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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: Providence Farm] #8444962
07/29/25 03:29 PM
07/29/25 03:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Providence Farm
get the best in the area and talk to all the other good ones so she can't hire them. There is no such thing as a reasonable woman during a divorce..

Also backs up my stance on there is no benefit for a youn man geting married that our ways the risk. One look at the #'s is all it should take to see it. But thelat unfortunately the world we live in today.


Talking to all the good lawyers in the area is an excellent tactic. It makes it impossible for your wife, or anyone you have to go to court against in any other situation, to use them against you. Typically the first consultation is free, so the only expense is time.

Keith

Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: BigBob] #8444989
07/29/25 04:32 PM
07/29/25 04:32 PM
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Originally Posted by BigBob
Originally Posted by Providence Farm
get the best in the area and talk to all the other good ones so she can't hire them. There is no such thing as a reasonable woman during a divorce

Especially when all her Female relatives, GF's and THEIR GF's stick their noses into it.


They are already in it and giving her advice I guaranty it.

Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: Nessmuck] #8444992
07/29/25 04:39 PM
07/29/25 04:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Nessmuck
160 ain't Jesus....

He's a natural born Sinnah

Hahaha as all of us Are


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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: Nessmuck] #8445013
07/29/25 05:27 PM
07/29/25 05:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Nessmuck
160 ain't Jesus....

He's a natural born Sinnah



True story right there. Not every sinking ship can be saved and sometimes you need to just swim away from it.


I have nothing clever to put here.





Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: TreedaBlackdog] #8445018
07/29/25 05:49 PM
07/29/25 05:49 PM
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Originally Posted by TreedaBlackdog
Quitter. Sorry, but I have to say it. You are lucky I did not attend your wedding because I would hold you accountable to your vows. You stood before God and told Him you would remain married to your spouse. I say this to you because I care about you. I care about your bride and I care about your children and the generations that follow. I encourage you to repent, turn to God, and keep your mouth shut. The Lord can raise the dead. Restoring a marriage is nothing to Him. You just have to repent and turn to Him, and believe what He says about you. Believe what He says about marriage and understand what He says about divorce. One of you has a hardened heart, and likely both now. I encourage you to get alone with God and allow Him to speak to you. We ALL are sinners but some of us have chosen to believe in Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior. He saves us from our sinful nature of the flesh when we humble our pride and receive His forgiveness.

I challenge you to give God 48 hours of your life and attend Mens Encounter down here in Missouri August 15-17. I am only asking for 48 hours of your life and will gladly pay you back for all your registration expenses etc if you can commit. It is just a bunch of messed up guys who begin to understand the love that Jesus has for us. Oh, by the way, I also grew up AG, but now worship with amish, mennonite, catholic, lutheran, protestant, and those that havent even figured out a label........we just love Jesus.

https://encounterministry.org/mens-encounter

Lord, I pray You begin to soften this heart of stone and turn it to a heart of flesh. Lord, I pray Your peace that passes all understanding begins to overwhelm this man. Jesus may You overwhelm him with your true love that You hold for him even in this current valley. Satan I rebuke you in the name of Jesus Christ out of this marriage. You have no authority over this man or woman and God has a divine plan for this marriage and to use them for His kingdom for generations to come. Lord I pray Your guidance and wisdom begin to flow over both this man and woman and may they hit their knees in repentance as they truly begin to seek You first and foremost in their lives. Lord above all - may they learn to love one another and may they learn to forgive as You have forgiven us.
Please Don't Quit - Real Men Fight on Their Knees - I love you brother.


Heck yeah. Hit ‘em with the brimstone and fire while he’s down. Nothing like helping a man wipe the dust off by reminding him he’s a no-good dirty sinner.

Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8445019
07/29/25 05:49 PM
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Been following this post a guy from work and his wife were going thru a divorce and each one was afraid the other one was going to get more then the other one they even got into a fight who was going to get the salt and pepper shakers
TRUE STORY

Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8445020
07/29/25 05:51 PM
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some folks don't know or have any idea whats its like to watch the young lady you fell in love with slowly turn into a full fledged narccisist, they absolutely never admit to doing anything wrong, always play the victim, always talk behind your back to make family and friends think you are a monster. They lie,, they steal, do anything they can to make you look bad, after 25 years I had to just walk away. It took 6 years before my daughter would speak to me. I gave my house away that she never contributed to, all she ever did was buy some groceries, run the roads and refinance anything she could to get money to run on. If you have never lived thru that life, you have no dog in the fight when it comes to a divorce.

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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8445021
07/29/25 05:55 PM
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Even if you have to take out a loan...hire the best lawyer you can find !!!!

Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8445023
07/29/25 05:58 PM
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I have no advice to offer, but I hope everything turns out as good as it possibly can for you 330. Good luck.

Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: Ridge Runner1960] #8445024
07/29/25 05:59 PM
07/29/25 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Ridge Runner1960
some folks don't know or have any idea whats its like to watch the young lady you fell in love with slowly turn into a full fledged narccisist, they absolutely never admit to doing anything wrong, always play the victim, always talk behind your back to make family and friends think you are a monster. They lie,, they steal, do anything they can to make you look bad, after 25 years I had to just walk away. It took 6 years before my daughter would speak to me. I gave my house away that she never contributed to, all she ever did was buy some groceries, run the roads and refinance anything she could to get money to run on. If you have never lived thru that life, you have no dog in the fight when it comes to a divorce.


Truth

And if they did, When they tell you they would remain celebit for 20 more years and not re marry...they are lying


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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: Pirogue] #8445025
07/29/25 05:59 PM
07/29/25 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Pirogue
Even if you have to take out a loan...hire the best lawyer you can find !!!!

in the process


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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8445029
07/29/25 06:09 PM
07/29/25 06:09 PM
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I didn't read all 8 pages....but it comes down to net worth/property....how much is to be disputed, If it's not north of half a mil, you better figure it out om your own...don't let the lawyers end up with more than you.....I use several attorneys, they're all $250-$300/hr


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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8445031
07/29/25 06:32 PM
07/29/25 06:32 PM
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R R 1960 is right...I know...

Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8445041
07/29/25 06:45 PM
07/29/25 06:45 PM
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Scott just listen to your lawyer. Talk about things with your wife like an adult and you can figure out most things on your own and be fair to each other. All the lawyer had to be is a sounding board so to speak and and to fill out required paperwork.

On a personal note I recommend trying to make it work. To me being divorced and not having a normal family life sucks. But that's just me. I'm what you call old fashioned.

Last edited by Steven 49er; 07/29/25 06:45 PM.

"Gold is money, everything else is just credit" JP Morgan
Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: TreedaBlackdog] #8445053
07/29/25 07:00 PM
07/29/25 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted by TreedaBlackdog
Quitter. Sorry, but I have to say it. You are lucky I did not attend your wedding because I would hold you accountable to your vows. You stood before God and told Him you would remain married to your spouse. I say this to you because I care about you. I care about your bride and I care about your children and the generations that follow. I encourage you to repent, turn to God, and keep your mouth shut. The Lord can raise the dead. Restoring a marriage is nothing to Him. You just have to repent and turn to Him, and believe what He says about you. Believe what He says about marriage and understand what He says about divorce. One of you has a hardened heart, and likely both now. I encourage you to get alone with God and allow Him to speak to you. We ALL are sinners but some of us have chosen to believe in Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior. He saves us from our sinful nature of the flesh when we humble our pride and receive His forgiveness.

I challenge you to give God 48 hours of your life and attend Mens Encounter down here in Missouri August 15-17. I am only asking for 48 hours of your life and will gladly pay you back for all your registration expenses etc if you can commit. It is just a bunch of messed up guys who begin to understand the love that Jesus has for us. Oh, by the way, I also grew up AG, but now worship with amish, mennonite, catholic, lutheran, protestant, and those that havent even figured out a label........we just love Jesus.

https://encounterministry.org/mens-encounter

Lord, I pray You begin to soften this heart of stone and turn it to a heart of flesh. Lord, I pray Your peace that passes all understanding begins to overwhelm this man. Jesus may You overwhelm him with your true love that You hold for him even in this current valley. Satan I rebuke you in the name of Jesus Christ out of this marriage. You have no authority over this man or woman and God has a divine plan for this marriage and to use them for His kingdom for generations to come. Lord I pray Your guidance and wisdom begin to flow over both this man and woman and may they hit their knees in repentance as they truly begin to seek You first and foremost in their lives. Lord above all - may they learn to love one another and may they learn to forgive as You have forgiven us.
Please Don't Quit - Real Men Fight on Their Knees - I love you brother.

God ain’t gonna fix this. It would be up to 330 and his wife to do that, and they have decided it won’t work anymore. Better to concentrate on getting it over with as easily as possible.

Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: hippie] #8445061
07/29/25 07:16 PM
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from page 6
Originally Posted by hippie
Anything you say can and will be used against you, that includes online


and this is an open forum;

and remember that every email to a lawyer cost 1/3 of an hour to read and 1/3 hour for them to respond $$$$$

Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8445073
07/29/25 07:34 PM
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Oh sorry about your dilemma ......
get a loan for the lawyer...tax write off in the end
do a exploritory on any outstanding credit card depts she may have that you do not know of.....cause you are responsiable for 1/2 of those cost.

I think 160user has given some advise that is spot on

Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: Northof50] #8445076
07/29/25 07:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Northof50

do a exploritory on any outstanding credit card depts she may have that you do not know of.....cause you are responsiable for 1/2 of those cost.

I


Not necessarily. That is why a lawyer is needed


"Gold is money, everything else is just credit" JP Morgan
Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8445124
07/29/25 08:58 PM
07/29/25 08:58 PM
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So sorry to hear.


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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8445136
07/29/25 09:03 PM
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What yall need to do is get a case of Boone’s farm and listen to this on repeat for about two hours …. Then go renew yalls vows at the nearest postale church with a snake handling pastor



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