That’s problem
Only thing that pays is slinging ice cream. That stopped Halloween
Well wife lets me have room and board for other jobs

day job as a phone tech

side hustles a little nuisance trapping and some tree work

stuff I do for me/family so I don't have to work at the first job more than the hours they would let me have.
also I have issues paying people to do things I can do myself unless I really don't have the tools and buying them isn't cost effective, it takes longer than I have to learn how , time or it involves really tall ladders.
firewood , anything home or auto maintenance and repairs , yard work , butchering , appliance repair and about anything else that needs doing.

volunteer stuff , down to 4-H , rifle club and one committee.

stuff I do because I like to
fish , hunt , trap , garden , cook and drink beer.

all that doesn't leave much time to do anything else.

Prison warden
Gandy Dancer on the railroad.
Consultant to Fortune 500 executives.
Roustabout on oil rigs in the North Sea.
Underwater welder and demolition expert.
Trial lawyer
Soothsayer and prognosticator.

Depends how you feel I guess. If you think you’re shorting your loved ones, then hag with them more. I used to be a heavy boozer so I missed a lot of stuff. Now I work so I can do and buy cool stuff and my family benefit from that. Also so I can retire without debt. My trapping jobs are just a tiny nugget in the bag, most of my dough is from answering the phone. Speaking of which, boss called last night asking if I wanted to help move a grain bin this morning. Lift a few lines and then off to the shack for the night.