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get the best in the area and talk to all the other good ones so she can't hire them. There is no such thing as a reasonable woman during a divorce..
Also backs up my stance on there is no benefit for a youn man geting married that our ways the risk. One look at the #'s is all it should take to see it. But thelat unfortunately the world we live in today.
Talking to all the good lawyers in the area is an excellent tactic. It makes it impossible for your wife, or anyone you have to go to court against in any other situation, to use them against you. Typically the first consultation is free, so the only expense is time.
Keith
Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: BigBob]
#8444989 07/29/2504:32 PM07/29/2504:32 PM
Quitter. Sorry, but I have to say it. You are lucky I did not attend your wedding because I would hold you accountable to your vows. You stood before God and told Him you would remain married to your spouse. I say this to you because I care about you. I care about your bride and I care about your children and the generations that follow. I encourage you to repent, turn to God, and keep your mouth shut. The Lord can raise the dead. Restoring a marriage is nothing to Him. You just have to repent and turn to Him, and believe what He says about you. Believe what He says about marriage and understand what He says about divorce. One of you has a hardened heart, and likely both now. I encourage you to get alone with God and allow Him to speak to you. We ALL are sinners but some of us have chosen to believe in Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior. He saves us from our sinful nature of the flesh when we humble our pride and receive His forgiveness.
I challenge you to give God 48 hours of your life and attend Mens Encounter down here in Missouri August 15-17. I am only asking for 48 hours of your life and will gladly pay you back for all your registration expenses etc if you can commit. It is just a bunch of messed up guys who begin to understand the love that Jesus has for us. Oh, by the way, I also grew up AG, but now worship with amish, mennonite, catholic, lutheran, protestant, and those that havent even figured out a label........we just love Jesus.
Lord, I pray You begin to soften this heart of stone and turn it to a heart of flesh. Lord, I pray Your peace that passes all understanding begins to overwhelm this man. Jesus may You overwhelm him with your true love that You hold for him even in this current valley. Satan I rebuke you in the name of Jesus Christ out of this marriage. You have no authority over this man or woman and God has a divine plan for this marriage and to use them for His kingdom for generations to come. Lord I pray Your guidance and wisdom begin to flow over both this man and woman and may they hit their knees in repentance as they truly begin to seek You first and foremost in their lives. Lord above all - may they learn to love one another and may they learn to forgive as You have forgiven us. Please Don't Quit - Real Men Fight on Their Knees - I love you brother.
Heck yeah. Hit ‘em with the brimstone and fire while he’s down. Nothing like helping a man wipe the dust off by reminding him he’s a no-good dirty sinner.
Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: 330-Trapper]
#8445019 07/29/2505:49 PM07/29/2505:49 PM
Been following this post a guy from work and his wife were going thru a divorce and each one was afraid the other one was going to get more then the other one they even got into a fight who was going to get the salt and pepper shakers TRUE STORY
Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: 330-Trapper]
#8445020 07/29/2505:51 PM07/29/2505:51 PM
some folks don't know or have any idea whats its like to watch the young lady you fell in love with slowly turn into a full fledged narccisist, they absolutely never admit to doing anything wrong, always play the victim, always talk behind your back to make family and friends think you are a monster. They lie,, they steal, do anything they can to make you look bad, after 25 years I had to just walk away. It took 6 years before my daughter would speak to me. I gave my house away that she never contributed to, all she ever did was buy some groceries, run the roads and refinance anything she could to get money to run on. If you have never lived thru that life, you have no dog in the fight when it comes to a divorce.
Last edited by Ridge Runner1960; 07/29/2505:53 PM.
Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: 330-Trapper]
#8445021 07/29/2505:55 PM07/29/2505:55 PM
some folks don't know or have any idea whats its like to watch the young lady you fell in love with slowly turn into a full fledged narccisist, they absolutely never admit to doing anything wrong, always play the victim, always talk behind your back to make family and friends think you are a monster. They lie,, they steal, do anything they can to make you look bad, after 25 years I had to just walk away. It took 6 years before my daughter would speak to me. I gave my house away that she never contributed to, all she ever did was buy some groceries, run the roads and refinance anything she could to get money to run on. If you have never lived thru that life, you have no dog in the fight when it comes to a divorce.
Truth
And if they did, When they tell you they would remain celebit for 20 more years and not re marry...they are lying
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: Pirogue]
#8445025 07/29/2505:59 PM07/29/2505:59 PM
I didn't read all 8 pages....but it comes down to net worth/property....how much is to be disputed, If it's not north of half a mil, you better figure it out om your own...don't let the lawyers end up with more than you.....I use several attorneys, they're all $250-$300/hr
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: 330-Trapper]
#8445031 07/29/2506:32 PM07/29/2506:32 PM
Scott just listen to your lawyer. Talk about things with your wife like an adult and you can figure out most things on your own and be fair to each other. All the lawyer had to be is a sounding board so to speak and and to fill out required paperwork.
On a personal note I recommend trying to make it work. To me being divorced and not having a normal family life sucks. But that's just me. I'm what you call old fashioned.
Last edited by Steven 49er; 07/29/2506:45 PM.
"Gold is money, everything else is just credit" JP Morgan
Quitter. Sorry, but I have to say it. You are lucky I did not attend your wedding because I would hold you accountable to your vows. You stood before God and told Him you would remain married to your spouse. I say this to you because I care about you. I care about your bride and I care about your children and the generations that follow. I encourage you to repent, turn to God, and keep your mouth shut. The Lord can raise the dead. Restoring a marriage is nothing to Him. You just have to repent and turn to Him, and believe what He says about you. Believe what He says about marriage and understand what He says about divorce. One of you has a hardened heart, and likely both now. I encourage you to get alone with God and allow Him to speak to you. We ALL are sinners but some of us have chosen to believe in Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior. He saves us from our sinful nature of the flesh when we humble our pride and receive His forgiveness.
I challenge you to give God 48 hours of your life and attend Mens Encounter down here in Missouri August 15-17. I am only asking for 48 hours of your life and will gladly pay you back for all your registration expenses etc if you can commit. It is just a bunch of messed up guys who begin to understand the love that Jesus has for us. Oh, by the way, I also grew up AG, but now worship with amish, mennonite, catholic, lutheran, protestant, and those that havent even figured out a label........we just love Jesus.
Lord, I pray You begin to soften this heart of stone and turn it to a heart of flesh. Lord, I pray Your peace that passes all understanding begins to overwhelm this man. Jesus may You overwhelm him with your true love that You hold for him even in this current valley. Satan I rebuke you in the name of Jesus Christ out of this marriage. You have no authority over this man or woman and God has a divine plan for this marriage and to use them for His kingdom for generations to come. Lord I pray Your guidance and wisdom begin to flow over both this man and woman and may they hit their knees in repentance as they truly begin to seek You first and foremost in their lives. Lord above all - may they learn to love one another and may they learn to forgive as You have forgiven us. Please Don't Quit - Real Men Fight on Their Knees - I love you brother.
God ain’t gonna fix this. It would be up to 330 and his wife to do that, and they have decided it won’t work anymore. Better to concentrate on getting it over with as easily as possible.
Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: hippie]
#8445061 07/29/2507:16 PM07/29/2507:16 PM
Oh sorry about your dilemma ...... get a loan for the lawyer...tax write off in the end do a exploritory on any outstanding credit card depts she may have that you do not know of.....cause you are responsiable for 1/2 of those cost.
I think 160user has given some advise that is spot on
Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: Northof50]
#8445076 07/29/2507:38 PM07/29/2507:38 PM
What yall need to do is get a case of Boone’s farm and listen to this on repeat for about two hours …. Then go renew yalls vows at the nearest postale church with a snake handling pastor
