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Please pray for my daughter..update

Posted By: cathryn

Please pray for my daughter..update - 05/27/22 01:39 PM

Some of yall are familiar with the posts I've made concerning my daughter's mental health.

She got out of the hospital last Friday after 2 months.

She was diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder bipolar type
Since she's been home she has been as bad or worse than she had been before being admitted.

Yesterday she wandered off on Jerry 5 times while I was at work. We found her setting nshoulder deep in the crick below our house the last time.

She attempted to assault me and threatened that she was going to hurt me. Jerry intervened . We had to go in town last night and do a mental hygiene on her. It's a mental health evaluation against her will.

They approved the petition and the sheriff picked her up.
The last words as she went out he door was mama I freaking hate you.

Its very very hard to get a person mental help in wv.

Ease pray for her and us.

We really need the prayers.
Posted By: 330-Trapper

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 01:46 PM

Prayers
Posted By: Hoosier71

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 01:57 PM

Can't imagine. Prayers for everyone.
Posted By: CTRAPS

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 02:01 PM

Your daughter and family will be in our prayers Cathryn.
Posted By: Turtledale

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 02:02 PM

I'm sorry to hear about your daughters mental health. I will be praying for her and you guys.
Posted By: billy

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 02:13 PM

praying for you and your family
Posted By: AntiGov

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 02:14 PM

Very sad to hear , the loss of your daughter must be horrible , can't even imagine . Prayers for you and her
Posted By: trapdog1

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 02:26 PM

I sure wish I had the power to fix this, as I sure would. You folks hang in there.
Posted By: adam m

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 02:30 PM

Praying.
Posted By: charles

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 02:58 PM

My prayers have been with your family for several years. Mental illness was once in my family.

Mother’s brother returned from the Pacific after WWII with shell shock. He would shout out the window at the “natives”, who he believed were sealing items. He went to the VA with a 100% service related disability. He was hospitalized for 30 years. Electric shock treatments didn’t work. Finally he was prescribed a sedating medicine that controlled his anger moods. He spent the remainder of his 85 years in a rocking chair. He conversed with invisible people and frequently laughed. He was no longer a danger to himself, but did not have a quality of life.

Mental illness is very sad. God bless you.
Posted By: slydogx

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 03:02 PM

Prayers sent. I wish I could do more.
Posted By: Lufkin Trapper

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 03:03 PM

Prayers for your daughter and your family. Hold tight.
Posted By: chas3457

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 03:05 PM

Prayers continue here, as always.






Charlis
Posted By: danny clifton

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 03:19 PM

Cathryn, your in my thoughts. I am glad your daughter is getting treatment. i wish more people understood mental illness is no more of a choice than getting a cold is.
Posted By: gcs

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 03:28 PM

So sorry to hear this... Stay strong.
Posted By: Gary Benson

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 03:55 PM

Prayers sent
Posted By: Boco

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 04:02 PM

God Bless.its possible they may figure out some medications that can calm her down longer term.
Posted By: coop

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 04:28 PM

I've lived some of that life... my prayers for you and your family.
Posted By: mike mason

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 04:30 PM

God bless you and your family. It hurts to know all the grief and pain you and your family are going through.
Posted By: mississippiposse

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 04:42 PM

Prayers sent
Posted By: cathryn

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 05:12 PM

We Jerry is in th hearing testifying. Im outside setting on the curb waiting to be called.
They are treating this situation as a child just being defiant another looking at her mental illness history.

I'll honestly be surprised if the put her in the hospital at all

Thank you guys for the Prayers because we need them
Posted By: DaveP

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 05:19 PM

Prayers sent.
And I'll keep them coming.
Posted By: FairbanksLS

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 05:35 PM

Catharine, my thoughts are with you, your family and most of all your daughter. Hopefully your daughter can get the help she needs.

