It is crazy here too. A friend is a relator and he says things are going $30,000 over asking and the asking is overpriced. People are also not having home inspections because the next potential buyer won't. I was shocked by the Zillow asking price for our house. It is up $60,000 in the last six weeks.
Most of a realtors job is to get you the most money for your most valuable possession they can. If houses are selling $30,000.00 over the realtors asking price, it seems to me they have done a terrible job pricing your house for you and that you could of very likely got more money still, if they priced your house better. Sellers have to know their market and adapt and change with it.
I sell stuff for a living and raise and lower my prices when needed.
Keith