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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8444594
07/28/25 10:09 PM
07/28/25 10:09 PM
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Why are we all assuming here that it is his wife that wants the divorce? From what I have read, it sounds more to me like it was his idea, due to her gambling problem? Maybe I'm missing something all the rest of you are seeing....


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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8444605
07/28/25 10:30 PM
07/28/25 10:30 PM
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Originally Posted by 330-Trapper

Im a sinner, Raised in the AG Church
Because of Rogue preachers Ive lost much of my belief in Organized Church
No matter what happens- I pray each night for God's forgiveness
I believe in Christ, the Holy spirit and God the Father.
If Christ can forgive a murderer hanging on the cross next to Him
I can be forgiven for my sins.
But right now Ive been using "cattle moving language " too much

I appreciate you Swamp,our resident former GW a lot.


Sincerely,Scott


Scott,
I wasn't raised in church.Never was exposed to the word of God or the Gospel of Jesus thru-out most of my life. What little I know I learned from reading the Bible. When I got to the New Testament and the words written in red......it was the most overwhelming thing I've ever experienced.

Prayer is powerful. I will continue to pray for you.

What God sees is not what man sees. Keep the faith!


Thank God For Your Blessings!
Never Half-Arse Anything!

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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: yotetrapper30] #8444607
07/28/25 10:36 PM
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Originally Posted by yotetrapper30
Why are we all assuming here that it is his wife that wants the divorce? From what I have read, it sounds more to me like it was his idea, due to her gambling problem? Maybe I'm missing something all the rest of you are seeing....

I just assumed the wife initiated it but when I went back and re-read his posts it is unclear- not that it really matters at this point.

Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: Swamp Wolf] #8444613
07/28/25 10:43 PM
07/28/25 10:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Swamp Wolf
Originally Posted by Savell
… Swampwolf made me do it

No...SW didn't!

Savell....that was crude to blame me for something you posted & bring me into this.

I have intentionally NOT commented on this thread. I know what 330 is going thru. I've been down that rough road and its no fun. It was the most mentally distressed I've ever been in my life. God is the only reason I made it thru it. I never thought much about God or knew much about Jesus before my divorce, but I know for a fact they are the MAIN reason I'm still here today. For me, this was back in 1989-90. It changed my life.

This is an extremely personal situation in someone's life. I know 330 is just needing to talk about it and this is why he posted it on Tman. I feel your pain.

My only advice to 330 is to try and maintain yourself......mentally and physically. The trouble will pass...hold it together.

Prayers for you from me.



Amen Swamp!


Cold as ice!

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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: ky_coyote_hunter] #8444614
07/28/25 10:44 PM
07/28/25 10:44 PM
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Originally Posted by ky_coyote_hunter
Are you in a no contest state? Anything of value you have that she doesn't have tabs on needs to disappear now.

Or you will give her half in mediation...Anything you owned before the marriage is pre-marital property and is yours, anything your family gave you is off limits unless you put her name on it, and might be still if you get the right attorney & judge.

Don't talk to her alone, don't be around her alone, get away from her asap....Don't text her, don't talk to her on the phone without knowing it's probably being recorded.

Retain the best attorney you can, but being a man they can only minimize, your not going to win, your going to survive.

Been there twice, and things are going good now, but it can all change tomorrow for anyone, anytime, anyplace...She's not your friend, she doesn't love you, and she will be a viscous bovine before this is over I promise you.

Goodluck brother, wouldn't wish it on anyone.


Yep my buddies ex thought she was gonna get the house, but he bought it before they got married, and his parents helped with some money. Needless to say she was (This word is unacceptable on Trapperman) when the judge told her she had no claim to it.

Hate it for you 330, but definitely get a lawyer and the best one you can afford.


Your entitled to oxygen. Everything else is earned.
Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: yotetrapper30] #8444628
07/28/25 11:02 PM
07/28/25 11:02 PM
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Originally Posted by yotetrapper30
Why are we all assuming here that it is his wife that wants the divorce? From what I have read, it sounds more to me like it was his idea, due to her gambling problem? Maybe I'm missing something all the rest of you are seeing....

It's Both of us Now

Like I said, fight for 40 yrs and wounds don't heal.
We both had our issues


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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8444630
07/28/25 11:07 PM
07/28/25 11:07 PM
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Originally Posted by 330-Trapper
Originally Posted by yotetrapper30
Why are we all assuming here that it is his wife that wants the divorce? From what I have read, it sounds more to me like it was his idea, due to her gambling problem? Maybe I'm missing something all the rest of you are seeing....

It's Both of us Now

Like I said, fight for 40 yrs and wounds don't heal.
We both had our issues



Sorry to hear about this.
It never ends as a happy situation .
I loved being married, but when I look back, I understand that I really loved my freedom more.
Best of wishes to you both.


