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Question for the ladies!? #8461393
08/30/25 07:17 PM
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Gary Benson Offline OP
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What do you like to see from your man to know he really appreciates you? I have a great wife and just looking for ideas to show appreciation. What you say? You guys can chime in with things you've done. Keep it clean. I already do what Loosegoose does that his wife really likes and he enjoys it too. smile


Life ain't supposed to be easy.
Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461396
08/30/25 07:28 PM
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I find that just telling her matters. I don't just say that I appreciate her, I go into detail as to why I appreciate her. I've only been at it for ten years, but it's working for me so far.

Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461398
08/30/25 07:33 PM
08/30/25 07:33 PM
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A gentleman would let a lady answer this question first. lol

Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461400
08/30/25 07:39 PM
08/30/25 07:39 PM
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This is a big one for me, because Chuckie is the TALKER in our relationship. I can honestly sit quietly for days. But when he REALLY listens to me, I take notice and appreciate it.
Nothing is more secure than knowing that you’re being heard and that it is taken to heart.
I will say that sometimes I don’t think he listens but then he surprises me.

Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Big Sam] #8461402
08/30/25 07:42 PM
08/30/25 07:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Big Sam
I find that just telling her matters. I don't just say that I appreciate her, I go into detail as to why I appreciate her. I've only been at it for ten years, but it's working for me so far.

I hear ya! I do all I can but there's always room for improvement. I'm 69 and she's 64 and we've been married for a year
It's been a rough go for the both of us the past 50 years but I think this is gonna be good.


Life ain't supposed to be easy.
Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461404
08/30/25 07:44 PM
08/30/25 07:44 PM
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Elk ivory silver necklace my wife liked hers.

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Was born in a Big City Will die in the Country OK with that!

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Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: elsmasho82] #8461410
08/30/25 07:53 PM
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Originally Posted by elsmasho82
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This is a big one for me, because Chuckie is the TALKER in our relationship. I can honestly sit quietly for days. But when he REALLY listens to me, I take notice and appreciate it.
Nothing is more secure than knowing that you’re being heard and that it is taken to heart.
I will say that sometimes I don’t think he listens but then he surprises me.


She's learned that alot of money don't mean crap. Big fancy houses don't make a home. I don't have much but we have a great time. We can load up a few beers and a bottle of wine and just go cruise the dirt roads we grew up on and have a great time. Neither of us cares for crowds of people or noise so quiet and secluded is what we l8ke.


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Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461424
08/30/25 08:26 PM
08/30/25 08:26 PM
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Mine likes experiences. From a simple walk to weekends trips Seems to pick uo on and like that I want to spent time with her. The actual activity doesn't matter.

Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461428
08/30/25 08:41 PM
08/30/25 08:41 PM
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If you know then you know, just make her feel wanted more than anything else.

Last edited by Ohio Wolverine; 08/30/25 08:42 PM.

We have met the enemy and the enemy is us!
Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461435
08/30/25 08:45 PM
08/30/25 08:45 PM
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What is this... the Dr. Phil show?


Proudly banned from the NTA.

Bother me tomorrow. Today I'll buy no sorrows.
Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461439
08/30/25 08:51 PM
08/30/25 08:51 PM
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A bag of Haribo gold bears don’t hurt neither…

Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: yotetrapper30] #8461451
08/30/25 09:11 PM
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Originally Posted by yotetrapper30
What is this... the Dr. Phil show?

Anything to offer? You have a good man? WOMAN?


Life ain't supposed to be easy.
Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: elsmasho82] #8461452
08/30/25 09:12 PM
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Originally Posted by elsmasho82
A bag of Haribo gold bears don’t hurt neither…

Naw she thinks she's has a fat arse....


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Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: trappingthomas] #8461453
08/30/25 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted by trappingthomas
A gentleman would let a lady answer this question first. lol

They were taking too long.

Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461454
08/30/25 09:20 PM
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I just checked to see how many guys responded to a post titled "question for the Ladies"... u boys didn't disappoint

Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461455
08/30/25 09:21 PM
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laugh
Where is Savell? I'm bummed .


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Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461456
08/30/25 09:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Gary Benson
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Where is Savell? I'm bummed .

Oh he'll be along..... perfect scenario for him to shine grin

Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461460
08/30/25 09:28 PM
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Where's that Wisconsin gal?
You'd think this would be the time for her to shine, lol

Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461464
08/30/25 09:39 PM
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Just bite your tongue when she is taking too long to make your sammich. She will appreciate your patience.

Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461469
08/30/25 09:46 PM
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Has WiOutdoors weighed in yet?


What"s good for me may not be good for the weak minded.
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Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: 52Carl] #8461472
08/30/25 09:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Leftlane
Has WiOutdoors weighed in yet?

Originally Posted by 52Carl
Where's that Wisconsin gal?
You'd think this would be the time for her to shine, lol

Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461486
08/30/25 10:15 PM
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Hypergamy

Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461500
08/30/25 11:00 PM
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Leftlane.....are you still smitten???


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Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: WI Outdoors] #8461524
08/31/25 01:09 AM
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Hypergamy


Don't forget attention and validation. wink

Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461525
08/31/25 01:46 AM
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Originally Posted by Gary Benson
Originally Posted by yotetrapper30
What is this... the Dr. Phil show?

Anything to offer? You have a good man? WOMAN?


Yeah, I do. No advice to offer though.


Proudly banned from the NTA.

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Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: elsmasho82] #8461542
08/31/25 06:14 AM
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Originally Posted by elsmasho82
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This is a big one for me, because Chuckie is the TALKER in our relationship. I can honestly sit quietly for days. But when he REALLY listens to me, I take notice and appreciate it.
Nothing is more secure than knowing that you’re being heard and that it is taken to heart.
I will say that sometimes I don’t think he listens but then he surprises me.



This!

Like Chuckie I also talk (too much). The moment when I don't realize I cut her off until she won't finish what she was saying.....

Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461609
08/31/25 08:46 AM
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I just put her in the car and go for a ride, have a hard time keeping her head out of the window.... cool

Re: Question for the ladies!? [Re: Gary Benson] #8461639
08/31/25 09:56 AM
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