about Natives, whether or not they have any first hand knowledge. they watch their westerns, and type in "bad things about indians" on their google machines. But none of them know who we are. virtually none care. for 200 years the most powerful nation on earth has done everything it could to wipe first my people, and then our culture, off the earth. Yet, we remain. generations of my people were forcibly removed from their homes and taken to boarding schools were they were taught it was bad to be indian. brutally beaten for speaking our own language, and made to dress and act like "civilized" whites. But despite all that, i am a fluent speaker. Federal and State law made it illegal for us to practice our faith until 1978. Yet many of us still know what we believe and why. many states barred us from voting until 1957. Now there are native governers, and senators, and Representatives. It is in the darkest part of night that the lights shine brightest. and the same is true of the reservations. While there is undeniable darkness, it brings out some of the best people God has ever graced this earth with. Grandmas who raise 12 grandchildren with dignity and grace. never complaining, never failing. Women who have been the victims of unspeakable attrocities who stand back up to help others in the same boat. So you people can sit at your computers and talk about whats wrong with us all you want. If guns and cannons and prisons didnt break us then surely some stereotypes on a forum wont get me down. I am Proud of who i am. and i am Proud to call myself Lakota, because we are without a doubt some of the toughest and most stubborn and resilient people anywhere on earth.
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most of these people have their minds made up about Natives... Seems as though you've ran into a few bad apples and used that as a basis to form an opinion about the majority... There's a word for that. Mike
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Kenai and Native , while you bring up fair points, it still doesn't address the issue .
Native, just so you're aware, I don't research Native issues. I live in Indian country . House sits in the Comanche Nation. The story that brought this to mind was on NPR's website same day i initiated this thread. But it's been a local story for awhile.
But in the articles I've read, not once does any tribe take ownership of the problem. None. Lots of reasons for the behavior , no one wanting to own the problem. Lots of fingers being pointed , though.
That's a problem.
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Definition of insanity. " doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results”
People (individuals) need to help themselves.
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kenaikid, might as well leave it alone. most of these people have their minds made up about Natives, whether or not they have any first hand knowledge. they watch their westerns, and type in "bad things about indians" on their google machines. But none of them know who we are. virtually none care. for 200 years the most powerful nation on earth has done everything it could to wipe first my people, and then our culture, off the earth. Yet, we remain. generations of my people were forcibly removed from their homes and taken to boarding schools were they were taught it was bad to be indian. brutally beaten for speaking our own language, and made to dress and act like "civilized" whites. But despite all that, i am a fluent speaker. Federal and State law made it illegal for us to practice our faith until 1978. Yet many of us still know what we believe and why. many states barred us from voting until 1957. Now there are native governers, and senators, and Representatives. It is in the darkest part of night that the lights shine brightest. and the same is true of the reservations. While there is undeniable darkness, it brings out some of the best people God has ever graced this earth with. Grandmas who raise 12 grandchildren with dignity and grace. never complaining, never failing. Women who have been the victims of unspeakable attrocities who stand back up to help others in the same boat. So you people can sit at your computers and talk about whats wrong with us all you want. If guns and cannons and prisons didnt break us then surely some stereotypes on a forum wont get me down. I am Proud of who i am. and i am Proud to call myself Lakota, because we are without a doubt some of the toughest and most stubborn and resilient people anywhere on earth. "1.Victim Identity. Quit telling people how bad you have it. Quit making it a goal to convince people that you had it as bad or worse than someone else. No matter what color you are or how hard you really did have it. If you feel that you need to explain your poverty or disadvantage to someone to explain your identity, then you have a victim identity complex, and you’re just as pathetic no matter what color you are. I’m straight, white, blue collar conservative male and I’m sick to the gills of hearing how “persecuted” straight white conservative males are. It doesn’t matter if it’s true! When did we become such whiners?? Once upon a time men took pride in overcoming disadvantages and wanted to be known for success, so they would downplay their hardships and brag about their victory, because that’s how they wanted to be identified. Today it seems that everyone just wants to win the moaning contest. We as a culture need to grow some pride again."
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Re: White guilt and the elephant in the room
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Like I said , and I wasn’t necessarily pointing out natives or our homegrown welfare recipients. I don’t live near a reservation but I think it must be more difficult for true natives to break the cycle. Here, they don’t want out of the system. It’s womb to tomb coverage. Free dental, medical, groceries, HUD rent, not just EBT cards but cash too electronically going into their accounts at one am first day of the month. Some get a nice 4,000 to 8,000 dollar check around tax time for money they “ could have made” if they worked. It’s called an earned income tax credit check. It’s like a lot of other govt. handouts and the wording is changed to make it sound better, SSI sounds better than welfare, EBT sounds a lot like DEBIT. Many work for cash while drawing a disability check at the same time. There is just no incentive like going hungry or desire to make something more of themselves. The govt. has told them they’re a victim of poverty and just stay there unless the drive and desire to escape it is kindled and a fire gets under their butts. I’ve seen very, very few break the cycle. No pride is there. They have a network like the dogs barking on 101 Dalmatians if there’s something being handed out, given away or some ne program at the social security office to sign up on. Sorry, it’s just one of my three or so pet peeves.
