So, I probably have a different outlook on this... but I'll start by saying the "Disney Adult" stereotypes are pretty cringe.
Back in 2019, our house was hit by lightning and burned to the ground (everyone was OK, we didn't lose much as we were moving). This happened on the first day of my and my wife's scheduled vacations from work.
We decided it might be good for us and the kids to take an actual vacation instead of sitting home and stewing about the situation. We priced out a trip to Ottawa, then Gatlinburg/Pigeon Forge and were shocked by how expensive it was going to be. On a lark, my wife decided to price out a week at Disney in an economy resort - turns out there was a special rate for Canadians at that time and it was SIGNIFICANTLY less expensive for us to go to Florida than it was to stay in Ottawa or Tennessee. We thought this too good to be true, but we called to confirm, booked our trip and off we went.
I'll go on record saying as long as your expectations are realistic (it is an amusement park after all) I have found the level of service to be excellent. The food ain't Michelin star - even the fancy stuff they hype up on Youtube and social media but it does the trick and it's no more expensive than a crummy hotdog and fries would be at Canada's Wonderland...but the employees will go out of their way to make you happy or to address an issue to your satisfaction.
Also, when you have a 9 & 10 year old along for the ride, you can't beat the density of available activities. (I am talking about non-outdoors related activities here) One fun thing is only a 5 minute walk (and 30 minute wait) from the next fun thing. In Windsor, Ontario the only close, kid friendly entertainment is across the border. London is 2 hours down the 401 and Toronto is another 2 from there. With Park Hopper passes and Resort bus transportation you are easily able to visit all 4 parks in a single day plus check out Disney Springs and any of the other resort properties without worrying about parking or finding gas stations.
Honestly, I'd go back without kids but only for 3 days at most... but prices have gone up significantly just in the last year so it's not economical anymore.