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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: TraderVic]
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07/30/25 04:40 PM
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MN
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This thread has truly opened my eyes to the selfishness of some men. Men that have taken vows and promised their bride they would be there for her. Now, some saying divorce is the best thing done in their life. Many profess to be be Christ followers but in trials and tribulations spout out to get the best lawyer they can afford and are driven on material possessions. It truly saddens me to know that so many men have not loved their brides even in the dark times and learned to fight on their knees and allow the Lord to lead them to love their brides even when they don't deserve it. See, I don't deserve it. I am a dirty rotten lying adulterer at heart but only by the blood of Jesus have I been forgiven and learned to love. Love without limitations. Love without being hung up on material possessions and thinking I am owed this or that. I can't control my next heartbeat - but I can try and exert self control and show love to even those that offend, ridicule, and dismiss.
Most of you are right - I have no idea what you are going through. But I do know - there is no justification that will ever make it right. Jesus even spoke on it due to the hardening of your hearts. I pray some of you men allow God to soften your hearts so you can allow the love of Christ to overwhelm you and you have the ability to love others unconditionally. Hmmmm........ever hear "Love Your Neighbor ?" That is terrible advice. I tried that once and her husband came home early. I am almost certain he would have killed me if he could have caught me.
I have nothing clever to put here.
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: 330-Trapper]
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07/30/25 05:03 PM
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Central, SD
Law Dog
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This place has more divorce advice than trapping advice now that’s a hoot. LOL
Was born in a Big City Will die in the Country OK with that!
Jerry Herbst
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: 330-Trapper]
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07/30/25 05:16 PM
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NorthwesternYote
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One man one woman
What about the kings With 100 0r more concubines
Abraham gave Sarah a child from Abraham and blessed their Future (Israelis) After he messed around and made His wife s handmaiden pregnant and Abraham sent the Handmaisen and Son away (Palestinians King Solomon himself had hundreds of wives to strengthen bonds with foreign lands. After he died, it all fell apart. There's plural marriage in the bible, but generally isn't depicted as working out well. Plural marriage in our country is illegal, so that's probably not an option for you, anyway. Sarah is the one who offered up her handmaiden since she thought she was barren. Whether that makes it okay, I'm not qualified to say, but I don't believe it was done out of a place of selfishness.
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: 330-Trapper]
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07/30/25 05:23 PM
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Coldspring Texas
Savell
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… I think yall aught to get half lit on PBR.. lather one another up in bacon grease and give it one more try
Insert profound nonsense here
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: TreedaBlackdog]
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07/30/25 05:24 PM
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Champaign County, Ohio.
KeithC
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This thread has truly opened my eyes to the selfishness of some men. Men that have taken vows and promised their bride they would be there for her. Now, some saying divorce is the best thing done in their life. Many profess to be be Christ followers but in trials and tribulations spout out to get the best lawyer they can afford and are driven on material possessions. It truly saddens me to know that so many men have not loved their brides even in the dark times and learned to fight on their knees and allow the Lord to lead them to love their brides even when they don't deserve it. See, I don't deserve it. I am a dirty rotten lying adulterer at heart but only by the blood of Jesus have I been forgiven and learned to love. Love without limitations. Love without being hung up on material possessions and thinking I am owed this or that. I can't control my next heartbeat - but I can try and exert self control and show love to even those that offend, ridicule, and dismiss.
Most of you are right - I have no idea what you are going through. But I do know - there is no justification that will ever make it right. Jesus even spoke on it due to the hardening of your hearts. I pray some of you men allow God to soften your hearts so you can allow the love of Christ to overwhelm you and you have the ability to love others unconditionally. TreedaBlackdog is the Pharisee trying to pretend he is the tax collector in this parable. "Luke 18:9-14 New International Version The Parable of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector 9 To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everyone else, Jesus told this parable: 10 “Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. 11 The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other people—robbers, evildoers, adulterers—or even like this tax collector. 12 I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.’ 13 “But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, ‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner.’ 14 “I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”" He's the type of "Christian" that makes decent people despise Christians. Keith
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: 330-Trapper]
#8445747
07/30/25 05:31 PM
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Coldspring Texas
Savell
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…. Maybe turn on some Conway twitty and dance in front of her in your underwear ?
… think outside the box …. You can win her back
Insert profound nonsense here
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: Law Dog]
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07/30/25 05:37 PM
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WI Outdoors
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This place has more divorce advice than trapping advice now that’s a hoot. LOL Lot of trappers must be divorcees.
