I've never watched someone die from trauma. The suddenness of it and its violence I'm sure is way different than watching someone die in a hospital bed. I'm sorry you had to go through it and I'm praying for that family. I think TreedaBlackdog has some wise words. Sometimes we are put in that place and time for a reason. Take care...

"And God said, Let us make man in our image �and let them have dominion �and all the creatures that move along the ground".
Genesis 1:26