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Lost dad Monday #7352740
09/10/21 09:53 PM
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Clayborn Offline OP
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My dad passed away Monday, he was only 68. We worked together everyday on the ranch,it's been a rough last couple days. Does it ever get any easier?

Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352743
09/10/21 09:54 PM
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Sorry to hear of your loss. Your father was in my age bracket. I hope your family and friends are there for you.

Jim


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Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352744
09/10/21 09:55 PM
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Sorry to hear. I have been in your shoes and know how you feel. Eventually you will quit hurting and start smiling at the memories. Hang in there!

Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352748
09/10/21 09:58 PM
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Clayborn i won't say eaiser but it does change. Lost my dad when he was 52 . That was 27 years ago and still miss him dearly however the grief is mostly over shadowed by the great memories and things he taught me.

I say a prayer for you and yours tonight.

God bless

Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352749
09/10/21 09:59 PM
09/10/21 09:59 PM
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New York border
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Sorry for your loss , prayers sent for your family.


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Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352751
09/10/21 10:00 PM
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Sorry for your loss. I’m about the same age as your father. Lost my dad years ago it hurt bad but embrace your family. Prayers sent

Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352752
09/10/21 10:01 PM
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Minnesota
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So Sorry, hold on to what trapdog said^^^


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Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352769
09/10/21 10:15 PM
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Sorry for your loss.
It was rough losing my dad 7.5 years ago.

Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352772
09/10/21 10:19 PM
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It does not necessarily get easier but the human mind has a way of getting you used to it and settling your thoughts. My dad passed in '97. Is it easier? I still wish he was here but my brain has healed me to the fact that is not possible so you have to go forward.


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Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352775
09/10/21 10:21 PM
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Lost my dad in 2009. Wow i had to sit and realize its been that long when i typed that. He was 59, i was 26. Completely unexpected-i was working. Mom called and i remember vividly not wanting to answer because something felt off. She was screaming saying they just put him in the ambulance. He was dead before that tho. I almost drove into the ditch. I made the 2 hour drive in an hour 15 to the hospital to see him. The next 3-4 years were not great -a lot of dreams, thoughts. Numbness. Was told by a few close to me i changed-a little meaner.
To answer your question yes it does get better. It along with other things has changed me. I have found myself a lot more numb to what many people would feel sadness for. He had a ton of trapping crap and just other stuff. He was quite organized, yet never threw anything away. I have yet to be able to part with his things that i kept, and some has zero monetary value and ill probably never use it. Maybe someday. I also find myself checking with “his beliefs/standards” in my mind before making some decisions. Maybe thats everyone once they reach a certain age, im not sure. I can tell you i havent missed a trapping or turkey season since he passed as those were his two passions. Wasnt that big of deal to me before that. You will find your own ways to honor him in time. And you dont have to tell a soul why/when you do it. Youll just know he knows. PM if you ever have any questions or anything.

Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352781
09/10/21 10:29 PM
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sorry for your loss


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Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352787
09/10/21 10:33 PM
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Sorry for your loss. I believe you will have an opportunity to reunite.


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Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352800
09/10/21 10:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Clayborn
My dad passed away Monday, he was only 68. We worked together everyday on the ranch,it's been a rough last couple days. Does it ever get any easier?


Not right now Clayborn. Not right now.
Suffering during a loss like you're going through is different for everyone who goes through it.
PM me if you care to. I support many families before, during, and after the dear loss of a loved one.
Right now, it's healthy to be right where you say you are.


Blessings,
Mark

Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352802
09/10/21 10:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Clayborn
My dad passed away Monday, he was only 68. We worked together everyday on the ranch,it's been a rough last couple days. Does it ever get any easier?


So sorry for your loss. For me, time did lessen the pain from the loss, but it never went away completely.



Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352807
09/10/21 10:48 PM
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Sorry for your loss. My Dad was about the same age when we lost him 13 years ago.
The pain eases over the years or I should say it changes some.
May God bring you and yours comfort in this difficult time.

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Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352812
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Very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.


Todd
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Sorry for your loss. We each have our own way and time table for our grief. I wouldn't say it ever gets easy but we find our own way to settle it so we can move on.


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Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352819
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My thoughts and strength to you and your family. Always remember the good times.

Moosetrot

Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352821
09/10/21 11:06 PM
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Prayers from Va...
It gets easier but never goes.away.


Donnie

Re: Lost dad Monday [Re: Clayborn] #7352832
09/10/21 11:20 PM
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Dads are hard to replace...unfortunately I have lost both my Dad, and my StepDad, both were very dear to me. Yes, it does get easier, but no, it never makes sense...just do your best to live by their standards, and keep their memory alive! My condolences!


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