Don't come across desperate, women can smell that a mile away and you will only attract the same kind

too bad I'm not a lap dog person

Thats a good thing

Mid to late fifties?

The good ones are taken

I agree. Look for one in their late 30's or early 40's instead.

Same difference other then have to raise someone else's kids

Those will be divorced with kids train wrecks And or those feeling the biological clock and taking a break from the carousel for their nice guy sucker they will cheat on and take to the cleaners in a few years.

Best to be of the take them or leave them minds set. You won't come off and needy or desperate. Make them chase you. All the girls claim they want the good dependibal nice guy provider But tend to chase the bad boys that treat them like crap.

Know your worth. Have your boundaries and standards and dont move from them. always ask what is she bringing to the table. Women control access to the bed room men control access to relationships. Be confident and know you are the prize in the relationship.

Work on yourself before trying to get into a relationship. You will need to rediscover who you are in your new life and things you think you want may not be things you want. Your identity has changed. Get that figured out first or you won't be happy. And you are responsible for your happiness. Once you are content and have your bearings only then will you have a chandmce of a successful mutual relationship. You owe that to any woman you meet to not be a train wreck yourself.

Though you married your highschool sweetheart P.F.?

He probably mastered all those things in grade school

Lol

And make sure if you find some random woman online you meet in-person. Lots of crazy people out there on the internet.

I did and its probably the best thing I ever did I happened to be blessed and find The woman God made for me, or a unicorn, take your pick. Im also aware of how the majority of men and women act and behave today.. Its horrible. Yes men are pigs and like to sleep around but women are just as bad or worse. Probably becuse its easier for women to get laid.
MEN get screwed over in divorce and family courts 30% of men that have tested their kids are raising kids they think are theirs but are not. Thats just those tested so a small sample of the population it likely much worse . The ancestor dna, and medical needs testing have exposed a lot of this . Learn female psychology and men are better off and have more successful relationships.


Having your eyes open and knowing yourself and what you want is the only way I think you can have a successful relationship. But just because I have been with my wife since I was 16 and am now 45 by no means says im an expert. Just what worked for me and im not divorced so far. Many people with over 29 years end up divorced and anything can happen.

You guys are no fun.

He should try out a 21 year old redhead named Tiffany dancing her way through nursing school.

Could be interesting.

Could he afford that much fun???

Only one way to find out. You only live once.

would be ok if she doesn't talk. The immaturity would be way to much and not worth the entertainment. If you can't enjoy a conversation with them its best not to stick it.

Out of all that, you're worried about conversation? Psycho doesn't require words.

Lol

What, are you 100 years old or something? Yeah, a stimulating "conversation" with a 21 year old redhead stripper is the priority.

Who said anything about a stripper???????