I can understand one not working, but if you’re on 3 or 4, problem might not be them.

Going on 30 years married next year. Feel like the first set of vows meant what they meant. If she needs to hear that I still love her, I’m guessing I ain’t done too good a job over the last 29.

You do lnow the definition of insanity right. Doing the same thing over and over expecting different results.

I have the best wife a man could ever ask for. Even forbid if something happened to her I wouldn't ever want another wife.. 1 she is irreplaceable. 2 we grew up together im 46 started dating her at 16 30 years of my life with her and shared experiences. 3 im set im my ways and wont put up with drama so would be tough for a woman set in her wasy to adapt to. Not worth the hassle.

I'm thinking it's about 50/50, one my fault and one died. Other two all on them

Getting married is enough. Why do it again?

As long as she does what she's told, I don't see the point in it.
Forty years and running. The best 7 years of my life in there somewhere...

Well now,
Those wedding words are considered pretty important it seems so if you are still together after a lotta years you must remember those words pretty well?
Then again,
Maybe you two figure you left something out, that oughta have been in, way back when on that special day. If you’re still together after all this time those maybe missing words wouldn’t really change much.
I’d leave sleeping dogs lie, maybe go get an ice cream cone.
You be you, either way well be pulling for ya.

Osky