Posted By: Gone Trappin.
How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 01:36 AM
Not stupid but mis guided
Posted By: Sprung & Rusty
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 01:38 AM
The person on the left has no idea of what's going on. All that was said was exactly what the media says.
Posted By: Gone Trappin.
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 01:39 AM
I know I don’t want to waste my time arguing but I also don’t him to keep being a tool.
Posted By: Sprung & Rusty
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 01:40 AM
Don't talk to him about politics. Leave that for trapperman. Lol
Posted By: Gone Trappin.
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 01:41 AM
Yeah lol this is kind of a catch 22 if I tell him stuff it could weaken our friendship but if I don’t he’s still very misguided...
Posted By: Catch22
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 01:47 AM
Yeah lol this is kind of a catch 22 if I tell him stuff it could weaken our friendship but if I don’t he’s still very misguided...
Don't bring me into this lol.
Posted By: Gary Benson
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 02:13 AM
If he's your friend, you owe it to him to straighten him out. If he takes it personal, he ain't your friend.
Posted By: Moosetrot
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 03:28 AM
Allow your friend to have his own opinion. Just because his views differ from yours does not mean he's stupid.
Moosetrot
Posted By: mnsota
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 03:35 AM
Allow your friend to have his own opinion. Just because his views differ from yours does not mean he's stupid.
Maybe
Posted By: Gone Trappin.
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 03:42 AM
I did say not stupid but misguided on my post
Posted By: Moosetrot
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 03:45 AM
I guess I must have misunderstood the Title of your post.
Moosetrot
Posted By: OKforester
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 03:48 AM
Well they told you how they feel about the situation, you should respond without being argumentative. There is actually a very effective method to respond in situations like this. You respond with actual facts you can quote from reputable sources. Dale Carnegie calls it disagreeing agreeably, or something like that. Very effective when you can quote facts and the other person is responding based on their emotions.
Posted By: tomahawker
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 12:21 PM
Tell him to wait for someone in his home to take a good stinky dump in the bathroom. They can spray air freshener if they want. Put on his mask and see if he can smell it. He may figure out on his own how effective his mask really is.
Posted By: Diggerman
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 12:32 PM
I would say "now Finster, listen up....."
Posted By: Co�s
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 12:38 PM
Is he stupid or does he have a different opinion than you do? How do you know you're right and he's wrong? We all get our information from other people. Parents, friends, TMan, any of the thousands of news or not news or TV talking heads, radio, etc. Have you vetted all the information you're getting on the virus, or any other topic, down to the original source?
Time is the revelator. You might both be wrong. He might be misguided. You might be dead wrong and learn that later. You might be more right than you know.
It's fine to disagree, if he's being respectful, he's not being stupid, he just doesn't agree with you. It's a two way street.
Posted By: loosegoose
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 12:56 PM
Feel free to engage in lively debate with friends, but understand that you likely won't change minds, and people are more important than politics.
Posted By: Dirt
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 12:58 PM
Well, if you are going to use facts, you are going to have to have some.
John Hopkins Corona data
Posted By: rvsask
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 01:21 PM
Maybe he’s on another forum saying the same thing.
As has been said, no opinion is more valid than the other without data to back it up. You both could likely provide that with enough digging. As is, you’re both throwing out hypotheticals and I’d leave it alone e and discuss something different.
Posted By: Crit-R-Dun
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 01:25 PM
I would say "now Finster, listen up....."
Lol, best humorous post of the day right there.
Posted By: Diggerman
Re: How should I respond to a stupid friend? - 07/20/20 01:50 PM
Those graphs prove without a doubt, that if you live in a state that starts with a W, you should move.