My wife and I have been married for 38yrs, we haven't exchanged gifts for Christmas for several years. If we want something we just go get it. Any ideas on a not to crazy expensive but meaningful/thoughtful gift?
Whenever I ask what she might want for birthday's and such she'll say oh nothing

Same here, I tell my wife, just get what you want, and bye the way I don't want anything..lol

But....usually it's something small, I might get a couple bags of Dove dark chocolate, and she loves licorice, so usually a selection of different types...nothing fancy or expensive.

^ this has been method for a lot of years also.