After my own shoulder completely gave out (different cause, same end result: massive soft tissue damage), I waited it out at first too, thinking I could rehab my way through it. But the pain didn’t go away, and function just kept dropping. Like you, I do a lot of physical work, so “taking it easy” wasn’t exactly an option. Eventually, I hit a point where I couldn’t do basic overhead movements without sharp pain, and that was that, I started looking seriously at shoulder replacement.
I ended up having a reverse shoulder replacement done in Dallas, at
Dr. Kevin Kruse’s clinic. What helped me decide was understanding how the procedure works even when soft tissue is trashed, reverse replacement relies more on the deltoid than the damaged rotator cuff, which is why it can still restore function when a traditional repair won’t cut it. The team there laid it out clearly, including the pros, cons, and what recovery really takes. It wasn’t an easy call, but in my case, it gave me back enough strength and range to keep doing what I need to do without constant pain.