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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: danny clifton] #7630176
07/19/22 07:31 AM
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Originally Posted by danny clifton
Yep the change in roles is not the reason people are unhappy in their marriages. Must be some other reason.


Its certainly part of it in my opinion. You also have men addicted to porn and video games, women addicted to social media and everyone addicted to legal and or illegal drugs. A culture that emphasis happiness not responsibility. Government taking the fathers role and providing. Combine all that with a court system that can be weponized and you have a pretty nasty cocktail of reasons for high divorce rates.

Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: danny clifton] #7630177
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Hmph...and LOL! ^^^


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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: danny clifton] #7630183
07/19/22 07:48 AM
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I always said that if I ever get the urge to get married, I'll just find a woman I don't like and buy her a house. The older you get, the harder it is to adapt.


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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: Donnersurvivor] #7630184
07/19/22 07:51 AM
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Originally Posted by Donnersurvivor
Originally Posted by danny clifton
Yep the change in roles is not the reason people are unhappy in their marriages. Must be some other reason.


Its certainly part of it in my opinion. You also have men addicted to porn and video games, women addicted to social media and everyone addicted to legal and or illegal drugs. A culture that emphasis happiness not responsibility. Government taking the fathers role and providing. Combine all that with a court system that can be weponized and you have a pretty nasty cocktail of reasons for high divorce rates.


If we get down to brass tacks, under the surface of the culture's talking points of "fair" and "equal," we find support for the immoral and a disdain for the moral.

Those of us in chaplaincy or pastoral roles, as well as psychology counselors, routinely listen to the life stories of people and what ails them.
I can't tell you the last time that someone doing something moral was in a pickle, but I can recall over, and over, and over again those who thought their planned immoral behaviors would never be found out.

Happiness was never promised to anyone. I tell that to people all the time who are in a messed up life situation.
So men chase and women chase and not many of them are truly living where their feet are.
So is it any wonder a man, or a woman becomes jealous of the things their spouse chases and calls it quits?
We are made in God's image and God is a jealous God. He uses it for good and we don't know how.
So, chase away America! Addictions are dime a dozen in 2022. Pick one the world says. You'll be "happy!"
And if that one doesn't make you happy, pick another one, and another one, and another one.

Whatever makes you happy is the biggest lie of our time.
It wouldn't be so bad if so many people weren't scared from chasing it.

Blessings,
Mark

Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: danny clifton] #7630187
07/19/22 07:56 AM
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It may be fun to put all blame on the woman but if the men were doing their job the woman would be more satisfied. Neither party is putting in the work. Society is not helping.

Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: danny clifton] #7630191
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Originally Posted by danny clifton
Women dont want to accept their role as wife and mother and men pretend to be ok with it. A few years down the road it all blows up. Males and females are two different creatures with two different kinds of brain function. Pretending thats not true does not work in most cases.

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/marriage-counselor-reveals-women-number-163940242.html


And the main reason is that only some men wear pants anymore.


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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: danny clifton] #7630195
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Why are you getting your news from the liberal news outlet Yahoo?

Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: danny clifton] #7630203
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Some vows aren't worth the breath it takes to say them. There isn't any divorces in the church. The preacher that has 3 wives really wasn't married before, it was just a practice run.

When you apply for a job, doesn't experience count? Well that applies to marriage too. A woman that gets divorced from a drunk and gambler. She wises up and next time marries a gambler that drinks.

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Originally Posted by Mark June
Why are you getting your news from the liberal news outlet Yahoo?


Maybe he gets his news from both.
No good to be blind in one eye.


Forget that fear of gravity-get a little savagery in your life.
Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: USMC47 🦫] #7630214
07/19/22 08:39 AM
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Originally Posted by USMC47 🦫
I think lack of faith has led to a great number of divorces - lack of faith and failure to walk even remotely how the Bible says.

Well said.


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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: danny clifton] #7630218
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Originally Posted by danny clifton
Women dont want to accept their role as wife and mother and men pretend to be ok with it. A few years down the road it all blows up. Males and females are two different creatures with two different kinds of brain function. Pretending thats not true does not work in most cases.

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/marriage-counselor-reveals-women-number-163940242.html


And the Bible will back you up on that!! Dat's the fact Jack!!


How many lies will people believe before they realize their own idiocy?
Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: danny clifton] #7630256
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The reason more people get divorced today is because society doesn’t shun people anymore for not staying with a person they can’t stand, or is abusive.


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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: danny clifton] #7630260
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That and the foolish notion that men are not to be the head of the household.


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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: danny clifton] #7630264
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Pretty easy to see why after some of these posts.
Why is it only the divorced complain endlessly?
If you had talked with your wife, not to her maybe just maybe....

Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: danny clifton] #7630271
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I am not the head of my household. My wife and I are equals. She doesn’t follow me. We walk side by side.

The notion that men are supposed to lord over their families is antiquated and ridiculous. If any man tries to make one of my daughters “subservient” to him I’ll toss him out the door myself, and I won’t open it first.


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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: Bob] #7630277
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Originally Posted by Bob
I am not the head of my household. My wife and I are equals. She doesn’t follow me. We walk side by side.

The notion that men are supposed to lord over their families is antiquated and ridiculous. If any man tries to make one of my daughters “subservient” to him I’ll toss him out the door myself, and I won’t open it first.


You are taking it wrong. It's a team effort but at the end of the day ther has to be one to be in charge to make the decision when there is a difference of opinion. My wife is my 4 star General but I'm the commander in chief. I don't boss her around or try to make her submit. She submits willingly. I can't make her do anything and I would not want to try. She chooses.

If a man is doing his part the Husband,.provider, father, and leader the way God commands him to supporting his family in their life then it's very easy for a woman to follow him. The problem is being that man is impossible without following God and his plan. God made us and knows what we need better than we know ourselves.

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Originally Posted by Providence Farm
Originally Posted by Bob
I am not the head of my household. My wife and I are equals. She doesn’t follow me. We walk side by side.

The notion that men are supposed to lord over their families is antiquated and ridiculous. If any man tries to make one of my daughters “subservient” to him I’ll toss him out the door myself, and I won’t open it first.


You are taking it wrong. It's a team effort but at the end of the day ther has to be one to be in charge to make the decision when there is a difference of opinion. My wife is my 4 star General but I'm the commander in chief. I don't boss her around or try to make her submit. She submits willingly. I can't make her do anything and I would not want to try. She chooses.

If a man is doing his part the Husband,.provider, father, and leader the way God commands him to supporting his family in their life then it's very easy for a woman to follow him. The problem is being that man is impossible without following God and his plan. God made us and knows what we need better than we know ourselves.


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Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: ScottPhillips] #7630279
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Originally Posted by ScottPhillips
So many divorces-----Selfishness!!!


Agreed, I would add, I think the biggest reason for divorce, these days anyway, is spoiled brats that are use to getting their way 100% of the time and never learned to compromise or be a gracious looser on occasion. Its a problem everywhere, not just marriage imo

Re: #1 reason for so much divorce [Re: danny clifton] #7630280
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So from what I read here is the weemens fault . Makes sense. if there were less woman, there would be less divorces. I'll try and explain that to the admiral. .....Wish me luck


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