Im use to hard work,,,having restrictions like that would kill me. Im not use to having help. This also is a family thing in my family. On april 14 they will do the new scan from neck to knees at arteries to determine wether it will be done by open heart surgery or femoral artery. I hope femoral only as I want to be of full use.
Heart surgery at your tender age will take a while to bounce back from.
Perhaps this'll be a great time to allow those who love you to care for you. It's called love. I encourage you to accept it with humility and thanks.
It's not a sign of weakness to ask those who love you for help during your time of surgery and recoup. It's a sign of maturity on how things are supposed to be.
Consider this time as one of those merciful moments - in you and their lives - where deeper love for one another is possible, which if done well, will bring y'all closer together and fuel your tomorrows with greater love for each other.
Blessings,
Mark