Re: I知 starting to see why seniors go broke
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05/13/25 07:31 PM
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It seems the best plan is never work your whole life and Medicaid picks up the tab.
Life ain't supposed to be easy.
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Re: I知 starting to see why seniors go broke
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05/13/25 08:59 PM
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I write a check to the nursing home for $9,270 each month for my mother who is in memory care, 100% unable to do any activities of daily living on her own. She can't speak, walk or feed herself. I find it hard to fathom paying more for assisted living? For the record, my dad had been paying her way for 9 years now and now I pay it, as the POA. My dad didn't want to spring for nursing home insurance, but he still had $2.5 million when he passed away last fall, so I think he made the right decision to save/invest versus spending the money for insurance. Even at a 4% rate of return, the money will outlast my mom by a long shot. Dad never made over $20/hour in his life and Mom only worked part-time after us kids were old enough to take care of ourselves. I sure miss my dad, he taught me a lot about how to look poor without being poor.
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Re: I知 starting to see why seniors go broke
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05/13/25 10:34 PM
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Do you suppose the 80 year old behind the KFC counter is there because he WANTS to be not because he has to be?
Maybe he likes working, getting out, interacting with people. Gives him a purpose in life. Maybe only works a few hours a day. Might beat the heck of sitting around in a rocking chair all day watching the crapola on TV.
NOTE - I知 not making light of the financial situation of many of our senior citizens. It is a serious problem. Just saying there are alternative scenarios. My dad is 76. I'd wager he works 1200 hours a year running heavy equipment. Doesn't do it because he needs the money, just doesn't know any different lol. When I retire, I shouldn't have to worry about a thing, I'll still work somewhere until I'm unable.
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Re: I知 starting to see why seniors go broke
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05/13/25 10:57 PM
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I write a check to the nursing home for $9,270 each month for my mother who is in memory care, 100% unable to do any activities of daily living on her own. She can't speak, walk or feed herself. I find it hard to fathom paying more for assisted living? For the record, my dad had been paying her way for 9 years now and now I pay it, as the POA. My dad didn't want to spring for nursing home insurance, but he still had $2.5 million when he passed away last fall, so I think he made the right decision to save/invest versus spending the money for insurance. Even at a 4% rate of return, the money will outlast my mom by a long shot. Dad never made over $20/hour in his life and Mom only worked part-time after us kids were old enough to take care of ourselves. I sure miss my dad, he taught me a lot about how to look poor without being poor. This is what I was getting at with how many folks are in no way prepared for what you池e dealing with now. I知 glad your dad had a doable plan I wonder how many can稚 take care of themselves honestly was the point. Face down in the woods is my dream out like a lightbulb. LOL
Was born in a Big City Will die in the Country OK with that!
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Re: I知 starting to see why seniors go broke
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05/13/25 11:07 PM
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Nobody cares about the older generation anymore. Its tragic, and I hate it and don't understand it. I personally think the Gov tried to kill all of them via Covid and the vaccine so they wouldn't have to pay back what that generation paid in. They did a pretty dang good job doing it to. Really ticks me off.
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Re: I知 starting to see why seniors go broke
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05/14/25 08:06 AM
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My Supplement went up less then half of yours and the increase in SS it was a wash. The seniors that I know that may have financial issues just spend more than they have.
Most are that I know are just poor managers of their life in the first place. I know that isn't something most want to hear but it is my observation of the ones I know. ABSOLUTELY!
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Re: I知 starting to see why seniors go broke
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05/14/25 09:36 AM
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What's a supplant?...Are you referring to a medicare supplement? Yes it started out at $140 now it痴 around $350 Joy joy. That's a huge jump in premium. You need to shop around. I had Blue Cross until they nearly double my premium. I shopped around with a number of companies and went with Humana until the clinic I was with discontinued recognizing Humana. Then I went with UCare. I got better coverage at a cost of half of what I was paying with Blue Cross.
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Re: I知 starting to see why seniors go broke
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05/14/25 08:43 PM
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Some assisted living homes are $600 a day, there's no way to prepare for a year or two of that. Those must be palaces? Assisted living should be in the $4,000 to $8,000 a month range. The preparation is save some money that earns money in your retirement years. It helps to have a POA that manages this well for you when you become brain dead. I like the sentiment, but the reality is that Donnersurvivor is pretty close to on the mark. In Colorado the state average for assisted living is a tad over $6,000 a month. Alaska's average cost is $7250. Look up this "Assisted living cost average by state-chart". Remember to, that average may be more or LESS that you want to live like. Assisted living here in Steamboat Springs at "Casey's Pond" STARTS at $8575 a month, and I don't want to be old with a bunch of these people in Colorado! Even if I can afford it. I looked at "Baxter Senior living" in Anchorage and it's 13K a month, but it's a nice place, above average. So, going out face down in a beaver pond looks good to my heirs, me too!
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Re: I知 starting to see why seniors go broke
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05/14/25 09:45 PM
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[quote=Donnersurvivor]Some assisted living homes are $600 a day, there's no way to prepare for a year or two of that. I like the sentiment, but the reality is that Donnersurvivor is pretty close to on the mark. In Colorado the state average for assisted living is a tad over $6,000 a month. Alaska's average cost is $7250. Look up this "Assisted living cost average by state-chart". Remember to, that average may be more or LESS that you want to live like. Assisted living here in Steamboat Springs at "Casey's Pond" STARTS at $8575 a month, and I don't want to be old with a bunch of these people in Colorado! Even if I can afford it. I looked at "Baxter Senior living" in Anchorage and it's 13K a month, but it's a nice place, above average. So, going out face down in a beaver pond looks good to my heirs, me too! $600 multiplied by 30 days equals $18,000 a month. This may be why seniors need a good POA? Many seniors can't do simple math. 
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Re: I知 starting to see why seniors go broke
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05/15/25 07:49 AM
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"Q: How Long Do People Stay in Assisted Living? A: How long someone is going to stay in assisted living is going to be different depending on the situation. The median length of stay is about 22 months. From assisted living, more than half of people will need to move on to a situation with full spectrum care, such as a nursing facility."
"65% of people who entered a nursing home passed away within one year of admission."
Most won't be there long.
"Alzheimer痴 is the most common cause of death in a nursing home"
Mom's a long timer with over a 2 year tour so far. (Assisted Living)
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