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Savell that pic looks Gay. Were you in that band the Village people,lol.
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Like I said , and I wasn’t necessarily pointing out natives or our homegrown welfare recipients. I don’t live near a reservation but I think it must be more difficult for true natives to break the cycle. Here, they don’t want out of the system. It’s womb to tomb coverage. Free dental, medical, groceries, HUD rent, not just EBT cards but cash too electronically going into their accounts at one am first day of the month. Some get a nice 4,000 to 8,000 dollar check around tax time for money they “ could have made” if they worked. It’s called an earned income tax credit check. It’s like a lot of other govt. handouts and the wording is changed to make it sound better, SSI sounds better than welfare, EBT sounds a lot like DEBIT. Many work for cash while drawing a disability check at the same time. There is just no incentive like going hungry or desire to make something more of themselves. The govt. has told them they’re a victim of poverty and just stay there unless the drive and desire to escape it is kindled and a fire gets under their butts. I’ve seen very, very few break the cycle. No pride is there. They have a network like the dogs barking on 101 Dalmatians if there’s something being handed out, given away or some ne program at the social security office to sign up on. Sorry, it’s just one of my three or so pet peeves. All good posts Kytrapper. I've seen the same situations here. As truly caring individuals that want to help the less fortunate, how can we correct this problem and not perpetuate it? Other than knowing that you are created for a purpose, or starvation, I do not know how to create a desire of making something for yourself in the hearts and minds of some people.
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kenaikid, might as well leave it alone. most of these people have their minds made up about Natives, whether or not they have any first hand knowledge. they watch their westerns, and type in "bad things about indians" on their google machines. But none of them know who we are. virtually none care. for 200 years the most powerful nation on earth has done everything it could to wipe first my people, and then our culture, off the earth. Yet, we remain. generations of my people were forcibly removed from their homes and taken to boarding schools were they were taught it was bad to be indian. brutally beaten for speaking our own language, and made to dress and act like "civilized" whites. But despite all that, i am a fluent speaker. Federal and State law made it illegal for us to practice our faith until 1978. Yet many of us still know what we believe and why. many states barred us from voting until 1957. Now there are native governers, and senators, and Representatives. It is in the darkest part of night that the lights shine brightest. and the same is true of the reservations. While there is undeniable darkness, it brings out some of the best people God has ever graced this earth with. Grandmas who raise 12 grandchildren with dignity and grace. never complaining, never failing. Women who have been the victims of unspeakable attrocities who stand back up to help others in the same boat. So you people can sit at your computers and talk about whats wrong with us all you want. If guns and cannons and prisons didnt break us then surely some stereotypes on a forum wont get me down. I am Proud of who i am. and i am Proud to call myself Lakota, because we are without a doubt some of the toughest and most stubborn and resilient people anywhere on earth. "1.Victim Identity. Quit telling people how bad you have it. Quit making it a goal to convince people that you had it as bad or worse than someone else. No matter what color you are or how hard you really did have it. If you feel that you need to explain your poverty or disadvantage to someone to explain your identity, then you have a victim identity complex, and you’re just as pathetic no matter what color you are. I’m straight, white, blue collar conservative male and I’m sick to the gills of hearing how “persecuted” straight white conservative males are. It doesn’t matter if it’s true! When did we become such whiners?? Once upon a time men took pride in overcoming disadvantages and wanted to be known for success, so they would downplay their hardships and brag about their victory, because that’s how they wanted to be identified. Today it seems that everyone just wants to win the moaning contest. We as a culture need to grow some pride again." Actually I was talking to both of you Dirt. What did you pay for your house? Who paid your medical bills? My kids were not even born in a hospital. They didn't go to a government provided school. We had a pitcher pump and used an out house. Lived in a 12X16 log cabin. Wife used to wash cloths in a 5 gallon bucket with a toilet plunger. You are barking up the wrong tree here.
Yet, I seem not to have all these poverty related issues.
BTW i worked my way up to a higher level of poverty since them early years.
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I remember when somebody said this.
" It is a symptom of poverty. Period."
I took that as an insult.
I'm not bragging that I'm poor. I'm pointing out that poverty does not make you abuse women or be an alcoholic, etc.
BTW It is my fault that I'm poor. Nobody else is responsible.
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