First do not tell her how much it will cost to get into bees, That is a deal killer with most women lol. Do not be afraid to treat your bees, dead bees can not produce honey.
I figured out many years ago that women don't need to know how much some things truly cost.
God I hope she don't sell my guns when I die for what she THINKS I paid for them. Lol
I never have a single issue with my wife on what things cost and I don't keep anything from her or tell her it was less than it was.
At most when I say something like if I can't get the parts for the UTV I'm just going to buy a new one I may get an o boy and just let me know so I can move money around but that's it. When I buy guns she never says a word. She knows it's a good deal or something I wanted for a while since I don't spend money loosely.
I think she also know how hard I work and how I put the family as the priority. She saw how her mother hounded her step father when he spent money on tools he needed to work with as a kid and never agreed with that. Maybe I'm one of the lucky few to have a great wife. Or maybe the bad controlling ones just get talked about more and there are more good ones out than people think.
It's just another areas of many where I'm so blessed to have my wife.
I say this as I get ready to go drop somewhere aroung 2 to 3 k on med honey suppers frames and queen excluder. Well and may add a 6 frame electric spinner also. Tomorrow hopefully a barnn builder will have time to come out to add on to a building roof the existing and add a porch on one side. That's going to be expensive. But the addition is for my daughters mouse and rabbit breading business, that will open up the existing for a gym and small work shop for the boys. The porch is for the wife to have a covered place to grill,boils down sap, butcher chicken, and have a nice place to sit and drink coffee. One think you may notice is there is not a thing involved in that for me. Yet I benefit from all of it one way or another.