I bought Ethan a Benelli 20 gauge from Canadian Tire. its too loud for him he is going to stick with his 22 for now.
foamies and muffs
and learn how to put the foamies in , lots of kids need you to cut a foamie lengthwise with a razor blade and then they wear half of one in each ear , little ear cannals
roll them up grab ear pull up then insert in canal , then hold in and release the top of ear hold for 30 seconds.
also start with light trap loads get them hitting with that , when game is the target I seldom feel the recoil
really the ideal thing is foam ear plugs with electronic muffs over the top turn the volume up so they can still hear you and game
the howard leighs are the cheapest ones I would go with and the ones I use , they have independent microphones so if it is heard by the right mic it goes tot he right ear more like real hearing.
the auto shut off at 4 hours also so you don't put them on to dead batteries every time you go to use them.
when they auto shut off you roll the wheel to off , wait a couple seconds then back to on and set to desired amplification.
face down tight on the wood and pulled in tight to the shoulder , if they need built up to put their eye int he right spot , foam and hockey tape to build it up.
lots of people don't put their face on wood and get smacked more than recoil