I told my wife to put my urn on the headboard and think about me every time it rattles. If it falls off I joined in!

Wonder who could stop someone from doing it.

My wife and I both wish to be cremated. She wants hers to be spread out in the Caribbean. She doesn't care where just someplace we liked going. I said put part of mine there and part down where I hunt. It's where my Dad's are and one of my dogs.

My Dad got his wish as that's what he wanted. He grew up very close to where he's at and hunted that entire area all his life. My Uncle took a scrap piece of aluminum and engraved it with his name and a heart and "we miss you". He put it on a red elm that has since fallen over so I put it on the side of the log. I stop there and sit for awhile quite often when I'm out hunting or just out for a walk down there. I'd rather be talking to my Dad down there in a place that's peaceful and both of us liked to be than in some cemetery where no one would visit very often.

My Mom is buried in a cemetery and I stop by a few times a year but I know no one else does. IMO cemeteries are not a place anyone likes to visit. There are millions of burial plots that no one has visited in years. It's pretty sad when you think about it.

I myself don't want to be locked up in a casket, stuck in a vault and buried underground. I'd rather be in the wind seeing what's going on and maybe annoying some people. I guess in the end it won't matter because I'll be dead anyway.