Mac
I consider myself a Christian and I could probably right a longer and more accurate list of my flaws than anyone else if that answers your question. My knowledge of these faults made me realize that if there is a Holy God and Heaven after this earthly life (which I believe) then I could never get in with all these faults and that I needed the atonement given to me on the Cross. For the good of my Saviors cause I try to be a better representative but fail regularly. But I hope for his glory I'm doing some better. There are plenty of non Christians that are nicer, kinder and more giving than me but even they aren't good enough to enter into the perfect presence of Heaven based on their own deeds.
You know that works perfectly fine for me and I don't think any more or less of you. I don't know if we have ever met.
My main point is that all groups fail to police them selves. Yet expected something different of others. Then add to that impose their beliefs on others.
In simple terms lot goes back to the old saying. Keep your own house first.. Spend your time watching your own bobber. Don't worry about mine.
I didn't really know my grandmother she died when I was 12?? So not sure what her place was with religion. I do recall her more than once saying. The Lord helps them that help them selves. What I took from that. Was not steal or take from others. It was fix you're self before you try to fix others.
Mac