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Re: Men working in daycare
[Re: DWC]
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Law Dog when someone says something that seems like its 100 percent impossible, yes I will question what they say.   So if a guy offers help you pick that help apart word by word that’s why people stop offering help without consulting their lawyers it’s not worth the effort often. I doubt he had any ill intentions or he would not of offered the help to begin with your a hard guy to figure out often. I had the same thought as I see the same news but hesitated saying anything for this exact reason.  
 
  
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Re: Men working in daycare
[Re: Law Dog]
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Law Dog when someone says something that seems like its 100 percent impossible, yes I will question what they say.   So if a guy offers help you pick that help apart word by word that’s why people stop offering help without consulting their lawyers it’s not worth the effort often. I doubt he had any ill intentions or he would not of offered the help to begin with your a hard guy to figure out often. I had the same thought as I see the same news but hesitated saying anything for this exact reason.  For your credibility's sake do you have any way to verify that number? Or at least create a reasonable defense/explanation for it?  
 
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Re: Men working in daycare
[Re: DWC]
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Re: Men working in daycare
[Re: DWC]
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I do not believe youve worked with 1,000’s of female sex offenders.  LOL. Ok.  
 
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Re: Men working in daycare
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Just this week the Maryland state attorney released a report concerning sexual abuse that has been  reported in   the Baltimore  Archdioceses Catholic church Going back nearly 40 years there found over 600 case  of sexual abuse committed by at least 158 people associated with the church In many of those cases it was known that the situation was happening .But the misconduct was covered up by the  people in charge So  evil people exist  every day and every where you go Our society seems to be seeking a new level of self indulgent sickness every day and in every aspect of  our society. This is far more common than abuse out of daycare. It’s weird that you never hear  stuff like “don’t trust them” regarding such institutions like we’ve just been told never to trust a daycare.  
 
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Re: Men working in daycare
[Re: DWC]
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I think the point was it was not just males that pray on kids just look at the recent reports of female teachers in the news. Male children are often the victims rather than females was suggested at the last training I attended when I was a youth worker. Not much I have not heard of in the last 35 years you sure it hear about it enough times it sure seems like 1,000 times in the end.
  Most people seldom deal with this in their life others deal with it everyday. 
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Re: Men working in daycare
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I think the point was it was not just males that pray on kids just look at the recent reports of female teachers in the news. Male children are often the victims rather than females
  Most people seldom deal with this in their life others deal with it everyday. Most of these female teachers are getting with WILLING 14-17 year old boys, hardly the same as child molestation. Heck, I had a few in HS I would have willingly fallen victim to...  
 
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Re: Men working in daycare
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I think the point was it was not just males that pray on kids just look at the recent reports of female teachers in the news. Male children are often the victims rather than females
  Most people seldom deal with this in their life others deal with it everyday. Most of these female teachers are getting with WILLING 14-17 year old boys, hardly the same as child molestation. Heck, I had a few in HS I would have willingly fallen victim to... Many are even younger,  at 14 I’d would of cut and run even at that age, even the older kids are groomed one way or another don’t kid yourself we all thought it but that’s about it. So would you be proud if your children was a participant in such actions and not feel like a victim?  
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Re: Men working in daycare
[Re: DWC]
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A background check for these places consists if a paid online search for CONVICTIONS.  Thats a far cry from what theyve been investigated or even charged for.  Google is your friend.   I’m afraid you may be wrong about your knowledge of the background check.  My wife and I own and operate a thriving Daycare and at least here in the state of Tx we have to have a state initiated criminal background check.  It red flags even some minor things and the state tells us we can’t have that person in our Daycare.   As far as men working in a daycare my wife and I have agreed it’s not the best option mainly because of perceptions such as yours.  I am there at the facility a lot and the kids love me.  I promise you I am NOT a pervert or child molester.  
 
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Re: Men working in daycare
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Sorry for your situation. There are churches  around me that offer day care. Costs the same but hopefully a better environment.   My cousin was raped by an older boy  at a church day care .    Now she Is one of the mental cases that  wants to be a man.  Rape was over 25 years ago.    Don't think they are safe just becuse they are in a church.    
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Re: Men working in daycare
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Often you can look at a person and see that they have been abused like the singer Billie Eilish when she first became known she screamed of a sex abuse victim just by her dress and demeanor but I’ve seen it before but it was still easy to spot. 
 
  
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Re: Men working in daycare
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Just this week the Maryland state attorney released a report concerning sexual abuse that has been  reported in   the Baltimore  Archdioceses Catholic church Going back nearly 40 years there found over 600 case  of sexual abuse committed by at least 158 people associated with the church In many of those cases it was known that the situation was happening .But the misconduct was covered up by the  people in charge So  evil people exist  every day and every where you go Our society seems to be seeking a new level of self indulgent sickness every day and in every aspect of  our society. This is far more common than abuse out of daycare. It’s weird that you never hear  stuff like “don’t trust them” regarding such institutions like we’ve just been told never to trust a daycare. I thought it went without saying that NO ONE trusts their kids around Catholic priests anymore.  
 
  
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Re: Men working in daycare
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I think the point was it was not just males that pray on kids just look at the recent reports of female teachers in the news. Male children are often the victims rather than females
  Most people seldom deal with this in their life others deal with it everyday. Most of these female teachers are getting with WILLING 14-17 year old boys, hardly the same as child molestation. Heck, I had a few in HS I would have willingly fallen victim to... While I agree that there is a huge difference between a woman and a 16 year old boy versus a man and an 8 year old girl... both are still wrong and gross. Would you be fine if you found out your 14 year old daughter was sleeping with her 40 year old history teacher?  
 
  
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Re: Men working in daycare
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 04/07/23 06:20 PM
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A background check for these places consists if a paid online search for CONVICTIONS.  Thats a far cry from what theyve been investigated or even charged for.  Google is your friend.   I’m afraid you may be wrong about your knowledge of the background check.  My wife and I own and operate a thriving Daycare and at least here in the state of Tx we have to have a state initiated criminal background check.  It red flags even some minor things and the state tells us we can’t have that person in our Daycare.   As far as men working in a daycare my wife and I have agreed it’s not the best option mainly because of perceptions such as yours.  I am there at the facility a lot and the kids love me.  I promise you I am NOT a pervert or child molester.    Well then the fatty who runs the place lied to me.  A google search showed 4 arrests which were in online articles. A buddy in law enforcement told me there are constant domestic issues along with drug use with this person.  So it either just shows convictions, thats all they take into account, or they just dont care as long as youre not a registered sex offender. One article stated this guy wrapped his arms around his fiances neck and slammed her head into a wall.    
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Re: Men working in daycare
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 04/07/23 06:46 PM
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Child molestation among clergy is hardly confined to Catholicism. For some reason though thats the faith you always hear about.
  A man working in a daycare seems odd to me. 
 
  
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