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Re: Single again? [Re: nvwrangler] #7580939
05/09/22 09:47 PM
05/09/22 09:47 PM
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Turn out the lights, the parties over.

Wishing you the best. Hope I'm wrong.

WS

Re: Single again? [Re: trapdog1] #7580943
05/09/22 09:51 PM
05/09/22 09:51 PM
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Originally Posted by trapdog1
Originally Posted by Gary Benson
Dear Abby.........

Dear Penthouse....

Dear Prudence


"Humans are the hardest people to get along with."
Dr. Phillip Snow
Re: Single again? [Re: nvwrangler] #7580989
05/09/22 10:50 PM
05/09/22 10:50 PM
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So how much did she lose gambling?
Who’s money did she lose?
Who paid for the weekend of female debauchery?
Women are just as crude, crass, vulgar, and low as men.
If she’s so wonderful, why haven’t you already married her?
Lock up the money, credit cards, deeds, power of attorney, and anything that can be squandered.
You can share with her later.

Let us know how Savell’s advice works out. Teach her some manners!


FRAC LIVES MATTER
Re: Single again? [Re: Willy Firewood] #7580991
05/09/22 10:56 PM
05/09/22 10:56 PM
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Posts: 16,511
Oakland, MS
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Originally Posted by Willy Firewood
So how much did she lose gambling?
Who’s money did she lose?
Who paid for the weekend of female debauchery?
Women are just as crude, crass, vulgar, and low as men.
If she’s so wonderful, why haven’t you already married her?
Lock up the money, credit cards, deeds, power of attorney, and anything that can be squandered.
You can share with her later.

Let us know how Savell’s advice works out. Teach her some manners!


Advice from another undoubtedly single man


~~Proud Ultra MAGA~~
Re: Single again? [Re: nvwrangler] #7580998
05/09/22 11:16 PM
05/09/22 11:16 PM
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The Hill Country of Texas
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I can't believe nobody has quoted Bill Bur- that guys gives great relationship advice! whistle


“What’s good for me may not be good for the weak minded.”
Captain Gus McCrae- Texas Rangers


Re: Single again? [Re: nvwrangler] #7580999
05/09/22 11:17 PM
05/09/22 11:17 PM
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That is pretty common behavior, understand that you aren't the only one that has ever experienced it.
Don't try and fix it with logic, because it's not coming from a logical mindset. Real good chance that she doesn't understand it any more than you do.
I went through the same thing and read a bunch of self help books, female psychology, and went to counseling.
I think that I have a fair understanding of it female behavior but I'm not going to write a book about it here.
I read a great article in National Geographic about love years ago. The author came right out and said that love fits the clinical definition of insanity, enough said?
Let's just say that I get along better with my ex wife now that we've both moved on.
I frankly choose to be single now. I date quite often but the idea of having someone else in the house doesn't appeal to me anymore.
I've dated more than one lady that feels the same way about having their own space, getting that out of the way early makes for pretty good bedfellows.
Marriage is really about children and property. The rest of it doesn't need a contract.
Good luck and take care of yourself first. Thats easier said than done sometimes.

Re: Single again? [Re: nvwrangler] #7581000
05/09/22 11:17 PM
05/09/22 11:17 PM
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West Central MN
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If it flys, floats or flirts, it's cheaper to rent.


Common sense is a not a vegetable that does well in everyone's garden.
Re: Single again? [Re: Gary Benson] #7581009
05/09/22 11:26 PM
05/09/22 11:26 PM
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Central Wisconsin
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Originally Posted by Gary Benson
Dear Abby.........



“Dear Abby, dear Abby
My fountain pen leaks
My wife hollers at me and my kids are all freaks
Every side I get up on is the wrong side of bed
If it weren't so expensive I'd wish I were dead
Signed unhappy…
Unhappy”

Well you’ve gotteb a lot of advice on this thread ( and some maybe not so good) ..LOL

On a serious note, I Hope everything works out for the two of you 8 years is a long time.

Re: Single again? [Re: nvwrangler] #7581024
05/10/22 12:46 AM
05/10/22 12:46 AM
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Minnesota
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Originally Posted by nvwrangler
Originally Posted by BernieB.
Sounds like you both need some serious relationship counseling.


To be honest probably do. Just needed to vent and apricate that I can here and maybe get some wisdom from some of the folks here with decades of marriage experience.

36 years here, not as many as others on here.

But best advice I ever got was from 2 different worlds

A divorced Woman who worked at Ballistic products with me. She said "Always Remember what made you fall in Love" ...and second bid came from my Grandfather / Baptist Minister in his 20's & 3o's Then 50 years selling Fuller brush. He said " Ask forgiveness first for your Part in the fight - even if you feel she was 80% at fault. Bite the bullet and Apologize " and before bed.

I hope she sees You're trying ...when fights are bad and there seems no way out. Ask Her "What's my Out" she should give you one...

Scott


NRA and NTA Life Member
www.BackroadsRevised@etsy.com




Re: Single again? [Re: yotetrapper30] #7581034
05/10/22 03:57 AM
05/10/22 03:57 AM
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Originally Posted by yotetrapper30
Originally Posted by Willy Firewood
So how much did she lose gambling?
Who’s money did she lose?
Who paid for the weekend of female debauchery?
Women are just as crude, crass, vulgar, and low as men.
If she’s so wonderful, why haven’t you already married her?
Lock up the money, credit cards, deeds, power of attorney, and anything that can be squandered.
You can share with her later.