Keep on Gardening! I understand why you need a place where you can gather your thoughts and turn down the volume.
Posted By: hrdtoflw

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 05:35 PM

Prayers sent. We are going through this also, but with a grandson!
Posted By: Buck (Zandra)

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 05:36 PM

Prayers from our home.Remember it's not your daughter that's yelling at you,its the illness.My mother had Alzheimers,I went to the home where she was staying and when she saw me she grabbed my hair,and started slapping my face.A member of the staff came over to help me get her hand out of my hair,then she started spitting on me.The staff came out and were apologizing for moms behavior but it really didn't bother me,it was the disease talking not her and I knew it.
Posted By: Pawnee

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 05:48 PM

Praying
Posted By: Mac

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 05:58 PM

Prayers sent

Mac
Posted By: Trapper Dahlgren

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/27/22 11:11 PM

prayers sent for all
Posted By: 30/06

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 12:10 AM

Praying for your family, right now. God bless.
Posted By: jeff karsten

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 12:46 AM

Your family is in my prayers
Posted By: Kev56

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 01:12 AM

Prayers sent for your family Cathryn. Praying they can quickly find the right combination of medicines to give your daughter relief.
Posted By: Finster

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 01:19 AM

Prayers sent. Me and my wife are not that far away if you ever need ant help, just let me know.
Posted By: Ohio Wolverine

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 01:31 AM

Prayers for all of you !
I don't know what to say or do to help.
So sorry for all of you ..
Posted By: yotetrapper30

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 01:44 AM

Prayers sent and I hope you get the help you need. Crazy that it's hard to get help for things like that. It should be easy!
Posted By: MT bowhunter

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 03:09 AM

Praying for your and your family. Be sure you and Jerry take a little "Me time" during this ordeal for your own mental sake.
Posted By: Ave

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 03:15 AM

Prayers continue here.
Posted By: Scott__aR

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 04:43 AM

Christine and I are sending prayers for your daughter improved health. Also praying for you and Jerry to find comfort in this stressful time.
Posted By: BTLowry

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 11:51 AM

Praying for her and the both of you.
Posted By: Flipper 56

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 12:07 PM

Prayers sent
Posted By: Sledgehammer

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 12:13 PM

Father God in Heaven, you are an awesome loving and healing God. Please be with Cathryn and her family. Touch her daughter with your healing hands. Grant her healing mercies that she may live fully, and let her and her family know that they are loved. In Jesus' name AMEN!!!
Posted By: Zim

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 01:04 PM

Dad blast it Cathryn, I had really hoped all that was behind you.
Prayers from Patrice and I.

Zim
Posted By: Hunter 1

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 01:34 PM

Prayers sent from Canada.

I hope the situation gets better soon.

Stay stong, we are with you.

Hunter 1
Posted By: bodycount

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 04:14 PM

It is done. Expect results. God is healing as we speak.
Posted By: Computer Hater

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 05:37 PM

Prayers sent
Posted By: cathryn

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 09:02 PM

Thank you everyone.
It's been the hardest 2 days of my life.

My daughter is extremely ill.

We did get her committed and it's at a very good hospital with forensic psychiatrists. She's never been there before so hopefully being in front of a new set of doctors will be a good thing.

She did call me today which I didn't expect. That was a good thing.

At least I know she's safe.

I want each and every one of you that expressed good thoughts and Prayers for her and my family to know I am truly thankful to you.

I really appreciate it.

It's a little hard right now. Jerry is on a selling trip to Minnesota and won't be back till Monday morning.

I'm just keeping busy.
Posted By: Actor

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/28/22 09:39 PM

Be strong cathryn... Missed this before, but will still be sending prayers for all three of you... Praying for peace for all.

Garry-
Posted By: beartooth trapr

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/29/22 12:58 AM

Prayers sent
Posted By: Don Adams

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/29/22 01:16 AM

Prayers sent up!
Posted By: Garryowen

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/29/22 01:38 AM

Prayers sent

Garryowen
Posted By: mississippiposse

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/29/22 02:11 AM

Prayers continue
Posted By: Mike in A-town

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/29/22 02:18 AM

I'm sorry Cathryn. And it isn't just WV... It is nigh on impossible to get someone any kind of mental help anywhere. There are lots of places willing to take your money for outpatient therapy. But getting someone committed for serious disorders is an Herculean task.

I will say a prayer for you and your daughter.

Mike
Posted By: cathryn

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/31/22 11:56 AM

Thank you everyone.

I'm waiting to hear from her therapist or doctor.

We took clothes and toiletries up to her yesterday.