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: KeithC]
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07/30/25 05:50 PM
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East of the Mason-Dixon Line
DelawareRob
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This thread has truly opened my eyes to the selfishness of some men. Men that have taken vows and promised their bride they would be there for her. Now, some saying divorce is the best thing done in their life. Many profess to be be Christ followers but in trials and tribulations spout out to get the best lawyer they can afford and are driven on material possessions. It truly saddens me to know that so many men have not loved their brides even in the dark times and learned to fight on their knees and allow the Lord to lead them to love their brides even when they don't deserve it. See, I don't deserve it. I am a dirty rotten lying adulterer at heart but only by the blood of Jesus have I been forgiven and learned to love. Love without limitations. Love without being hung up on material possessions and thinking I am owed this or that. I can't control my next heartbeat - but I can try and exert self control and show love to even those that offend, ridicule, and dismiss.
Most of you are right - I have no idea what you are going through. But I do know - there is no justification that will ever make it right. Jesus even spoke on it due to the hardening of your hearts. I pray some of you men allow God to soften your hearts so you can allow the love of Christ to overwhelm you and you have the ability to love others unconditionally. TreedaBlackdog is the Pharisee in this parable. "Luke 18:9-14 New International Version The Parable of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector 9 To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everyone else, Jesus told this parable: 10 “Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. 11 The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other people—robbers, evildoers, adulterers—or even like this tax collector. 12 I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.’ 13 “But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, ‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner.’ 14 “I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”" He's the type of "Christian" that makes decent people despise Christians. Keith Be careful Keith. Don’t want him hurting himself climbing off that high horse he is up on.
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: 330-Trapper]
#8445765
07/30/25 05:56 PM
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Did You find yourself a Lawyer 330??
Give me a fish, I will eat for a day. Teach me to fish, I will eat for a lifetime
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: DelawareRob]
#8445770
07/30/25 06:05 PM
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Champaign County, Ohio.
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Be careful Keith. Don’t want him hurting himself climbing off that high horse he is up on.
TreedaBlackdog comes across as a tool of Satan to drive people from Christianity, whether he knows it or not. In a lot of tales, Satan takes the form of a black dog. Keith
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: Savell]
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07/30/25 06:05 PM
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… I think yall aught to get half lit on PBR.. lather one another up in bacon grease and give it one more try Sounds gayer than the song I posted last night… Oh you meant husband and wife and not the general population of T man… My bad
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: NorthwesternYote]
#8445772
07/30/25 06:06 PM
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Wy
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One man one woman
What about the kings With 100 0r more concubines
Abraham gave Sarah a child from Abraham and blessed their Future (Israelis) After he messed around and made His wife s handmaiden pregnant and Abraham sent the Handmaisen and Son away (Palestinians King Solomon himself had hundreds of wives to strengthen bonds with foreign lands. After he died, it all fell apart. There's plural marriage in the bible, but generally isn't depicted as working out well. Plural marriage in our country is illegal, so that's probably not an option for you, anyway. Sarah is the one who offered up her handmaiden since she thought she was barren. Whether that makes it okay, I'm not qualified to say, but I don't believe it was done out of a place of selfishness. I believe Sarah taking things in to her own hand was just another example of Eve taking the fruit. She should have had faith in what God told her and Abram. And Abraham should not have taken of that fruit. Maybe that fruit was extremely attractive. In both cases they tried to become as God's and do it there own way. And in both cases God made there imperfection work for his glory.
Christ is King
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: elsmasho82]
#8445774
07/30/25 06:09 PM
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DelawareRob
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… I think yall aught to get half lit on PBR.. lather one another up in bacon grease and give it one more try Sounds gayer than the song I posted last night… Oh you meant husband and wife and not the general population of T man… My bad That’s why I like you Smash. Always thinking of others. He was talking about 330 and his wife. Lol
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: snowy]
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07/30/25 06:09 PM
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Minnesota
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Minnesota
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Did You find yourself a Lawyer 330?? I need the personal loan on Friday but Yes I picked one. She said, if I get a lawyer, she might never sign the divorce papers.
NRA and NTA Life Member
www.BackroadsRevised@etsy.com
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Re: Wife and I are Divorcing-Questions
[Re: elsmasho82]
#8445776
07/30/25 06:09 PM
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Wy
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… I think yall aught to get half lit on PBR.. lather one another up in bacon grease and give it one more try Sounds gayer than the song I posted last night… Oh you meant husband and wife and not the general population of T man… My bad You are funny smash
Christ is King
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