Re: parents
[Re: Trapper Dahlgren]
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01/02/20 04:42 PM
01/02/20 04:42 PM
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Joined: Aug 2011
Posts: 45,261 james bay frontierOnt.
Boco
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I wont be a burden on my kids,they already told me as soon as I cant look after myself they'll put me straight in the old age home.
Forget that fear of gravity-get a little savagery in your life.
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Re: parents
[Re: Trapper Dahlgren]
#6714339
01/02/20 04:55 PM
01/02/20 04:55 PM
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Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 4,907 PA
elkaholic
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I'm not judging my sister , she is here now an helping , she just miss two years, she could have been seeing mom when she was good , My apologies I misunderstood.
Millions of trees die every year to print environmentalist publications
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Re: parents
[Re: Trapper Dahlgren]
#6714447
01/02/20 07:11 PM
01/02/20 07:11 PM
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Joined: Nov 2015
Posts: 16,951 OH
Catch22
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When our Mama got bad sick, and she was a champ, one tough broad I will tell ya. I from personal experience disagree with the "Hospice". I do know it may be different in other area's. Here I found them to be false caring, they are kill them, kill them squads. I was Mama's legal guardian of her medical treatment and constantly fought them to keep Mama's wishes. My advice to anyone who has a dying parent, follow their wishes and don't give in to Hospice, I did and am glad I did.
I wonder if tap dancers walk into a room, look at the floor, and think, I'd tap that. I wonder about things.....
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Re: parents
[Re: Catch22]
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01/02/20 07:37 PM
01/02/20 07:37 PM
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Joined: Nov 2015
Posts: 16,951 OH
Catch22
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When our Mama got bad sick, and she was a champ, one tough broad I will tell ya. I from personal experience disagree with the "Hospice". I do know it may be different in other area's. Here I found them to be false caring, they are kill them, kill them squads. I was Mama's legal guardian of her medical treatment and constantly fought them to keep Mama's wishes. My advice to anyone who has a dying parent, follow their wishes and don't give in to Hospice, I did and am glad I did. I feel the need to say this, my Sisters, all that was left put their lives on hold and took care of Mama 24/7. They are my Heroes. I had to fight them too, just like hospice. Mama has been gone since 3-21-18. We faught and I made sure Mama's wishes came in to fruition. We all text or call one another everyday, I love them with all I got. OP, you can't let any other things become part of the equation, do what it takes, nothing else matters. Blessings man!
I wonder if tap dancers walk into a room, look at the floor, and think, I'd tap that. I wonder about things.....
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Re: parents
[Re: Trapper Dahlgren]
#6714516
01/02/20 08:51 PM
01/02/20 08:51 PM
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Joined: Nov 2019
Posts: 464 N.W. Pennsylvania
JTaddeo
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Wish I'd have been closer with my pops.........good vibes to you brother...
Keep your boots dry and your powder too.
I remember when a fur check was reality.....now I'm just trapping for the love of it.
Best Regards,
JT
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Re: parents
[Re: Trapper Dahlgren]
#6714618
01/02/20 10:15 PM
01/02/20 10:15 PM
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Joined: Dec 2010
Posts: 34,751 Central, SD
Law Dog
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Praying for the best Cuz tough choices your call but honor her wishes if you can.
Was born in a Big City Will die in the Country OK with that!
Jerry Herbst
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Re: parents
[Re: Catch22]
#6714886
01/03/20 02:21 AM
01/03/20 02:21 AM
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Joined: May 2011
Posts: 16,511 Oakland, MS
yotetrapper30
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When our Mama got bad sick, and she was a champ, one tough broad I will tell ya. I from personal experience disagree with the "Hospice". I do know it may be different in other area's. Here I found them to be false caring, they are kill them, kill them squads. I was Mama's legal guardian of her medical treatment and constantly fought them to keep Mama's wishes. My advice to anyone who has a dying parent, follow their wishes and don't give in to Hospice, I did and am glad I did. I feel the need to say this, my Sisters, all that was left put their lives on hold and took care of Mama 24/7. They are my Heroes. I had to fight them too, just like hospice. Mama has been gone since 3-21-18. We faught and I made sure Mama's wishes came in to fruition. We all text or call one another everyday, I love them with all I got. OP, you can't let any other things become part of the equation, do what it takes, nothing else matters. Blessings man! Oddly, I agree with catch22 again. Once your parents are gone, they're gone. They gave you 18 years of their life. How can you give them any less of yours?
~~Proud Ultra MAGA~~
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Re: parents
[Re: Trapper Dahlgren]
#6714952
01/03/20 07:51 AM
01/03/20 07:51 AM
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Joined: May 2010
Posts: 28,978 potter co. p.a.
pcr2
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on a good note I'm going back up north to get my wife today , she has weekend off an wants to come see mom enjoy the time you have,my wife was the backbone taking care of my mom.
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Re: parents
[Re: Trapper Dahlgren]
#6715504
01/03/20 07:27 PM
01/03/20 07:27 PM
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Joined: Apr 2010
Posts: 1,070 South Central Wisconsin
Nelly
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I will try to keep this long story short. My mother took in both of my Grandmothers and cared for them when they couldn't live on their own anymore. She then looked after Dad when his health began to decline. After Dad died and our boys were out of the house, she asked us if we would be interested in moving in with her and purchasing the house that I grew up in. We decided to do so. Fortunately I had sisters who helped out with her finances and health care issues. It wasn't easy, but she got to live out her days in the house where she raised her family and I wound up with the place that I always considered to be home.
I'm just a soul whose intentions are good. O Lord please don't let me be misunderstood.
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