On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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Hunting drama, my favorite.
Got permission on a goose field last year and we had a great hunt out of it. Contacted the farmer again this year and he said it would be no problem if we kept hunting but another guy had asked to hunt also. He explained that guy hunted alone and only had a couple decoys. I told him it was no problem at all, we would communicate with the other guy and invite him out whenever we planned to hunt as we would do better hunting together than competing.
We hunted the field last Friday and had a great hunt, killed 27. I notified the other guy on Wednesday morning that we planned to hunt Friday evening and he said he had prior plans but to go ahead without him. Fast forward to this week. We planned to hunt it again Saturday morning (tomorrow). I told him on Tuesday and he said he would let me know. Haven't heard anything since. This morning when I ride by the field on the way to work what do I see? Him hunting the field, sticking out like a sore thumb, sitting in the middle of his decoys. He knew we planned to hunt tomorrow morning and he still went this morning without saying a word to anybody.
Now this obviously rubbed me the wrong way. All he had to do was call and say he was hunting this morning and we would have been fine. I've been very cordial and communicated well with him, but he didn't even come close to returning the favor. In my opinion, this breaks the simple agreement the farmer had with us, and it should be the end of his hunting privilege's. What do you all think?
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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If you both have permission then I would hunt when I wanted and if other guy shows up invite him to hunt with you
If I was landowner and drama started, both of you would be gone
Another option is to approach landowner about leasing/paying for exclusive hunting rights I know money talks, but leasing it out from under a guy is a pretty douche bag move too.
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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Sorry guys I should have mentioned, I have NOT contacted the landowner and don’t plan to. Like you all say that will create more issues than it’s worth.
Farmer did not go for a lease, asked last year.
Bowhunter, him not being able to get in touch with me is a (This word is unacceptable on Trapperman) poor excuse. He has my phone number, he made no effort. I texted him and asked if that was him hunting and his response was “Yeah man that’s me, sorry I should have let you know, my bad.” Instantly guilty
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
[Re: coondagger2]
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09/17/21 08:55 AM
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when i was in kindergarten we had a kid that thought he could get on a swing at recess just cause nobody else was on it when he got there
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
[Re: coondagger2]
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09/17/21 09:01 AM
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If you weren't planning to hunt it the day he was out there I don't see a problem. If it's true, as you say, that he was sitting out there like a sore thumb, maybe he won't be very successful and he will learn somethingfrom his lack of experience. Sometimes the best way to learn things is to do it on your own. He will then be able to compare the lack of success when he hunts by himself to when he hunts with you.
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
[Re: coondagger2]
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09/17/21 09:13 AM
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not much point in getting mad , it's like you drinking poison and wondering why he doesn't get sick
he will grow tired of getting next to nothing and hang it up or
he may eventually come see how you do it
keep communicating to him
he may just be ignorant , Ignorant can be educated , as opposed to stupid which you just can't fix
any way the land owner wants to hear from you 2 times year , when you ask and when you thank him by dropping off a case or bottle of what ever he drinks
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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Sounds like you want it by your rules. I don't see where anyone is wrong. I give it a 1 or 2. No sir, the farmer is the one who asked that we communicate before hunting. That was his one rule. I did not make that rule
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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Could of been a spur of the moment thing. Unless it ruins your weekend hunt, this rates about a 1 To be determined if it ruins the hunt, but it probably will. He shot at 3 different groups of birds this morning, killed 1. If the hunt is ruined I’m giving it a 5, if not I’m still at a 2
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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He's probably like me. Zero desire to hunt with other people. Figures if he called you, you might want to go too, thereby ruining his hunt. My opinion probably isn't what you want to hear but... you both have permission there. You do your thing and let him do his. It sounds like he doesn't want to hunt with y'all.
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
[Re: coondagger2]
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The guy has permission, if he his hunting ethically and within the law... get there earlier next time or move on.
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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The last thing a landowner wants to deal with is unneeded drama so pick your fights wisely or nobody will be hunting in the future maybe to solve the problems.
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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He's probably like me. Zero desire to hunt with other people. Figures if he called you, you might want to go too, thereby ruining his hunt. My opinion probably isn't what you want to hear but... you both have permission there. You do your thing and let him do his. It sounds like he doesn't want to hunt with y'all. I have no problem with that. But how would you feel if you were the landowner and allowed hunting under one condition, and then that condition was ignored? Like I said before, landowner has not been notified
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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Don't call the farmer. Right now, he has enough worries. If it were my farm, and it turned into a headache, my 2 solutions would be: 1-No one hunts it. 2-Highest bidder gets hunting rights next year. Be prepared for one of those outcomes if you make a fuss.
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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The last thing a landowner want to deal with is unneeded drama so pick you fights wisely or nobody will be hunting in the future maybe to solve the problems. Then we will have another thread complaining about land owners using depredation tag when they won't let people hunt. I always love those threads a lot of guys in them seem like they think they should have a say about what happens on someone else's property. Funny they never seem to own any themselves.
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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Kind of a crappy deal, for sure. You can tell the farmer, but I'm sure he has bigger things to worry about and probably doesn't want to be bothered about it. I'd work it out with the other guy and not involve the landowner. I agree. If you bother the farmer, he might throw both of you out. Work it out with the other guy cordially as though it was a misunderstanding.
