Re: Anyone else have grouchy days?
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10/21/20 07:13 PM
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I am a a-hole most days i guess I always figured it was from all the swelling I had on my brain when I had a bad wreck at 17. People say I never was the same again. But I can't even imagine what I would be like if I was to lose my child. You are for sure a better man then me O I had head injuries to from the same wreck my son was killed in head trauma is no joke.19 year old ran a red light at 65mps in a 3/4 ton and t boned us mainly hitting my sons door.. I had a Spinal fluid leak out of my ear fractured skull, concussion of course. ,Was on a walker 5 months. Swelling in his skull is what killed my son ultimately. It ruptured/ blew out his spinal column from the pressure. I'm glad your was not as bad and your ok mostly. I had a basal skull fracture and was in Icu 9 days. Thats would be a terrible thing to go through with your son. Lucky I had dropped off my buddy and my girlfriend before I had my wreck. It was my fault fell asleep ran into a creek went head first through the wind shield. They say when a guy fround me I was standing beside my truck that was upside-down and was saying it won't start. I didn't know my name or where I was till I got life flight and woke up in the icu. For the most part I am ok just get up set easily especially with family.
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Re: Anyone else have grouchy days?
[Re: Providence Farm]
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10/21/20 08:15 PM
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furstroker
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Been about every one lately. In a spot im having trouble climbing out of, injury and work related. But, i had my head beat in by football long ago, for a long time, which doesnt help. Something's not right and no one can tell ya to "work it off." It's good if you can talk to someone, and therein lies my problem. Cant find anyone i can identify with, without airing my stuff on the web, which i wont do. Old school like that. Ill talk to ya bud if ya want. Im way to angry for what i have. People don't get it. Holler if ya want. Aint got no other people to talk to.
Sorry about your son...no experience with that. Cant imagine.
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Re: Anyone else have grouchy days?
[Re: Providence Farm]
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10/21/20 08:47 PM
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The question my wife would ask is not that I have an occasional grouchy day, but do I ever not have one?
------------------------------------- DJT & MTG in 2024!
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Re: Anyone else have grouchy days?
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10/21/20 08:59 PM
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A good reminder that no matter what, someone is having an even worse day than you. I try to remind myself of that and count my blessings but we all have bad days. This is truth, but sometimes its hard to care about anyone else, when its hard to care about yourself.
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Re: Anyone else have grouchy days?
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10/21/20 09:35 PM
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Actor
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Most of mine are any more and the older I get the more I have.
Garry-
“Don't pick a fight with an old man. If he is too old to fight, he'll just kill you.”
Have been trapping 77 years…
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Re: Anyone else have grouchy days?
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10/21/20 10:36 PM
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My wife tells me that I used to be called that mean guy at the feed store. She finally had enough one day and told me straight out you are being a - Opened my eyes and she said that I am nicer now. Very sorry about your loss. No parent should have to outlive a child.
The real Wally
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Re: Anyone else have grouchy days?
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10/22/20 06:56 AM
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I can understand some of your pain , my parents loss a boy a 2 month old , 1964 , and a son of 13 in 1970 , dad was never the same he crawl in to the bottle and never came out , mom was tough she took care of us kids an dad , I don't know if I could handle loosing a child as far as a bad day I wake up an tell myself its a great day I'M alive , as some of you know I've been thru a lot , and I feel blessed to still be on this earth , there are a lot of people worse off than me ,
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Re: Anyone else have grouchy days?
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10/22/20 07:05 AM
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Mark June
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From a medical perspective anxiety, depression, and more is: anger turned inward. Everyone is unique in their life story but there are helps for anger turned inward situations.
Blessings, Mark
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Re: Anyone else have grouchy days?
[Re: Providence Farm]
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10/22/20 07:35 AM
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My thoughts and prayers are with you guys that have lost a child. I cannot imagine nor do I want to. I’m a grouchy guy this time of year and realize it. I try not to be but just am. There is a great book on being happy.”Happiness is A Serious Problem” by Dennis Prager. The main point of the book is that it’s our moral obligation to be happy and bring happiness to others. Act happy even when you’re not. I should read it once a month!!
Everything the left touches it destroys
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Re: Anyone else have grouchy days?
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10/22/20 07:52 AM
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goatman
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I seem to be in a combative irritated completely hostile mental state today and I can't seem to shake it. It's an odd feeling for me and I don't like it. There is no determinable reason either. ( light bulb just came on) Well unless it's my October funk just running a bit behind. (16 month old son was killed Oct 7 several years back) Well hot dog thats probably it.
Anyone else have days like that. Providence I'm in the same boat as you. Lost a son myself and you have no reason to not have a bad day around the bad time. Really sad leading up to the day and anger afterwards. Been 15 years now and ain't any easier. Just get off by yourself and loved ones. Sometimes I have to stay away from everyone for the day. Grandkids help. If you don't have any I hope you do in the future. Stay busy.
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