5 years of life changes
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09/23/24 04:56 PM
09/23/24 04:56 PM
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Randy Wieland
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Been about 5 years since that last time I logged into T/man. What a crazy path to be on and to realize just how life circumstances can really dictate what you can and can not do. Obviously others have life situations that leave them disabled, blind, and so on and I respect what they do to over come those ailments. For me, it been all family driven. My mother developed lung issues and I had to do in home hospice. No one else could do it, which I didn't mind. But that set off the chain of events. I temporarily closed my business and took care of her around the clock for months. Shortly after her passing, my Father took a dive off the cliff with his health and I've been caring for him for almost 5 years. We are at home hospice care point, but he is way to stubborn to pass. Something I'm more grateful for than can ever be described. After loosing close friends and a few near and dear heros in my life, I learned to never leave anything unsaid! A blessing I have in the care of my parents that millions of people would nearly die for. Having those repeated conversations about any and everything is special. I genuinely feel for everyone that looses a love one unexpectedly and will never have the opportunity to experience that.
Add in my first grandson, closing my businesses out completely, depleting our cash on hand, housing markets killed my retirement funds when the banks crashed, and that list goes on and on. I look in the mirror and wonder where the heck all the gray hair came from, the goals that I stopped chasing, the ones I achieved and realized are much more meaningless that I thought then, the unfinished projects, and the life I stepped away from. Hard to recognize this path some days.
But I was out in the barn cleaning some crap up that was left piled up a few years ago and I began to just stare at the weathered boards. Like flipping a switch, I fell into a long train of thought about one of my biggest heroes in life and every year seeing our traps hung up on the side of his barn. Unbelievable the sense of comfort and relaxation that came to me in my mind as I dwelled on that. For a few minutes, no stress, no demands of life, and just a steady stream of great memories.
Needless to say, almost 6 years of dust is blown off and its time. Doesn't matter the pelt value, or hitting a 75 coyote target, or anything else that is just minor details. Trapping has always been a place of learning, imagination, understanding, teaching...and its time to be back. That also prompted me to take a few minutes while dad is asleep to jump in back here. ( I do appreciate that our profiles are still here after that amount of time.) A lot people I lost contact with that are amazing people with incredible core values. Hope everyone has a great and fullfilling season for any reason you trap.
So, its been a very long time and I'm sure there are so many new people. But I have to know, is it still advisable to keep the aluminum hat readily available and be concerned of the curse of the cat lady in Iowa??
The only thing worse than losing........Is QUITTING! Lifetime Member WTA
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Re: 5 years of life changes
[Re: Randy Wieland]
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09/23/24 05:14 PM
09/23/24 05:14 PM
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logger coffey
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I dont know the cat lady but yes keep your hat ready and get some high top rubber boots. o yea, and your doing a great thing for your family thumbs up.
Last edited by logger coffey; 09/23/24 05:25 PM.
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Re: 5 years of life changes
[Re: Randy Wieland]
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09/23/24 05:22 PM
09/23/24 05:22 PM
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Posts: 1,707 Franklin Co. Ohio
oh trap
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Glad to see your back to trappin Randy.. good luck this season.
Ms Cat still congers up weather anomalies and her aim still hasn't improved
You don't join the Marines...You become one
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Re: 5 years of life changes
[Re: Randy Wieland]
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09/23/24 05:37 PM
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Muskrat
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Hey buddy, been awhile. Good to see you're back. Take care, my friend.
Lifetime member of WTA and NTA
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Re: 5 years of life changes
[Re: Randy Wieland]
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09/23/24 05:59 PM
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J.C.
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That was beautiful and well spoken
To a person ignorant of nature, his country stroll is a walk through a gallery filled with wonderful works of art with their faces turned to the wall
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Re: 5 years of life changes
[Re: Randy Wieland]
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09/23/24 06:37 PM
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Law Dog
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You get knocked down you get up and start over, welcome back.
Was born in a Big City Will die in the Country OK with that!
Jerry Herbst
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Re: 5 years of life changes
[Re: Paul Dobbins]
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09/23/24 06:42 PM
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Randy Wieland
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It's great to have you back! Paul, how many times has the board crash?? lol. Glad to see this forum still up and going!! And Kudos to all that continue to contribute. Mike, it’s been way too long. Hope all is well at your place. Great to see some familiar names after all this Time
The only thing worse than losing........Is QUITTING! Lifetime Member WTA
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Re: 5 years of life changes
[Re: Randy Wieland]
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09/23/24 06:53 PM
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Life has a tendancy to throw curve balls out of the blue sometimes. Sounds like you got your head screwed on right and handled it well. In the big picture 5 years is not a real long time when looking back,Seems a lot longer when looking forward.
Forget that fear of gravity-get a little savagery in your life.
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Re: 5 years of life changes
[Re: Randy Wieland]
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09/23/24 08:00 PM
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Life has a tendency to change and evolve in ways we never can imagine. Got to roll with the punches . Welcome back aboard and God bless
NYSTA, NTA, FTA, life member Erie county trappers assn.,life member Catt.county trappers
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Re: 5 years of life changes
[Re: Randy Wieland]
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09/23/24 08:10 PM
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Posts: 6,445 Williamsport, Pa.
jk
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Welcome back and congratulations on all the work you did for your family. My hat is off to you......jk
Free people are not equal. Equal people are not free. What's supposed to be ain't always is. Hopper Hunter
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Re: 5 years of life changes
[Re: Randy Wieland]
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09/24/24 09:19 AM
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Posts: 17,202 Goldsboro, North Carolina
Paul Dobbins
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It's great to have you back! Paul, how many times has the board crash?? lol. Glad to see this forum still up and going!! And Kudos to all that continue to contribute It has been good since 2006. No crashes.
John 14:6 Jesus answered, � I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."
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