No Profanity *** No Flaming *** No Advertising *** No Anti Trappers ***NO POLITICS
No Non-Target Catches *** No Links to Anti-trapping Sites *** No Avoiding Profanity Filter


Home~Trap Talk~ADC Forum~Trap Shed~Wilderness Trapping~International Trappers~Fur Handling

Auction Forum~Trapper Tips~Links~Gallery~Basic Sets~Convention Calendar~Chat~ Trap Collecting Forum

Trapper's Humor~Strictly Trapping~Fur Buyers Directory~Mugshots~Fur Sale Directory~Wildcrafting~The Pen and Quill

Trapper's Tales~Words From The Past~Legends~Archives~Kids Forum~Lure Formulators Forum~ Fermenter's Forum


~~~ Dobbins' Products Catalog ~~~


Minnesota Trapline Products
Please support our sponsor for the Trappers Talk Page - Minnesota Trapline Products


Print Thread
Hop To
Page 2 of 2 1 2
Re: Back on the farm [Re: Jiggamitch] #7878458
06/05/23 05:56 AM
06/05/23 05:56 AM
Joined: Jun 2016
Posts: 12,452
Michigan
T
Trapper Dahlgren Offline
trapper
Trapper Dahlgren  Offline
trapper
T

Joined: Jun 2016
Posts: 12,452
Michigan
good luck in life hope it goes the way you want

Re: Back on the farm [Re: Jiggamitch] #7878463
06/05/23 06:08 AM
06/05/23 06:08 AM
Joined: Apr 2009
Posts: 10,710
South Ga - Almost Florida
S
Swamp Wolf Offline
trapper
Swamp Wolf  Offline
trapper
S

Joined: Apr 2009
Posts: 10,710
South Ga - Almost Florida
Originally Posted by Jiggamitch
We both live in Texas. She was a traveling nurse. I tried to talk to her about saving our marriage to no avail. We were divorced a day after our anniversary just a few days ago. I don't feel like an anvil was lifter, but another added on. I love her very much and I meant my vows.

Oh...I thought you were in Iowa with your Dad. If so, I'd stay there.


Thank God For Your Blessings!
Never Half-Arse Anything!

Resource Protection Service

Re: Back on the farm [Re: yotetrapper30] #7878471
06/05/23 06:56 AM
06/05/23 06:56 AM

M
Mark June
Unregistered
Mark June
Unregistered
M



Originally Posted by yotetrapper30
TreedaBlackdog if he wants to try reconciliation with his wife that's fine, but from a Biblical aspect, cheating is the only condition that Jesus said was an acceptable reason for divorce. Matthew 5:31-32


Not many people live their lives according to Jesus' Sermon on the Mount teachings. Which of course includes marriage in the Christian sense outlined in the Bible.
Which in the text you mention (Matt 5:31-32), has our Lord quoting from the Law given to Moses (Deuteronomy 24:1) and then teaching that if the husband "sends away" the wife, for any reason other than "porneia" (sexual immorality), the husband is causing the wife to commit adultery (forcing her unwarranted remarriage).

Likewise, if the wife divorces (sends away) the husband and marries another, she commits adultery unless her marriage bond has been broken by immorality (Mark 10:12).

God's ideal is that the wife should never depart from the husband. If she does, however, she should remain unmarried or be reconciled to the husband. Likewise, the husband should not divorce or send away the wife (Jesus' teachings and 1 Corinthians 7:10-11).

Jijjamitch, many of us have tasted the defeat of divorce and for some of us, me included, made dramatic life changing choices during that time. I was not a believer years ago when my wife (not a believer either) and I divorced. I was taking advice from all the wrong people too, now that I look back on that tragic era. Life will go on, and I hope you steer towards the betterment of your heart in all this. It won't be easy because it was never meant to be easy. It'll probably be the crappiest thing you ever go through. So seek wisdom from the best sources and perhaps if your heart is open to it.... seek God's answers in all this too. That'd be done in prayer. Depending on the day, you may be depressed or angry or something else entirely. God can take it.

Mother Theresa was asked towards the end of her wonderful life of ministry and servanthood to others, what she prayed to God day after day, year after year about.
Her answer.... "I mainly listen."

Blessings,
Mark

Re: Back on the farm [Re: Jiggamitch] #7878481
06/05/23 07:12 AM
06/05/23 07:12 AM
Joined: Dec 2010
Posts: 49
Western, Pennsylvania
M
Murphy Offline
trapper
Murphy  Offline
trapper
M

Joined: Dec 2010
Posts: 49
Western, Pennsylvania
Lucky it happens within a year instead of later. I know it may not feel like it now, but itís for the best. Go find another and start hauling her ashes. Keep your head up!


Cold Trapper
Re: Back on the farm [Re: Jiggamitch] #7878491
06/05/23 07:40 AM
06/05/23 07:40 AM
Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 58,334
Minnesota
330-Trapper Offline

trapper
330-Trapper  Offline

trapper

Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 58,334
Minnesota
Prayers


NRA and NTA Life Member