We have met the enemy and the enemy is us!
Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: Swamp Wolf] #8444632
07/28/25 11:07 PM
07/28/25 11:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Swamp Wolf
Originally Posted by 330-Trapper

Im a sinner, Raised in the AG Church
Because of Rogue preachers Ive lost much of my belief in Organized Church
No matter what happens- I pray each night for God's forgiveness
I believe in Christ, the Holy spirit and God the Father.
If Christ can forgive a murderer hanging on the cross next to Him
I can be forgiven for my sins.
But right now Ive been using "cattle moving language " too much

I appreciate you Swamp,our resident former GW a lot.


Sincerely,Scott


Scott,
I wasn't raised in church.Never was exposed to the word of God or the Gospel of Jesus thru-out most of my life. What little I know I learned from reading the Bible. When I got to the New Testament and the words written in red......it was the most overwhelming thing I've ever experienced.

Prayer is powerful. I will continue to pray for you.

What God sees is not what man sees. Keep the faith!





Swamp, Thats was the Holy Ghost - Convictor and Comforter
The whole Trinity -3 in 1

I'll take your prayers -Thanks


NRA and NTA Life Member
www.BackroadsRevised@etsy.com




Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8444635
07/28/25 11:08 PM
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Anything you say can and will be used against you, that includes online


There comes a point liberalism has gone too far, we're past that point.
Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8444636
07/28/25 11:08 PM
07/28/25 11:08 PM
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Well don't beat yourself up over it then ....day at time , look forward to what's next ..... And Cow driving language ain't all bad once in awhile .


Prayers for peace and a sound mind


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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8444645
07/28/25 11:28 PM
07/28/25 11:28 PM
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Originally Posted by 330-Trapper
Originally Posted by yotetrapper30
Why are we all assuming here that it is his wife that wants the divorce? From what I have read, it sounds more to me like it was his idea, due to her gambling problem? Maybe I'm missing something all the rest of you are seeing....

It's Both of us Now

Like I said, fight for 40 yrs and wounds don't heal.
We both had our issues


Yep. My initial thought to reply to this post was something about your wife putting up with you for 40 years, lol. I am still curious who suggested the divorce, but it's really not any of my business. I will say if it's what you both truly want than it's probably for the best. Not all divorces are hate-filled, although many are. My parents' was pretty fair, imo, and amicable.

From a woman's point of view, if amicable is what you are hoping for, then I'd get the lawyer as everyone recommends, BUT I'd let her know up front that you intend to get a lawyer.... not because you don't trust her (even if you don't) but because there's just so much about the process that you don't understand that you're not comfortable proceeding without one. If she thinks you're not getting a lawyer, then finds out that you did, that'll likely set her off on the warpath and you can kiss amicable goodbye. Just my $0.02.


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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8444653
07/28/25 11:49 PM
07/28/25 11:49 PM
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Mine want one about every other month…..


Ant Man/ Marty 2028
just put your ear to the ground , and follow along

Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: Vinke] #8444656
07/28/25 11:56 PM
07/28/25 11:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Vinke
Mine want one about every other month…..



Can you blame her? smile


I have nothing clever to put here.





Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 160user] #8444662
07/29/25 12:19 AM
07/29/25 12:19 AM
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Originally Posted by 160user
Originally Posted by Vinke
Mine want one about every other month…..



Can you blame her? smile


I think I'd rather be married to you AND vinke than Scott if someone was holding a gun to my head, lol. Phew, thank God I dodged multiple bullets and married Pete instead....


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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8444671
07/29/25 01:03 AM
07/29/25 01:03 AM
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I would rather be married to 160…..
Kidding Scott….. you are still a sexy beast..

Best off luck.
Maybe a legal separation?
Cheaper and no responsibility for gambling expenses.


Ant Man/ Marty 2028
just put your ear to the ground , and follow along

Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8444702
07/29/25 05:35 AM
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Get a lawyer, and move on.
Best of luck to you


Let me sugar coat this
Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8444704
07/29/25 05:42 AM
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Thanks Yotetrapper ^^^

Good Advice


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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: AntiGov] #8444705
07/29/25 05:44 AM
07/29/25 05:44 AM
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Originally Posted by AntiGov
Well don't beat yourself up over it then ....day at time , look forward to what's next ..... And Cow driving language ain't all bad once in awhile .


Prayers for peace and a sound mind

Thanks AGov!


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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: 330-Trapper] #8444718
07/29/25 06:17 AM
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Again Scott, good luck.

As always family is the most important thing. Keep your children in the loop so to speak and don't use them as a mediator.

Things are going to be awkward for a bit and you'll have to find a new normal.


"Gold is money, everything else is just credit" JP Morgan
Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions [Re: Steven 49er] #8444720
07/29/25 06:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Steven 49er
Again Scott, good luck.

As always family is the most important thing. Keep your children in the loop so to speak and don't use them as a mediator.

Things are going to be awkward for a bit and you'll have to find a new normal.




Two of my 4 are mad at me, and vice versa for her

Thank You Steven


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