Re: online dating - outdoorsmen
[Re: furgotten]
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01/21/19 02:36 PM
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Got a good buddy who's first wife was a Phillippino. He got rid of her a long time ago but still has plenty of scars. Not emotional but actual physical scars. lol
Poor people have poor ways.
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Re: online dating - outdoorsmen
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01/21/19 02:44 PM
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it puts you in contact with women you know are available and interested in finding somebody. Should read "you think are available" and hope they are interested in really finding someone. I could tell you many true stories of situations where I've had to deal with folks who've used them sites. All I'll type is be very careful. Yes, it is not advisable to wire money to anybody you have not met in person. That goes for rich African uncles as well as online dating. Craigslist too.
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Re: online dating - outdoorsmen
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01/21/19 03:49 PM
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Yes sir
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Yes, it is not advisable to wire money to anybody you have not met in person. That goes for rich African uncles as well as online dating. Craigslist too. There are some clever schemes being ran on them sites...^ tha right derr would be the least of a worry. Of those dozen or so I think I experienced that were scams not one of them hit me up for money, one I could tell they were headed that way but I headed for the hills before we got there. I think most of them are smart enough to have you hooked pretty deep before the start reeling u in. With that said I met some nice ladies on there but you better have your big boy britches on before you get in that game.
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Re: online dating - outdoorsmen
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01/21/19 04:05 PM
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- there are just as many men looking to scam women as there are women looking to scam men!! It works both ways. Fact
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Re: online dating - outdoorsmen
[Re: furgotten]
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01/21/19 04:06 PM
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Get involved in organization that you have an interest in. BE CARFUL! on line. JMO
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Re: online dating - outdoorsmen
[Re: Yes sir]
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01/21/19 04:18 PM
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One thing I'll add DONT click on any link they send you or download anything they tell you to. Very true..That's a big one, lots of active clients running through computers gathering info. Many times the individual sending you the link is just the "worker" and will get a fee just by getting you to download a server. The info they receive through that server will most likely go to the real individual who will benefit from the info the most if anything of value comes back.
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Re: online dating - outdoorsmen
[Re: furgotten]
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01/21/19 06:57 PM
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Quite a wide range of responses so far , which is what I was looking for and I thank each and every one of you . will soon be 57 years of age and im pretty sure there's enough undamaged , heart , mind and soul to endure another serious relationship or two . in an ideal situation one would be inclined to think such sites could shorten the route to positive match. any more opinions or experiences to share out there in happy trapper land ?
Gone will be those whom have allowed themselves to be disillusioned beyond their primal instincts.
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Re: online dating - outdoorsmen
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01/21/19 07:00 PM
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LOL bow hunter that's a great outcome , congrats to you and yours , and praise be for the lord !
Gone will be those whom have allowed themselves to be disillusioned beyond their primal instincts.
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Re: online dating - outdoorsmen
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01/21/19 07:18 PM
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Met my wife online, you just have to know what you want and don't want..
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Re: online dating - outdoorsmen
[Re: furgotten]
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01/21/19 07:25 PM
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Quite a wide range of responses so far , which is what I was looking for and I thank each and every one of you . will soon be 57 years of age and im pretty sure there's enough undamaged , heart , mind and soul to endure another serious relationship or two . in an ideal situation one would be inclined to think such sites could shorten the route to positive match. any more opinions or experiences to share out there in happy trapper land ? I will add my story to the list so here goes I met my wife online and we communicated for several months before we actually meet then communicated for a couple more ( she lived in China) before meeting again in person, after about a year of online and video chats ect we got married which we were for 25 years and 2 kids Now divorced but still get along and see each other now and Then we just had different ideas about wher we were headed after the kids were all gone I made but do it again but really gut now don’t really feel the need But like said be careful lots of so called dating sites are just money traps for lonely people, one way to tell is it all the photos look like they should be a models portfolio it is most likly a trap site or if you join and suddenly get a lot of unsolicited mail from attractive women or men and the site has a pay to view system and all the letters are heavy on the make me yours type talk run don’t walk it is likly a scam I think it was a lot more easier 30 years ago back then I actually was not looking for a serious relationship just someone to talk to wasn’t a bad marriage though and I do get 2 great kids from it
�Everything in excess! To enjoy the flavor of life, take big bites. Moderation is for monks.� ― Robert A. Heinlein
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