www.BackroadsRevised@etsy.com




Re: Back on the farm [Re: Jiggamitch] #7878501
06/05/23 08:08 AM
06/05/23 08:08 AM
Joined: Dec 2010
Posts: 32,240
Central, SD
Law Dog Offline
trapper
Law Dog  Offline
trapper

Joined: Dec 2010
Posts: 32,240
Central, SD
Sorry for your situation but if you lose trust itís tough to find peace of mind after that. Your life your choice of direction from here on out. Good luck


Was born in a Big City Will die in the Country OK with that!

Jerry Herbst
Re: Back on the farm [Re: Jiggamitch] #7878512
06/05/23 08:29 AM
06/05/23 08:29 AM
Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 2,341
PA Venango Co.
R
Ron Marsh Offline
trapper
Ron Marsh  Offline
trapper
R

Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 2,341
PA Venango Co.
Prayer for these tough times.


PTA Lifetime #131N. Salvation Army CSM
Stakes: Why leave them?
ALWAYS John 3:16 814-677-2564 http://marsh.20megsfree.com
Re: Back on the farm [Re: Law Dog] #7878523
06/05/23 09:03 AM
06/05/23 09:03 AM
Joined: Apr 2009
Posts: 10,710
South Ga - Almost Florida
S
Swamp Wolf Offline
trapper
Swamp Wolf  Offline
trapper
S

Joined: Apr 2009
Posts: 10,710
South Ga - Almost Florida
Originally Posted by Law Dog
Sorry for your situation but if you lose trust itís tough to find peace of mind after that. Your life your choice of direction from here on out. Good luck

^^^ I agree with LawDog.

Also, I've been exactly where you are. She cheated. We were married 8 years. We have 2 kids (5 & 7 years old when all that occurred.) I prayed for God to help me lift that mental anguish/pain, and emotional confusion from me. One night, alone in our empty home and while praying, I felt all that turmoil lift from me. I know and believe that was God helping me. Because of His mercy on me I was able to slowly get it back together...career change, new home in different part of state. There were many, many more blessings in my life after that.....and today I've been married to a wonderful wife for more than 22 years. My sons have grown to be fine men (now 39 and 37 years old.)


Thank God For Your Blessings!
Never Half-Arse Anything!

Resource Protection Service

Re: Back on the farm [Re: Jiggamitch] #7878565
06/05/23 10:41 AM
06/05/23 10:41 AM
Joined: Feb 2016
Posts: 3,190
Kentucky
ky_coyote_hunter Offline
trapper
ky_coyote_hunter  Offline
trapper

Joined: Feb 2016
Posts: 3,190
Kentucky
Your going to look back at this as a stepping stone one day, the Lord won't just open another door for you in the future, he will kick it off the hinges!

Been there and back, so glad it happened now, bet you will be also.


Member - FTA
Re: Back on the farm [Re: Jiggamitch] #7878570
06/05/23 10:52 AM
06/05/23 10:52 AM
Joined: Dec 2008
Posts: 27,370
Eastern Shore of Maryland
HobbieTrapper Offline
"Chippendale Trapper"
HobbieTrapper  Offline
"Chippendale Trapper"

Joined: Dec 2008
Posts: 27,370
Eastern Shore of Maryland
Originally Posted by Jiggamitch
We both live in Texas. She was a traveling nurse. I tried to talk to her about saving our marriage to no avail. We were divorced a day after our anniversary just a few days ago. I don't feel like an anvil was lifter, but another added on. I love her very much and I meant my vows.


Sorry to hear of your situation. You canít make somebody love you but you donít have to stop loving them. Doesnít mean you have to stop living either.

Imagine how Adam felt knowing Eve was specifically made for him and yet she just had to step out on him. I reckon itís a good thing for all of us that they got it sorted out.


-Goofy-
Re: Back on the farm [Re: Jiggamitch] #7878572
06/05/23 10:53 AM
06/05/23 10:53 AM
Joined: Aug 2011
Posts: 42,594
james bay frontierOnt.
B
Boco Offline
trapper
Boco  Offline
trapper
B

Joined: Aug 2011
Posts: 42,594
james bay frontierOnt.
Why did you leave your home?
You should have kicked her cheating arse out on the street.


Forget that fear of gravity-get a little savagery in your life.
Re: Back on the farm [Re: Jiggamitch] #7878652
06/05/23 01:27 PM
06/05/23 01:27 PM
Joined: Mar 2019
Posts: 433
Pottsboro TX Grayson county
J
Jiggamitch Offline OP
trapper
Jiggamitch  Offline OP
trapper
J

Joined: Mar 2019
Posts: 433
Pottsboro TX Grayson county
She already owned the home when we got married. We bought some land together, but she's keeping that and I get to keep my retirement accounts. She tried to add on some of her debt in front of the judge at the last minute, but I refused. I appreciate everyone's kind words and prayers.

Re: Back on the farm [Re: Jiggamitch] #7878653
06/05/23 01:31 PM
06/05/23 01:31 PM
Joined: Feb 2010
Posts: 18,652
pa
H
hippie Offline
trapper
hippie  Offline
trapper
H

Joined: Feb 2010
Posts: 18,652
pa
Best to move on, sad but true.

One way love affairs don't work.

Page 2 of 2 1 2
Previous Thread
Index
Next Thread