I think it'd be with women, but I could be wrong

Has a pastor ever suggested pulling the plug?

If it were me...I'd PM 330 for some advise

He's gettin a thousand marriage years of experience right here on t man

Alot of food for thought

If it is her idea, she is using the separation as an escape from you and she will be gone for good. From your earlier posts it sounds like she doesn't really want to be with you anymore. You have had a lot of years to make her feel like that. Give up and find someone that does.

I have seen a few times where they get divorced , one gets remarried often the man , then get divorced again and remarries the first wife years later
like wise I am sure separation worked a few times in the many millions.
but
I would say it is the exception to the rule.

This web site can and does answer a lot of questions but not yours. Marriage takes the love of TWO hearts working together, not just one. I personally don't believe there's any book or any person that can really explain what true love, marriage really is. But what do I know?? I'm just an old guy that's been married to the same wonderful lady for the last 55 years.

“Leave it there, leave it there…….”

It's cheaper here than paying a therapist. Lol

My opinion is if you both want it to work you need to work on it together. If either one of you don't a separation is just a closer step to divorce.

Worked for me,,,, she was able to see what a great guy she missed
(And it was a blast from the past)
No cheating

only if it's permanent

If she is suggesting separation or open relationship she is alleeady doing it any way. At the least she has some one or multiple people picked out and having an emotional affair already.


No it won't work she is testing the water. If it falls apart with the new guy she will have you on the back burner

They are Hypergamous by nature and dont usually leave until they have another guy they think is better to grab on to. Also known as monkey branching. At some point men dont stand up to their boundaries over time women loose respect for them and routine gets boring. They get certainty and take the man for granted losing respect. Happens when men stop acting like a man and try to give them everything they want. She pulls away the guy trys harder. She has even less respect for him.

Now when he grows back his balls/ self respect and sets boundaries and sticks to them her behavior often starts to correct

A woman wants a man that's above her not equal. She needs to see the man as the prize. Never tolerate disrespect and always be willing to walk away.



Im sure that will set my favorite t man lady off.


So I can throw this out there to point out another thin you will see with female nature vs male.

With men a blanket statmet can be made about men and men will just nod and say yep thats correct when it is. And dont get personally offended like its directed directly at them. They know its a typical or common male trade or behavior and it doesn't apply to them its a generalization and accurate stereotype.

Women on the other hand say anything that can be preceded as negative about women and its taken as a direct slight to them personally. They cant say yep thats a common behavior know it does not apply to them personally and move on.

Yup. Tell her to quit whining and go fix you a sammich in the kitchen where she belongs. She will respect that and look up to you.

Whatever you do, don't leave the house, it's yours too.

Hypergamy is real. Lol. Funny hearing about it on a trapping forum. Haha

You are correct. And also lived coming up in a different time. We're not as many safety nets for women, there was a lot of social pressures that also shaped people's behavior that is not there now. There is a lot of psychological/ behavioral changes that have come with it.

Ladies of your age likely had less than 5 sexual partners in their life. Promiscuity was openly shunned same as homos. Today its common to be in the double digits before they are out of high-school. Studies show when that number gets above 7 the ability to pair bond for women gets destroyed.

Conditions are not like they were for my grandfather. Often the older generation is not familiar with younger trends. I mean what do you think would be the reaction to a girl that made appointments to set a record of some crazy amount 100 or 1000 men in a day on video back in your 20s. She limited them to only 5 min to keep things moving along. In the interview she said she flet bad several were not able to finish in the time allowed. NO SHAME AT ALL PROUD AND BRAGGING ABOUT IT. Never would have happened back them and she sure would not be giving interviews about. Same as all the queer and Trans stuff. Sure some was around but it was keep hidden.


Now I dont have 55 years of marriage but I have been with my wife 30 years married 22 in October. I have teen to early 20s kids and see more of what's going on and how much worse thing are from the young ones and also still in the work force see what's happening to married guys I work with.


Even A t man lady unknowingly made my own points for me in a pm exchange whe she wanted to set me strait.

Amoung many other things She said my wife was/would be cheating on me becuse im away working a lot among a lot of other emotional crap. . OK so she admits a woman cant be trusted to be true when a man is busting his hump to provide the life the woman wants. She 100% in her own attempt and emotional responce made my point and saying women cant be trusted to stay true. Yet what set her off i think was my saying no girls nights out or close male friends are good boundaries for young men to set. My stance in that is girls drinking and dancing at a club is a bad idea . If a woman wants to live a single lifestyle dance and gring on random guys ashe can stay single.

Young men and women dont have much in common and typically young men friends with a woman will jump at the chance to sleep with her if it arrives. If she needs close male attention beyond her husband there are some issues. This may change with the older guys with lower T.

Tjos is the only place I know there is great knowledge and smart prole on any subject you can think of. So much talent its incredible. We but heads sometimes but I have respect for those I disagree with on one topic and I can learn from that same person on a different subject and we will agree on 10 others. If we can agree to disagree on a few.

Its ok to disagree the problem is that ability to get along with those respectfully that disagree is vastly being lost. Heck people dont even want to tolerate any disagreement.

Had my best friend and youngest brother try it. In both cases it was a baby step toward divorce. The internet does not help as their wives friends were posting every thing the wives were doing on "the break". As the show friends was quoted "but we were on break!" Good luck to you trapping brother! Life can be hard.

Got to keep them wimmins in their place.