It's about a 2 to 2.5 hour drive from here.

I didn't get to see her but she does have the things she needs so now it's just a waiting game.

Your continued prayers would be greatly appreciated.
Posted By: w side rd 151

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/31/22 12:50 PM

mental illness is a disease just like any other type of medical problem .Many times it is a result of a chemical imbalance .It is treatable but it can be very hard to find the correct medications to help the patient feel better again .You need to trust the doctors but make sure you question everything they say and do .They seldom have all the answers or treatment for what is the cause of the problem to start with. Often in an attempt to cheer up someone that is dealing with mental problems a well meaning person will tell them to cheer up ,or smile or it can't be that bad .For those people struggling thru this type of problem it is not something that you can use willpower to recover. It is good that she is getting help .Too often even when it is known that help is necessary it is not provided
Posted By: Ron Marsh

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/31/22 01:19 PM

Prayer sent.
Posted By: Tom cat

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/31/22 01:27 PM

Prayers sent
Posted By: cathryn

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/31/22 03:38 PM

Originally Posted by w side rd 151
mental illness is a disease just like any other type of medical problem .Many times it is a result of a chemical imbalance .It is treatable but it can be very hard to find the correct medications to help the patient feel better again .You need to trust the doctors but make sure you question everything they say and do .They seldom have all the answers or treatment for what is the cause of the problem to start with. Often in an attempt to cheer up someone that is dealing with mental problems a well meaning person will tell them to cheer up ,or smile or it can't be that bad .For those people struggling thru this type of problem it is not something that you can use willpower to recover. It is good that she is getting help .Too often even when it is known that help is necessary it is not provided

You're right.

He insurance rep told me today that she could easily be in this hospital for a year, if warranted.

She definitely needs help and I'm continuously praying that she gets the help she so desperately needs.

Thank for the additional prayera
Posted By: TurkeyTime

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 05/31/22 05:25 PM

Been praying.
Posted By: cathryn

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 06/04/22 07:30 PM

She's adjusting g but having bad spells where she's had to be sedated. They are considering ECT ..or shock therapy. I'm pretty worried about that

I just wanted to et yall know your prayers have been appreciated.
Posted By: gcs

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 06/04/22 07:44 PM

Guess it's not just W.Virginia where its hard to get help.
My wife just got off the phone with her lifelong friend in Colorado who's son is struggling similarly.
Doctors won't help, police won't help, Kid knows how to play the system.He threatened to kill his mother, then tried to launch himself off the balcony when the cops showed up, finally some crisis manager stepped in and had him committed for eval, Now the hospital wants to release him "cause he's fine"....

Good luck with your daughter.
Posted By: KeithC

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 06/04/22 07:55 PM

Originally Posted by cathryn
She's adjusting g but having bad spells where she's had to be sedated. They are considering ECT ..or shock therapy. I'm pretty worried about that

I just wanted to et yall know your prayers have been appreciated.


I had a guy who worked for me that had some major mental issues. He got accidentally electrocuted working on a stereo and it totally changed how he thought and behaved. It fixed him. The doctors said the shock altered some of the membranes on his brain and changed how his brain worked.

ECT works very well for some people.

I hope they can help your daughter.

Keith
Posted By: Ron Marsh

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 06/06/22 09:31 AM

Continued prayers.
Posted By: upstateNY

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 06/06/22 11:54 AM

Prayers sent
Posted By: cathryn

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 06/06/22 02:22 PM

Originally Posted by gcs
Guess it's not just W.Virginia where its hard to get help.
My wife just got off the phone with her lifelong friend in Colorado who's son is struggling similarly.
Doctors won't help, police won't help, Kid knows how to play the system.He threatened to kill his mother, then tried to launch himself off the balcony when the cops showed up, finally some crisis manager stepped in and had him committed for eval, Now the hospital wants to release him "cause he's fine"....

Good luck with your daughter.


It's the exact same BS here. I'm sorry her friend is going through this. I know exactly what she's going through.

Thanks everyone your prayers are appreciated.
Posted By: Trapper7

Re: Please pray for my daughter - 06/06/22 03:50 PM

Praying for all of you because this is harder on you than it is on her.
May God bless and keep you close.
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