Re: How do you
[Re: HobbieTrapper]
#6721618
01/08/20 10:15 PM
01/08/20 10:15 PM
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akroper
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akroper
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Start when they are 20 months old.
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Re: How do you
[Re: HobbieTrapper]
#6721621
01/08/20 10:17 PM
01/08/20 10:17 PM
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bleeohio
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bleeohio
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Kick them out when they are 16.
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Re: How do you
[Re: amspoker]
#6721631
01/08/20 10:24 PM
01/08/20 10:24 PM
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Joined: Dec 2008
Posts: 28,715 Eastern Shore of Maryland
HobbieTrapper
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"Chippendale Trapper"
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"Chippendale Trapper"
Joined: Dec 2008
Posts: 28,715
Eastern Shore of Maryland
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Start when they are 20 months old. Unfortunately he didn’t have those parents. Kick them out when they are 16. Actually his Mother bailed on him. Send them to a third world country. Spent some time in jail, that’s as close as he’ll get to third world.
-Goofy-
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Re: How do you
[Re: HobbieTrapper]
#6721689
01/08/20 11:18 PM
01/08/20 11:18 PM
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Joined: Sep 2008
Posts: 6,696 Newark, Ohio 83 years
Actor
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trapper
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Posts: 6,696
Newark, Ohio 83 years
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If he is living with you and you are paying his bills, make him do chores or what ever you need. If t do them you feed him, don't do his laundry make him do everything for himself. Then explain to him that when he learns to be grateful what he has and you do and have done for him. Maybe he will understand.
Garry-
“Don't pick a fight with an old man. If he is too old to fight, he'll just kill you.”
Have been trapping 77 years…
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Re: How do you
[Re: HobbieTrapper]
#6721807
01/09/20 01:56 AM
01/09/20 01:56 AM
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Joined: Sep 2013
Posts: 18,587 Green County Wisconsin
GREENCOUNTYPETE
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is he willing to listen? it might just take explaining it to him.
but he needs a few harsh realities he probably missed along the way to help understand.
1 The world owes you nothing , I don't care who you are or how bad you have it the world owes you nothing
if approach things with the idea that the world , society ect , owes you any thing or is in any way indebted to you , you will never understand gratitude.
2. there is NO free Lunch , everything costs some body something
if you are not paying you are the product or the beneficiary of charity
if you aren't grateful for charity , you will soon loose the charity.
America only has one issue, we have a Responsibility crisis and everything else stems from it.
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Re: How do you
[Re: GREENCOUNTYPETE]
#6721855
01/09/20 06:25 AM
01/09/20 06:25 AM
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Joined: Dec 2008
Posts: 28,715 Eastern Shore of Maryland
HobbieTrapper
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"Chippendale Trapper"
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"Chippendale Trapper"
Joined: Dec 2008
Posts: 28,715
Eastern Shore of Maryland
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is he willing to listen? it might just take explaining it to him.
but he needs a few harsh realities he probably missed along the way to help understand.
1 The world owes you nothing , I don't care who you are or how bad you have it the world owes you nothing
if approach things with the idea that the world , society ect , owes you any thing or is in any way indebted to you , you will never understand gratitude.
2. there is NO free Lunch , everything costs some body something
if you are not paying you are the product or the beneficiary of charity
if you aren't grateful for charity , you will soon loose the charity.
This is where things are. I appreciate everybody’s response.
-Goofy-
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Re: How do you
[Re: HobbieTrapper]
#6722022
01/09/20 10:11 AM
01/09/20 10:11 AM
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Joined: Aug 2008
Posts: 16,271 ny
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Its not too late.Actually between 20 and 23 is about normal when boys start to figure out the real world these days.Figured things out much younger than that when I was growing up.Keep them off the drugs is a biggy these days.Good luck Hobbie.Don't give up.
the wheels of the gods turn very slowly
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Re: How do you
[Re: HobbieTrapper]
#6722049
01/09/20 10:26 AM
01/09/20 10:26 AM
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Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 29,880 williamsburg ks
danny clifton
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"Grumpy Old Man"
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With a pipe wrench. Beat him about the shoulders and buttocks for a few minutes and he will be grateful when you stop.
Those who would give up essential liberty, to purchase a little temporary safety, deserve neither liberty nor safety. Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790)
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Re: How do you
[Re: HobbieTrapper]
#6722054
01/09/20 10:31 AM
01/09/20 10:31 AM
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Joined: May 2010
Posts: 28,978 potter co. p.a.
pcr2
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"Twerker"
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Posts: 28,978
potter co. p.a.
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i'm blessed.
23 yr old is a Staff Seargent in Minot.
and my 20 yr old is doing 14-12 hr day building well locations in W.Virginia.
i certainly do see a lot of what you speak of though and feel sorry for them as usually it isn't their fault.
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