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Re: In a marriage is it too much to ask?
[Re: KeithC]
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2zwudz
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In most marriages, the husband leads the wife. Have you tried being the leader in your marriage?
Keith I am the leader!!
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Re: In a marriage is it too much to ask?
[Re: 2zwudz]
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If she's been like this for 33 years of marriage , yes, it's too much to ask. Most people can't shut off like a light switch This has happened in the last 8 years when menopause hit. I understand, my wife was off her rocker for two to three years after the change. But we tuffed it out and I'm happy we did
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Re: In a marriage is it too much to ask?
[Re: 2zwudz]
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This has happened in the last 8 years when menopause hit. And your son coming out as gay to her but she kept it a secret from you for a year and a half... And she wants to join a church that supports that lifestyle...
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Re: In a marriage is it too much to ask?
[Re: NorthwesternYote]
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I think if you go on a website and talk about private problems with your marriage and your wife like you have here ... Yipes!!!
An equal partnership with mutual love and respect. A tough but worthwhile balance.
Good luck with that liberal thing.
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Re: In a marriage is it too much to ask?
[Re: ol' dad]
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This fellas cheese done slid off his cracker....
ol' dad LOL, Im gonna use that if you dont mind.
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Re: In a marriage is it too much to ask?
[Re: 2zwudz]
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In most marriages, the husband leads the wife. Have you tried being the leader in your marriage?
Keith I am the leader!! Doesn't sound like she's following.
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Re: In a marriage is it too much to ask?
[Re: 2zwudz]
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Yes that is the angle im working. She goes next door to the man hating liberal lady and talks with her and then comes home mad. She went to a progressive church pastor the other day and the same thing… she came home mad. Went and locked herself in room for a couple of hours. Perhaps she wants to talk about these things with you instead, but you "dislike the news and politics" so she has to go find somebody else to talk to. But you clearly DO care about politics, since you expressed in this thread that "liberal ideology is a demonic ideology." If you feel so strongly about it, then you need to articulate this to your wife.
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Re: In a marriage is it too much to ask?
[Re: 2zwudz]
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Therapy might be good . Having someone who is completely neutral either way can be good because both of you can be so wrapped up in yourselves and what you THINK is right and what's going on you can't understand YOUR doing something wrong . Makes me happy I have a friend who's no BS and extremely neutral, will call you out extra quick and not care about your feelings .Few times me and the wife got it on it bad we had to have her sit between us and basically translate because me and the wife where so wrapped up in our heads we couldn't speak or talk to each other . I felt like I was saying one thing but it was coming out as something else , she though she was doing this but in reality to me it was something else. Either of you gotta be able. To have some humility tho On another note lott women seem to have a deal where they love to fall for the BS coming from miserable, man haters . I'll never understand it... Then again you can convince alot of women to dance half naked for a cheeseburger by calling it " empowerment" or " embracing your natural feminine" so IDK ... Lemme stop before my inlaws allegations of being a misogynist look right 
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Re: In a marriage is it too much to ask?
[Re: loosegoose]
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You should start out by getting Blaine County to like Trump, and Loose Goose to admit he sets on a fence so he can say "I told you so." to both sides of the people whose votes count.
Then maybe try for world peace. Once you can do that, maybe you can change your wife's liberal mind, but I doubt it. You're obsessed with two men you've never met, and likely never will. I wanna know how many will get this picture 
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Re: In a marriage is it too much to ask?
[Re: 2zwudz]
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Mind rot can't be turned off like a light switch
It's gonna take some very crafty mind wash ....and prayer
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Re: In a marriage is it too much to ask?
[Re: ~ADC~]
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You should start out by getting Blaine County to like Trump, and Loose Goose to admit he sets on a fence so he can say "I told you so." to both sides of the people whose votes count.
Then maybe try for world peace. Once you can do that, maybe you can change your wife's liberal mind, but I doubt it. This
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