Prayers sent for both your wife and you.

To quote my lawyer when I went through it..."Now days you can literally get divorced over the internet for $300, Or... you can each spend $10,000 fighting over the silverware."

Im saving that.



*Also thx crappiekiller ...

Scott, hope all is well with your wife.

Praying for the Best in Healing and in Heart. God is Strong and so are YOU!!!

Randy

Scott, many people stop the divorce process. It even happens at the last court hearing. There are many people who stop the process and go on to live happily together afterwards. Sometimes couples need a a wakeup call. I hope you and Brenda can find happiness and peace, whether together or apart. I hope your estranged children realize their love for you and your for them and make amends.

Keith

My paternal grandfather had open heart surgery in his fifties and lived until he was 96. People can live great lives after the surgery.

Keith

My wife's mom and step dad have divorced and remarried years ago.. Just left their house and both are in bad shape. He is falling and on a walker she starts radiation for lung cancer next week. Still together and taking care of each other even though it got that rocky in the past.

Just got back from Canada and see this. I hope it all works out for you Scott.

Thank You all
Im getting up at 4 to drive down to Abbott

Open heart Surgery at 6

Thanks Surgery tomorrow
Thanks all for praying

My Parents divorced after 34 years. I was oldest of the kids and in my early 30’s. Very tough on me. Dad’s fault. Always some ones fault. Always. Each person needs to look at their self. If not your fault let her file for the divorce. You will always then have a clear conscious. Take the money and run. Don’t stay an extra minute in the relationship. Once 1 person gives up it will never be the same no matter what. But you need to get a lawyer at your age. If you don’t and you don’t get a fair deal a bad settlement is forever that’s a long time. Not enough time left for you to make it back. You need a fair settlement. MD

The Lawyer $ has been acquired, but im not going to use it - unless needed.
She wants no Lawyer...if the ca-ca hits the fan I'll use it.
This morning its about her Surgery.

my older brother went through a divorce after 36 years , like you ruff for years, 4 years after the divorce he said to me that he should have done it years before , so look to your future,

Thank You TD

Well, how are things going 330? Still going to go through with it and hope all is going as well as can be.

Went thru a 25 years divorce.
Mentally devastating for. My children are me.
Like stated
5 yrs later and wished I had done it yrs before.
Stay strong

Why would you bring this back to the top? It's gotta be hard enough for the guy.

It's Alright...

We're still divorcing... After her triple bypass surgery, she's been staying at one of our daughters or the other daughters. i have been staying in the house and trying to clean it up for Sale.

After 40 years, adjusting to one income and being able to pay bills has been a real challenge. Brenda and I have been communicating well that way...so far.

I have to get over to my lawyer and sign off on what she wrote up. So that it can be sent via email to Brenda. But I'm just giving her time out of the hospital. To heal up a little bit.Mentally and physically.

I wish You well and hope for the best for You.