Weed ...baaaaddd
Alcohol ....goooooddd
Is what I feel a lot of these convos are gonna feel like lol
excessive , harmful or damaging use of any BAD
I have a relative , had an excellent job , $$$$$$ very technical , she performed her job well , but for a while was under a lot of stress from a personal relationship issue and smoked weed when she got high the night before she overslept and missed the critical start time for the operation as a contract employee they didn't re-up that contract that was some serios $
if she sees it or not , she gets to work on time now but lost that job and has a Good but not as good job than the one she lost. A lot of it may have had to do with that personal relationship she was in that went sour , but the weed didn't help.
she is still on the weed last I talked to her but maybe just on weekends now it is even legal where she is living.
I had an uncle that was an alcoholic , most dependable worker as an alcoholic you may have ever met never late for work , worked like a rented mule all day , then drank hard every night. but apparently had a shut off time he had to sleep so he was at work again.
unless he got a dui , well by his 3rd he figured out how to not drive most of the time. when he did it was on a enduro motorcycle.
that went ok till he was 32 and drove into an oak tree one winter , his girlfriend needed brakes so he took her car to the shop at work owned by my other uncle fixed her brakes then hit the tree driving home, when your dead they don't charge you with anything , but the family gets the tox screen a few days after the funeral. he definitely should not have been driving.