Let us know how Savell’s advice works out. Teach her some manners!


Advice from another undoubtedly single man


yotetrapper - you made a bad call here. I am happily married, and so is my wife. And yes to each other for 39 years. In my case, I was extremely selective and “married up”. Funny, my wife says she did the same thing.

There should be a good hard look at responsibility and accountability. It looks like the woman takes the man for granted, does not value him, and has no respect for him.

Maybe Coonman220 Dave could do counseling for them?


FRAC LIVES MATTER
Re: Single again? [Re: nvwrangler] #7581035
05/10/22 04:53 AM
05/10/22 04:53 AM
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Northern lower Michigan
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I was married at 18, just a kid, my wife was 17. During our first slobber knocker fight I was hanging out in the garage at my folks house. I did evening car repair for extra cash. He knew I was frosted. I told him we were fighting. He said "son you better learn, if it has (T--'s) or tire's you're going to have trouble, and have to work on it" Still better than walking. Go fishing!


you're only allowed so many sunrises... I aim to see every one of them!
Re: Single again? [Re: trapdog1] #7581043
05/10/22 05:26 AM
05/10/22 05:26 AM
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Originally Posted by trapdog1
Originally Posted by Gary Benson
Dear Abby.........

Dear Penthouse....

Dr. Ruth Westheimer


NYSTA, NTA, FTA, life member Erie county trappers assn.,life member Catt.county trappers
Re: Single again? [Re: nvjb] #7581045
05/10/22 05:39 AM
05/10/22 05:39 AM
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Philippines, s.e. asia,ohio
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Originally Posted by nvjb
That is pretty common behavior, understand that you aren't the only one that has ever experienced it.
Don't try and fix it with logic, because it's not coming from a logical mindset. Real good chance that she doesn't understand it any more than you do.
I went through the same thing and read a bunch of self help books, female psychology, and went to counseling.
I think that I have a fair understanding of it female behavior but I'm not going to write a book about it here.
I read a great article in National Geographic about love years ago. The author came right out and said that love fits the clinical definition of insanity, enough said?
Let's just say that I get along better with my ex wife now that we've both moved on.
I frankly choose to be single now. I date quite often but the idea of having someone else in the house doesn't appeal to me anymore.
I've dated more than one lady that feels the same way about having their own space, getting that out of the way early makes for pretty good bedfellows.
Marriage is really about children and property. The rest of it doesn't need a contract.
Good luck and take care of yourself first. Thats easier said than done sometimes.

x2

Re: Single again? [Re: 20scout] #7581046
05/10/22 05:40 AM
05/10/22 05:40 AM
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Philippines, s.e. asia,ohio
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Originally Posted by 20scout
If it flys, floats or flirts, it's cheaper to rent.

x2

Re: Single again? [Re: Feedinggrounds] #7581060
05/10/22 06:39 AM
05/10/22 06:39 AM
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New York State
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Feedinggrounds your Dad was SOOOO right! Wish I'd gotten that advice when I got married at 18....

Re: Single again? [Re: nvwrangler] #7581065
05/10/22 06:46 AM
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This thread needs a George Jones song.....


James 1: 19-20
Re: Single again? [Re: nvwrangler] #7581090
05/10/22 07:17 AM
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So we are gonna quit with the great relationship advice and just cheer Wrangler up?
Ok he is my contribution




“What’s good for me may not be good for the weak minded.”
Captain Gus McCrae- Texas Rangers


Re: Single again? [Re: nvwrangler] #7581119
05/10/22 07:59 AM
05/10/22 07:59 AM
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Only a few things in this life you really have control over, figure out what they are and try to do them the best u can and give the rest to God. Really simplifies life for me.

Re: Single again? [Re: nvwrangler] #7581122
05/10/22 08:03 AM
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Just talk it out immediately, never go to bed with any dispute on the table! Don't let up until its handled for the good or bad! Got married at 22 after dating for 5 years and this will be year 35
for me. We have never slept apart and I never let any dispute go to rest until its over and in the end its was always something stupid when we both gave it some thought!


"The more people I meet the more I love my dog!"
Re: Single again? [Re: nvwrangler] #7581189
05/10/22 09:50 AM
05/10/22 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted by nvwrangler
Originally Posted by GREENCOUNTYPETE
well if you want to keep her

start with , I am not sure what I did or said , but I don't want to lose you and the relationship we have, can we talk this out? if she starts talking start taking notes at lease mental ones.

I don't know much about women but admitting you don't know what you did or didn't do and asking to talk it out works better than silence.





When she came home last night I asked if she wanted to talk and got told no and that I knew what I had said . When I told her I didn't know what had her hurt like this , she just said figure it out. Heck this wasn't even one of the nastier fights we've had, really didn't even raise our voices but I said something wrong or what she thought I said really hurt her. No clue other then I know I was wrong on how I handled parts of this.


Sometimes it the tone that you say it in. Words can be very hurtful. Especially when they come from rhe one we love yhe most..

Sometimes also the things that hurt us the most are the things yall never think twice about.

And sometu.es we've had enough and it doesn't take much to send us packing


IF IDIOTS GREW ON TREES THIS PLACE WOULD BE AN ORCHARD !

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