Hopefully this incident will keep her in the city where she belongs
Unless.....they are willing to give the deep dark woods a go .
Years ago a woman I worked around, told me she was raised in a CA big city . Since moving out to Idaho, where I lived at the time, just the trees along town frightened her- too "woodsy" in look for her. She had never been in true wild land . Not once.
She couldn't fathom how anyone could enjoy the wilds of the outback for a picnic, much less two weeks , or more, on walkabout in wilderness areas .
I invited her to the woolly wild lands for a two day outing . A real tent to sleep in...plenty of firearm protection along , all the amenities to make camp enjoyable . The very thought froze her mind, though she kept being intrigued and asking questions , which I answered in short, calm, matter of fact fashion....no big deal....
Her boyfriend, a fireman, was exuberant that she was wanting to try . " I know you have enough guns for safety ", he whispered to me with a wink...
She wanted to see beauty in places that she had only seen in photos , and in this case, would never see even in popular photos , in person.
I told her we would make it fun . Anytime she felt overwhelmed I promised we would break camp and leave to the truck....the door left completely open in choice.
She knew and trusted me so that she would finally want to go .
She was whiter than normal on the drive out ...upon arriving , she stood open mouthed speechless as a wee lass staring up at the silent beauty of very tall cedars and hemlocks . I chose a most majestic old growth stand of my favorite conifers ....you just have to see them in person to feel present in the moment.
A comfy camp, a few short hikes that afternoon, good fresh water, great supper , beverage of choice, helped her relax , to smile at the campfire, making s'mores to eat
and recall the beauties seen from the day . She hardly slept , but was overall comfortable and seemed to like my rifle and pistol better and better , as the artistic wonders they were decorating the inside of the tent.
Next day, she became very much braver and we trekked up the switchback of a mountain and sat in silent awestruck glory at the uninterrupted ranges marching away to the horizon. Not a road or building in sight...only the spot of blue way below of our tent in the valley. " Photos don't even touch this.." is all she finally said.
You could feel the change in her countenance after that...months later.. confidence and happiness coloured her in a new tone dimension.
She told everyone who would stand still long enough of her life alerting event.
" NOW, you're ready for a month on walkabout with lions and tigers and BEARS , in the hunting season !"
For a second that old panic look swept across her face...then a big smile , seeing I was basically joking -for now...she knew she would work up to some more goals met.
Been a long time since I've thought of this event.
Wish they were all wanting to try , as she was....when someone's education and mind expansion changes for better, they in turn, can enforce much good .