Maybe. I came from a violently crazy unwed woman and man that ran away in the middle of the night when he found out his girlfriend (my mother) was knocked up. I turned out okay though. I could have easily turned out to be awful too though. If I had been aborted, I wouldn't have had a chance either way.

Maybe. I came from a violently crazy unwed woman and man that ran away in the middle of the night when he found out his girlfriend (my mother) was knocked up. I turned out okay though. I could have easily turned out to be awful too though. If I had been aborted, I wouldn't have had a chance either way.

This^^^ is the best summary of this topic.^^^^

When you support evil, you are evil. No matter how little you support it.

Here's a thought if an abortion is not murder then if a pregnant women gets murder how can that be a double homicide you can't have it both ways.

So with some thinking I guess CJ is worthless and should’ve been aborted. As far as evil goes, half our politicians should’ve been aborted.
Thankfully CJ wasn’t and we’ll raise him the best we know how. Odds are against him “genetically” but hopefully the fact we’ve had him since day 5, I hope some of “us” somehow become ingrained in his little mind.

Hopefully you beat the odds. When mom got her 4 they were 4, 3, 3 months and later the 4th was born. So you could say she got them young. Mom did drugs when pregnant more with the youngest he was high when born and removed from her at birth. Dad is a fellon, drugs, theft, and molestation of his older kids by a different woman. So you can say they got the bottom of the gene pool. Environment can only go so far. Genetics dictate how you are. That's why a 5 week old setter pup will poin a wing on a string. It's an automatic response.

Environment can help but it's a huge struggle if you have addictive or other negative traits it's much harder to get passed. It can be done but it's an up hill battle and having your eyes open and a honest realistic view helps with success.

I told this to mom she blew it off. All 3 girls have kids one with 3 and 3 different dads ,one 2 and 2 different dads, one only one, but no dad at home. My brother has 2 kids 2 different girls, he has bee dodging the cops lately having warrents out . I think one is bumped up to a fellony.. the part of his brain that connects action and reactions and empathy never develop according to the Dr.'s.

Saying that all 3 of the girls are going to struggle their entire life and have wast so much potential but they are light years ahead of their parents. Last I hears their birth mom was out of jail and homeless. Raged out like most addicts are . I think daddy is still in prison.