Got asked to do a welfare check on neighbor...
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04/27/22 11:39 PM
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ANd...he was deceased. The person who asked me to check in on him thought that he might have Covid. He was a Vietnam vet and a guy I've known since 1985. President of the local gun club and an all round decent guy. He had probably been dead for a couple of days.
My fear of moving stairs is escalating!
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Re: Got asked to do a welfare check on neighbor...
[Re: beaverpeeler]
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04/27/22 11:48 PM
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No doubt. Im also glad one of his kids or grandkids didn't have to find him like that.
“What’s good for me may not be good for the weak minded.” Captain Gus McCrae- Texas Rangers
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Re: Got asked to do a welfare check on neighbor...
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04/27/22 11:49 PM
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... sounds like he lived a long life and died on his own terms...I hope the same for myself
Insert profound nonsense here
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Re: Got asked to do a welfare check on neighbor...
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04/28/22 12:02 AM
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That’s a tough one…haven’t done that yet.
It is better to die on your feet than to live on your knees.
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Re: Got asked to do a welfare check on neighbor...
[Re: Savell]
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04/28/22 01:48 AM
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... sounds like he lived a long life and died on his own terms...I hope the same for myself
Exactly right. Thanks for those words. He had no immediate family and I recall him saying that he hoped that when he went it would be right there in his little house, no rest home. Got his wish.
My fear of moving stairs is escalating!
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Re: Got asked to do a welfare check on neighbor...
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04/28/22 02:23 AM
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... sounds like he lived a long life and died on his own terms...I hope the same for myself
Exactly right. Thanks for those words. He had no immediate family and I recall him saying that he hoped that when he went it would be right there in his little house, no rest home. Got his wish. Hope I can go the same way. Couple years ago a neighbor did a check on a guy who lived on his own. No one had seen him for quite some time. Guy had passed........over a year before!
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Re: Got asked to do a welfare check on neighbor...
[Re: beaverpeeler]
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04/28/22 06:19 AM
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Mark June
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There's a whole host of brokenness in this story, and as a society with our rituals and way of life, we stop only for a moment and then back to all of it we go. Narry a blink save for a few. Thanks beeverpeeler for looking in on another when asked. Most would not have done that, thinking it too dangerous, or not a priority of any sort.
Where's the broken parts ? Death. A person dying alone.
Are two events that were never meant to be.
Perhaps he is in a restful place now. Our prayers as believers is that all would find that comfort when they die.
Blessings, Mark
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Re: Got asked to do a welfare check on neighbor...
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04/28/22 06:36 AM
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Re: Got asked to do a welfare check on neighbor...
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04/28/22 07:19 AM
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Thank You and I’m sorry for your loss. Welfare checks are not fun.
Looks like he needs another year;-)
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