I appreciate you for your insight…..

Agreed.

… Vinke …. You are very strange

I'm sure proud of myself for not posting on this long crazy thread.




.......oh crap!

You're joking, right? Even though this post wasn't LOL funny, I've seen your memes so figure this must be your attempt at humor???

I've had a running PM with Smash for a year or so. Were we besties? No. But, I don't continually conversate with people I don't like.... therefore, I liked her. Still do.

It was my husband that posted the now infamous "cat carrier" pic, a pic that most of us that have been here for awhile have seen numerous times... as it was posted many, many times over the years for "that other crazy cat lady" MsCat. Who, despite her love for cats, knew it was posted in good nature and rolled with it.

This may well be a generational thing. People of wolfie's generation consider to be bullying what people of older generations consider to be cutting it up with friends. Smash and I are the same age... hovering on the border of Gen X and Millennial. All my life growing up I was told I was Gen X. Now they want to tell me I'm a millennial. I think maybe I went the Gen X way and Smash went the millennial way . I was definitely a latchkey kid, perhaps one of the last before gov't realized these kids would grow up to value freedom above all else and therefore must be eliminated via more bureaucracy.

But I digress. Nobody on that post was "bullying". Most were joking... some were not.... but those that weren't were just posting their honest feelings about felis catus. Smash is a grown woman. If the locker-room style joking that goes on here isn't for her... then it isn't. If she wants to leave, because it's not her style, no one faults that. But the only thing she was a victim of was a bunch of good ol boys.... that for the most part at least.... liked her.... that were trying to get her goat...

Hi Smash!!!