Please jot this down.
https://ag.umass.edu/tick-borne-disease-diagnostics/submit-tick. This is is a college that will DNA test a tic for you that you just pulled off of yourself. This is much more accurate than getting yourself tested (and cheaper) at just 50 bucks.
When you pull the tic off of yourself (wire method is best), Put the tick dead or alive inside a plastic tube (NO ALCOHOL OR ANY SOLVENTS). You can use a baggie but tape it completely closed so it cant get out. Take note of the date bitten and, where on the body the tic was removed. Follow the above website directions, within 2 weeks you will have the DNA results. They do test for more than lymes.
Even if your tic is infected, This is not a diagnosis that you will have got lymes from your tic. Lots of variables there. But your dr should be shown any positive results and if he is lyme literate he will put you on 6 weeks Doxy as a precaution. This is the fastest way to prevent a lifetime of horror of dealing with Lymes.
The problem is... say you had a tic, it was infected, you got infected, didn't know it, a month later you come down with what you think is the flu. dr gives you 10 days of antibiotics. you feel better after taking the antibiotics, then a month later you are sick again and it is worse. You would seriously have been better off not taking the 10 day antibiotic. Now You may end up taking bank busting antibiotics for 6 months to a year. Please spend 50 bucks to see it what you pulled from your body is infected or not.
Research now indicates a mother can pass lymes to her baby, a lot of couples have Lymes, there is current research to discover if Lymes can be passed thru sex. Most famous couple I know of who has lymes is Chuck Norris and his wife. I do know a lot about lymes as I researched it 5 years ago because a friend has it. God Bless