Darn strait she will be busy in the garden, kitchen and bedroom. Its what makes for a happy woman a mission in life. Need any proof just look at the joy in the weathered faces of the women in the old tin types and black an white picture.

May be ridiculous to you and thats is typical of people today. Trying to project their ideas on others. 8 to 12 was not uncommon not long ago for whites. Still common for Muslims and other people groups. White birth rates are so low we are not even replacing ourselves and will be breed out existence. Personally I encourage large families and traditional families vs discourage them. I have an aunt that has 8. coming frome an only child home how busy their house was was strange but interesting to me. I always looked up to them.

I think it's totally up to the people having children, how many children they have, as long as they don't become a burden to society.

Keith

I didn't realize, until I saw this video you posted, that Les Emerson wrote and performed "Signs" first, thanks. I always thought Bob Dylan wrote it.

Keith

22 years for mine, lol….

That’s great! But shouldn’t your sons and their future wives have a say in how many children they have? Maybe they should have their own opinions on the matter instead you telling them how to live their life and how many children they should have.

I’m all for people having as many as they want, as long as they can feed them and raise them without begging for handouts.

I know folks that have 9, live on a farm and they are great, I also lived next to a group with 12, they were the most entitled folks I knew. Government assistance to feed their kids. Always expecting free stuff because they had so many.

The boys know its up to them. It was part of my attempt to pivot and get them thinking. The first couple of girls they were interested in I could see were going to be loose drama queens and my boys were talking like she may be the one geting set for heart break. I gently explain what the behavior ment and how things would go. Dad didn't know anything of course. Luckily the behavior happened and turned fast and apparent and the boys picked up on it becuse it went along with my heads up. They were not with them a long time so only surface hurt feelings. They have noticed the patterns repeating again and again. To the point the oldest said there is no point they are all the same. Beter off spending my tim hunting fishing and making money for investing and my business.

So I told them its not a wast of time you are just looking for something rare and very difficult to find. Keeping your eyes open there are some out there. Don't get superficial and stuck on looks look for substance. Typical girls are ridiculously easy and while that may seem fun when your young having one that will be there for you and would follow you through (This word is unacceptable on Trapperman) if that is the path you thought best. One willing to put in the work and build with you is much more fulfilling than putting notches on your headboard.

I was serious about a prenuptial if they wanted to get inheritance. But that would not be one sided . If my kids screw up they will get hammered in it. The young lady will be encouraged to have her lawyer draw up a prenuptial that also protects her interest if my kids screw up.

Yeah man, that makes sense.