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Re: Divorced and alone in old age? [Re: 2zwudz] #8584168 Yesterday at 07:02 AM Yesterday at 07:02 AM
Joined: Jul 2024 IL NorthwesternYote trapper
NorthwesternYote trapper Joined: Jul 2024 IL	Originally Posted by 2zwudz I’m not free of mistakes in this. I was not able to find a way to keep my mouth shut about her liberal ideology and her moral values being bestowed upon our kids. . I let it bother me too much. I was judgmental about it. I tried to get her to change who she is. I wanted her to take the news, her ideology and the liberal activism out of our marriage. I did not like her going to pride parades and volunteering to hand out condoms and needles for the addicts and celebrating this lifestyle. When I spoke my mind about the liberal ideology she took it as criticism. I was not able to find the kindest softest words to express myself without offending her. In her mind I did not accept her 100%. She may be right in feeling that but I still accepted her even with the things I did not like. Someday I hope to get to a point of forgiveness towards her for her ideologies and understand that is just who she is. You can't control what she believes, but you can certainly confront her about her actions like handing out needles and condoms. She claims to be a Christian (albeit a "progressive" Christian), but those actions in particular are actually contributing to and subsidizing sinful behavior, and that's not what Jesus wants. I'd love to hear her try to defend that in light of scripture. Was she actually handing out the condoms and needles through her new church, or is this sone other group of activists she fell in with?

Re: Divorced and alone in old age? [Re: 2zwudz] #8584416 Yesterday at 02:34 PM Yesterday at 02:34 PM
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Re: Divorced and alone in old age? [Re: NorthwesternYote] #8584505 Yesterday at 05:35 PM Yesterday at 05:35 PM
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2zwudz OP trapper 2 Joined: Dec 2013 Illinois	Originally Posted by NorthwesternYote Originally Posted by 2zwudz I’m not free of mistakes in this. I was not able to find a way to keep my mouth shut about her liberal ideology and her moral values being bestowed upon our kids. . I let it bother me too much. I was judgmental about it. I tried to get her to change who she is. I wanted her to take the news, her ideology and the liberal activism out of our marriage. I did not like her going to pride parades and volunteering to hand out condoms and needles for the addicts and celebrating this lifestyle. When I spoke my mind about the liberal ideology she took it as criticism. I was not able to find the kindest softest words to express myself without offending her. In her mind I did not accept her 100%. She may be right in feeling that but I still accepted her even with the things I did not like. Someday I hope to get to a point of forgiveness towards her for her ideologies and understand that is just who she is. You can't control what she believes, but you can certainly confront her about her actions like handing out needles and condoms. She claims to be a Christian (albeit a "progressive" Christian), but those actions in particular are actually contributing to and subsidizing sinful behavior, and that's not what Jesus wants. I'd love to hear her try to defend that in light of scripture. Was she actually handing out the condoms and needles through her new church, or is this sone other group of activists she fell in with? This was not with our church. It was with whoever organized the parade. I told her that her celebrating and participating like that is a sin. Her response was these are the same people Jesus hung around with. He was with these kind of people all of the time and that he cared for these people just like she is doing.

Re: Divorced and alone in old age? [Re: 2zwudz] #8584559 Yesterday at 07:03 PM Yesterday at 07:03 PM
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rednecktrapper16 trapper Joined: Feb 2025 North Carolina Sampson Co	[/quote] This was not with our church. It was with whoever organized the parade. I told her that her celebrating and participating like that is a sin. Her response was these are the same people Jesus hung around with. He was with these kind of people all of the time and that he cared for these people just like she is doing.[/quote] 2zwudz with your last comment being said... yes Jesus hung around them, but he preached to them and shared the gospell with then. the Bible says ( i dont remember the exact verse) but if someone is sinning call them out (I think it says 2 times) and if they don't change there ways then you are not supposed to ascotiat with them. this may be different within a marriage, I'm not sure exactly what the Bible talks about there. just giving my 2 cents Last edited by rednecktrapper16; Yesterday at 07:04 PM. live long and prosper

Re: Divorced and alone in old age? [Re: 2zwudz] #8584567 Yesterday at 07:19 PM Yesterday at 07:19 PM
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Re: Divorced and alone in old age? [Re: NorthwesternYote] #8584679 Yesterday at 09:20 PM Yesterday at 09:20 PM
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Ghost8 trapper G Joined: Dec 2025 Iowa	Originally Posted by NorthwesternYote Originally Posted by 2zwudz I’m not free of mistakes in this. I was not able to find a way to keep my mouth shut about her liberal ideology and her moral values being bestowed upon our kids. . I let it bother me too much. I was judgmental about it. I tried to get her to change who she is. I wanted her to take the news, her ideology and the liberal activism out of our marriage. I did not like her going to pride parades and volunteering to hand out condoms and needles for the addicts and celebrating this lifestyle. When I spoke my mind about the liberal ideology she took it as criticism. I was not able to find the kindest softest words to express myself without offending her. In her mind I did not accept her 100%. She may be right in feeling that but I still accepted her even with the things I did not like. Someday I hope to get to a point of forgiveness towards her for her ideologies and understand that is just who she is. You can't control what she believes, but you can certainly confront her about her actions like handing out needles and condoms. She claims to be a Christian (albeit a "progressive" Christian), but those actions in particular are actually contributing to and subsidizing sinful behavior, and that's not what Jesus wants. I'd love to hear her try to defend that in light of scripture. Was she actually handing out the condoms and needles through her new church, or is this sone other group of activists she fell in with? Will confronting her stop the divorce?? If it serves no practical purpose move on. Close that book and start a new one. Is divorced and alone worse then married and miserable?? G.

Re: Divorced and alone in old age? [Re: 2zwudz] #8584837 2 hours ago 2 hours ago
Joined: Jul 2024 IL NorthwesternYote trapper
NorthwesternYote trapper Joined: Jul 2024 IL	Originally Posted by 2zwudz I told her that her celebrating and participating like that is a sin. Her response was these are the same people Jesus hung around with. He was with these kind of people all of the time and that he cared for these people just like she is doing. Jesus extends his forgiveness to everybody, but in John 8:11, He says: Quote Go, and now sin no more. That's the part your wife doesn't get. Jesus forgives, but then commands us to desist from sinful behavior. He doesn't pass out needles and condoms to subsidize sinners. I'd be curious how she would defend her actions if confronted with that verse.

Re: Divorced and alone in old age? [Re: 2zwudz] #8584838 2 hours ago 2 hours ago
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trapdog1 trapper T Joined: Feb 2015 Iowa	Time to forget about what she thinks and move on.

Re: Divorced and alone in old age? [Re: trapdog1] #8584864 56 minutes ago 56 minutes ago
Joined: Jul 2024 IL NorthwesternYote trapper
NorthwesternYote trapper Joined: Jul 2024 IL	Originally Posted by trapdog1 Time to forget about what she thinks and move on. That's for 2zwudz to decide.

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