Isn't asking the question similar to asking, what you would do if you were polygamous? Well, aren't all guys potentially polygamous? Can anyone say they never were attracted to some female that wasn't thier wife? So, why do they stay loyal? Because they decided to. Same with a man who is attracted to men. He can decide whether to act on it or not.
well sure he can , but you not acting on an impulse and going home to your wife is like a 5 minute timeout. to preserve something you care about. a relationship that is important to you. so you have something you don't want to mess up and you have someone to go home to when you don't act on that impulse.
the man who isn't attracted to women , who is only attracted to men , you are saying he shouldn't act not for 5 minutes , 5 days , 5 months , 5 years, but for a lifetime. so now you have a person in a life sentence of loneliness.
Then you wonder when they turn to drugs or suicide for escape.
there are people who do it or mostly do it. something else is important enough to them to not act or their drive is that low , whatever it be.
others just keep it behind closed doors some in a consensual way and others become abusers.
Others yet it is deep despair , deep depression , they turn to substance abuse to escape.
there is a reason suicide in gay men is significantly higher.
wouldn't the healthiest thing for them , for you , for society if they could have a meaningful consensual relationship with someone and not a life of loneliness.
to not turn to drugs , alcohol or suicide for escape.
you wonder why so many people are broken , when your basically asking them to take on a life sentence for feeling the way they do.
2 dudes or two women living together in an adult and consensual relationship is actually way better for them , physically , mentally , sobriety and also better for society less drug abuse , less disease , happier people.
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