I see that Jedi has already posted something in regards to Jim's passing. Not to be redundant or attempt to out do anyone's feelings as Jim had many, many good friends but he made me promise, many years ago during one of his several diagnosis's, to pen something on his behalf, on T-Man, when the time had come. And the last several conversations that we've had, he would ALWAYS remind me of my duty. I've thought about this honor for many years, not ever really wanting to believe that I'd have to make good on it or what I'd truly say, however; here we are.
My family and I met Jim and Charlotte over 20 years ago at Vic's Corner flea market, just west of Spirit Lake, Iowa. I was pretty young then. Early 20's, newly married and one young son. I had been trapping since I was about 10 with the exception of a few years when I was in the service. I was really trying to get back in the trapping groove when we stumbled upon their area. He had several milk crates of used traps, a few new ones, but lots of good old used traps. Selling mostly by the half dz lots, already dyed and waxed and ready to go! He also had a table FULL of what he deemed as "collector traps". At the time, I couldn't process why anyone would want to have an old worn out trap that cost as much (or more) than a dozen brand new shiny ones. I remember thinking, "this old guy's nuts", as I picked up a 11/4 Prott and Jim explained to me all about how the kick plate worked, the history of Prott, the three different cities of manufacture, etc. He wanted $25 for the thing! I was buying 1.5 B&L jumps back then for $25/dz, used. Yet, I was semi intrigued by the trap and what the old guy had to say. However, I didn't want to fork out $25 at the time for a single trap and told him so. He reached in his pocket, handed me a business card (that I still have to this day) and said "take it and pay me when you can. If you screw me, then you screw me". To know Jim, you'd know he didn't mince words.
He was a highly respected fisheries biologist for much of his career and received numerous accolades and awards for his work, research and studies. He was passionate about trapping and passing on his knowledge to all who asked. He was passionate about all aspects of outdoor pursuits, not just trapping, but he really, really loved traps and trapping. I know Jim wanted me to write about some of that, but right now, I guess I'm just not ready and there's so much to say.
What I'd like to leave in regards to Jim Selgeby is how he hardly ever sat still. He was always busy! And he was always busy with Char. Those two did almost everything together. Hunting, fishing, trapping, flea markets, gardening...some travel, and just being best friends. I've always admired and appreciated how he loved his family and how he always spoke so well of them. He loved his wife and daughter with every ounce of his being. He was selfless about it. The last few years of his life he was constantly busy improving, buying, selling and getting ready to make sure that they'd be taken care of when he inevitably passed. I don't ever recall him saying one selfish statement about his cancer or what it would mean for him.
I'm going to miss Jim and his loud booming voice and "constructive criticisms". He was a great mentor and friend to so many people. Love him or not, he was great people to be around if you were lucky enough to be in his circle. So...so long old man. You'll be deeply missed by so, so many.