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
[Re: coondagger2]
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I'm not real sure what the big deal is....you had to work, and apparently he didn't, so he decided to go on a hunt....? Are you worried that him being there this morning will screw up your evening hunt? If that's the case, then yeah, a heads-up from him would have been nice.
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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The farmer told you the other guy hunts alone. You were to call him to find out when he is hunting so he can hunt alone.
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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If someone had permission for the year before I did, then I would be calling that person to let them know when I was wanting to hunt to see if they were going to be in there. I would not expect for it to be reciprocated. This is a 0
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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If someone had permission for the year before I did, then I would be calling that person to let them know when I was wanting to hunt to see if they were going to be in there. I would not expect for it to be reciprocated. This is a 0 X2
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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He's probably like me. Zero desire to hunt with other people. Figures if he called you, you might want to go too, thereby ruining his hunt. My opinion probably isn't what you want to hear but... you both have permission there. You do your thing and let him do his. It sounds like he doesn't want to hunt with y'all. I have no problem with that. But how would you feel if you were the landowner and allowed hunting under one condition, and then that condition was ignored? Like I said before, landowner has not been notified Is that what happened? Because that's not what your original post said. You said you asked permission to hunt a place you hunted last year, and was told you could, but that someone else was also already hunting there. YOU said ok, you would talk with him and try and coordinate hunts and the farmer says Ok, sure. I doubt the farmer cares if you hunt separately, or together. That's what YOU wanted and the other guy apparently doesn't want the same thing. Why would you think the farmer made it a condition of the other guy hunting with you just because you suggested it? If the farmer told the other guy he was ONLY allowed to hunt if he was hunting with you, then that's an entirely different story. But if he didn't, then I don't think hunting with you is a condition of the other guy hunting there. I guess you think him being there today will scare off your birds tomorrow. I don't know much about waterfowl hunting, but see how your hunt goes tomorrow. It might not even be an issue. But to answer your original question I wouldn't be mad at all. I would chalk it up to it being the landowner's property and if he wants to let half a dozen different people hunt it, he can. Since it's just one lone guy hunting this place, I would just try and work around him.
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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If you both have permission then I would hunt when I wanted and if other guy shows up invite him to hunt with you
If I was landowner and drama started, both of you would be gone
Another option is to approach landowner about leasing/paying for exclusive hunting rights I know money talks, but leasing it out from under a guy is a pretty douche bag move too. Just business, I see no problem with it.. You can still invite the other guy.
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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1. He got permission to hunt then you called to get permission again. So you both have permission. Did the farmer ask either of you to not go without the other? That said, it was nice of you to invite him to hunt with you. I don't know why he went the day before you told him you were planning a hunt - and invited him along. If that was his only time available for a while or something - but it would have been nice to communicate that with you. Hopefully you guys can still work it out and the farmer will feel good he gave both of you permission.
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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Had a goose hunter complain I was trapping a badger hole that I had permission trap in a field, like a 2 minute check in and out if the geese were flying I’d check it later in the day no problem then. The guy never talked to me he just went crying to the landowner so I said sure I’ll pull the trap so I moved it 100 yards to the road ditch ROW. Caught a badger a few days later and I was out of there.
Later that year I had a duck blind behind my house it was a ideal setup freshly flooded cover the neighbor had cut a sweet strip of silage out of before it flooded it was like a landing strip with tall thick cover on each side of it. Basically a shooting gallery for ducks.
People asked to hunt the blind that I knew one was a City Officer that was friends with the goose hunters son had been for a long time. I said sure no problem just his Dad is not welcome I don’t want him around. Karma is a sweet thing.
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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Sounds like you want it by your rules. I don't see where anyone is wrong. I give it a 1 or 2. No sir, the farmer is the one who asked that we communicate before hunting. That was his one rule. I did not make that rule Communicate, certainly don't mean hunting together. Also maybe 1 or 2 birds are enough for him. You're almost sounding overbearing and pushy. I am a loner and would have turned down your idea of hunting with you. Did he ruin the hunting? Won't new birds migrate through? What kind of birds? I would take sun baked road kill possum over a Canada Goose. Scale my anger a -1
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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The guy did exactly what he told the land owner he intended to do.
No one put you in charge. Your rules suck. If you don't like it hunt somewhere else.
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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How many geese have you taken from this field. Sounds to me.like you either need to live with it or buy your own property. Maybe the guy is a loner and likes hunting by himself with just his decoys. Maybe he just doesn't like you telling him when and how he should hunt. Maybe be is the one who should be mad?
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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Really thinking you didn’t think this through or read it before you posted, lol. Both of you have permission, he had permission first and your upset he hunted before you. Sounds like the joys of public land hunting to me. You hunt when you can and he’ll hunt when he can.
I give it a 1
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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Mortgage your house, buy your own field, hunt it any way you like, but don't forget to pay your taxes...On your scale: 0
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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Do not involve the land owner or you may be 0 and be cut off. JMO
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Re: On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be?
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Communication
As Bill Clinton might say; "It depends on what the definition of communication Is"
You told him when you would be hunting next. He picked a day when you had not planned on hunting. I would consider that not only communication, but etiquette.
But, I have to wonder....You said you drove by on the way to work and saw him hunting. You also seem to know what all he shot at. It sounds like a lot more than just driving by.
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