Re: #1 reason for so much divorce
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Yep the change in roles is not the reason people are unhappy in their marriages. Must be some other reason. Its certainly part of it in my opinion. You also have men addicted to porn and video games, women addicted to social media and everyone addicted to legal and or illegal drugs. A culture that emphasis happiness not responsibility. Government taking the fathers role and providing. Combine all that with a court system that can be weponized and you have a pretty nasty cocktail of reasons for high divorce rates.
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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce
[Re: danny clifton]
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I always said that if I ever get the urge to get married, I'll just find a woman I don't like and buy her a house. The older you get, the harder it is to adapt.
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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce
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07/19/22 07:51 AM
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Yep the change in roles is not the reason people are unhappy in their marriages. Must be some other reason. Its certainly part of it in my opinion. You also have men addicted to porn and video games, women addicted to social media and everyone addicted to legal and or illegal drugs. A culture that emphasis happiness not responsibility. Government taking the fathers role and providing. Combine all that with a court system that can be weponized and you have a pretty nasty cocktail of reasons for high divorce rates. If we get down to brass tacks, under the surface of the culture's talking points of "fair" and "equal," we find support for the immoral and a disdain for the moral. Those of us in chaplaincy or pastoral roles, as well as psychology counselors, routinely listen to the life stories of people and what ails them. I can't tell you the last time that someone doing something moral was in a pickle, but I can recall over, and over, and over again those who thought their planned immoral behaviors would never be found out. Happiness was never promised to anyone. I tell that to people all the time who are in a messed up life situation. So men chase and women chase and not many of them are truly living where their feet are.So is it any wonder a man, or a woman becomes jealous of the things their spouse chases and calls it quits? We are made in God's image and God is a jealous God. He uses it for good and we don't know how. So, chase away America! Addictions are dime a dozen in 2022. Pick one the world says. You'll be "happy!" And if that one doesn't make you happy, pick another one, and another one, and another one. Whatever makes you happy is the biggest lie of our time. It wouldn't be so bad if so many people weren't scared from chasing it. Blessings, Mark
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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce
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Why are you getting your news from the liberal news outlet Yahoo?
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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce
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Why are you getting your news from the liberal news outlet Yahoo? Maybe he gets his news from both. No good to be blind in one eye.
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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce
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I think lack of faith has led to a great number of divorces - lack of faith and failure to walk even remotely how the Bible says. Well said.
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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce
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And the Bible will back you up on that!! Dat's the fact Jack!!
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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce
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The reason more people get divorced today is because society doesn’t shun people anymore for not staying with a person they can’t stand, or is abusive.
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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce
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I am not the head of my household. My wife and I are equals. She doesn’t follow me. We walk side by side.
The notion that men are supposed to lord over their families is antiquated and ridiculous. If any man tries to make one of my daughters “subservient” to him I’ll toss him out the door myself, and I won’t open it first.
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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce
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I am not the head of my household. My wife and I are equals. She doesn’t follow me. We walk side by side.
The notion that men are supposed to lord over their families is antiquated and ridiculous. If any man tries to make one of my daughters “subservient” to him I’ll toss him out the door myself, and I won’t open it first. You are taking it wrong. It's a team effort but at the end of the day ther has to be one to be in charge to make the decision when there is a difference of opinion. My wife is my 4 star General but I'm the commander in chief. I don't boss her around or try to make her submit. She submits willingly. I can't make her do anything and I would not want to try. She chooses. If a man is doing his part the Husband,.provider, father, and leader the way God commands him to supporting his family in their life then it's very easy for a woman to follow him. The problem is being that man is impossible without following God and his plan. God made us and knows what we need better than we know ourselves.
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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce
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I am not the head of my household. My wife and I are equals. She doesn’t follow me. We walk side by side.
The notion that men are supposed to lord over their families is antiquated and ridiculous. If any man tries to make one of my daughters “subservient” to him I’ll toss him out the door myself, and I won’t open it first. You are taking it wrong. It's a team effort but at the end of the day ther has to be one to be in charge to make the decision when there is a difference of opinion. My wife is my 4 star General but I'm the commander in chief. I don't boss her around or try to make her submit. She submits willingly. I can't make her do anything and I would not want to try. She chooses. If a man is doing his part the Husband,.provider, father, and leader the way God commands him to supporting his family in their life then it's very easy for a woman to follow him. The problem is being that man is impossible without following God and his plan. God made us and knows what we need better than we know ourselves. YUP
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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce
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So many divorces-----Selfishness!!! Agreed, I would add, I think the biggest reason for divorce, these days anyway, is spoiled brats that are use to getting their way 100% of the time and never learned to compromise or be a gracious looser on occasion. Its a problem everywhere, not just marriage imo
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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce
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07/19/22 10:30 AM
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So from what I read here is the weemens fault . Makes sense. if there were less woman, there would be less divorces. I'll try and explain that to the admiral. .....Wish me luck
Let's go Brandon
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