I took most everyone's advice and hired a Great Female Lawyer...

Her office just called and told me - no court time required- that ghe Judge signed the Divorce papers.

I can breath easier.....

That was really quick. I hope you can go on and be happy and reunite with your estranged children.

Keith

I'm happy for you and wish you well going forward.

If I may ask, do you have to sell your place you lived on.

Good luck

3 out of My 4 Are good with me now...

Thanks Keith

You're welcome Scott. I hope your fourth child quickly and wholeheartedly comes back to you.

Keith

Yes, We will sell it in the Spring if not before.

I hope to Buy a Cabin kit With a big loft and 10 Acres
my Cat and Dog can now live inside

Good luck

I am glad for you Scott. I hope you can move on, and look ahead to a happier and more peaceful lifestyle. Having some pets indoors is a good life and has been a part of mine for as long as I can remember. Good days and smiles are awaiting you.

Wish you the best. Hope everything goes well for you with having the stress gone.

Bob, I appreciate that very much...You have no idea.

Good to hear it’s behind you. Good luck. Keep looking forward, enjoy and be happy.

I’ve been where you are and have realized it was the best thing to happen to me.

Hopefully intrest rates going down will help you get a fast sell when its time. Hopefully you find peace and can relax and she heals up well.

Thanks

Thanks PF
Shes doing well with her healing, she's got a bad cold now...but other than that...she feels Much better.

Im Hoping we can sell before April-may

I hope you will both be happy in the future! I’m sure you will continue to take care of yourself and your family!

160 is single,,,, just saying…..

Are you still living together??

Praying it works out for both of you and each can find happiness.

U should go to Arizona this winter with Bruce. Snag u one of those rich single ladies that is wintering down there

That might be the fastest divorce I have ever heard of

glad you are relived of that stress.


as a recent free agent , it's weird . different circumstances but still weird.

I didn’t know Bruce was gay,,, thanks for the heads up!

With 330 in the running u probably don't stand much of a chance

Look out Blue Oyster here he comes. J/K

Time to go fishin......life is short

I'm glad it worked out for you. best wishes in the future

… you tried the woman route… now it’s time to find you a good man …. Word is there’s a bacholer with deer eating out of his hand over in Minnesota lol

Glad it was fast, mine dragged on for 5 years- brutal.

Best of luck, it’s tough to go through but keep looking forward.

wishing you the best going forward,

Best of luck to ya, bud !

Always nice when folks find each other.

But.... Scott may not wanna sleep on the couch.

You don't have to be lonely....at trappersonly.com.

… it was just females that were made to sleep on the couch if memory serves me correctly

....valid point.....

Thank You SmashO

Don't be gay Dave

Shes recovering from open heart at my middle child's home

but we will be for part of the winter possibly- unfortunately

My gulp of beer went outta my nose.

I got a good female Lawyer who told me not to go after her passions or my 6k bill would balloon fast

It Sure is AntiGov.

Im gonna troll for a Cute brunette ( Natural Female )

330 you can do a whole lot better then that one.

5 yrs holy cow

I didnt want to wait 5 months

I don't want to horn in on your game

I gave up on Bruce a long time ago, hes all talk.

When you get back to dating find out right away about her feelings towards dogs living in the house. If ANY hesitation against it dump her and move on. That alone says everything you need to know about what kind of a person she is and to stay far away.

So how long were you out in arizona?Before you gave up Hahaha

Good tips

Scott, I'd congratulate you but I don't think divorce is a good thing although it's sometimes necessary.

I am glad it's behind you now and you took the advice of hiring counsel. IMHO now is the time to focus on your kids and grandchildren. They are more important than getting back in the cesspool of dating

Have a friend been divorced 4 times....he's a slow learner....

Dating?, just say no, ...unless she's loaded and owns vast acreage.. lol

It was necessary...

Spoken from the heart ...I hear ya.

…….. or how she feels about ex wife living in the house….

***Circumstances

friend at work just got divorced. They had an understanding and lived together untill the kids were out of the house. The understanding was she ran around repeatedly he was done they became roommates tell the kids were gone.

He still never messed around tell divorced they lived together for years like roommates. He got her out and divorced and last week when I talked to hime sounded like he was running like a rutting buck.

Glad for him but sure makes me thankful for my wife. Only a couple things I can figure is 1 I got lucky 2 got her young enough and we grew up together. Regardless I'm blessed.

Do what works for you and makes you happy that’s all that matters in the end.

Not something to celebrate. I'm just glad all the children are grown up.

It might be depending on what you were putting up with. I would bet that he didn't just wake up and decide it was the thing to do. I am sure it has to be a weight off his mind.

Good Luck
Happy Trails

I'm not going to assume anything about what went into his decision, but it's still a tragedy. Timing of the heart attack was... striking to me, as a religious person.

If you would have read everything he posted you would not have to assume. I am sure the heart attack struck him and her too. No idea if they are religious. But I assume it struck them more then you. Carry on with your religious better then the rest self. May you marriage always be peaches and cream.

I read the whole thing and there were some questions asked that went unanswered. It's none of my business so I won't pry about them. I do try to follow Jesus and Matthew 19:9 is clear as can be. But I am a sinner like everybody else and have had failings of my own.

Forget dating. Just buy what you need when you need it.

Now days you need to check under the hood first!

Good luck.Wish you the best.

I could write a book...

None of your Judgemental business is Correct
Walk a mile (0r 40 years in my shoes............
When you point at others (final failings -0nly one finger is pointing away, 3 are pointing at your own sins

If its none of your business then concentrate on those 3
*nothing personal- Im a sinner too

Thanks Bruce& MJM

Wishing and praying for all the best for both of you. Lot's of life and adventure ahead!

Chris

I have 40 years in my own shoes. Want to trade?

You do you. It's between you and the Almighty and you don't have to answer to me. But I'm not going to make a post in celebration or congratulating you.

Then why post at all ?

Good thing 330 isn’t a mod or anything and can’t give him a vacation for flaming.

TreedaBlackdog will be so disappointed in you Scott. I don't know how you'll sleep at night.

Did you just admit to having a side piece or are you bragging about it?

Im guessing as much as he shares we'd have heard of it by now

Im Hoping for a Fresh start With a Woman who would Love differently
Rob, gotta find one like that Rob and YS...

a guy can dream

As Mike Houk would say(on to the next).

and is a brunette.

Always a brunette

Don't come across desperate, women can smell that a mile away and you will only attract the same kind

too bad I'm not a lap dog person

Thats a good thing

Mid to late fifties?

The good ones are taken

I agree. Look for one in their late 30's or early 40's instead.

Same difference other then have to raise someone else's kids

Those will be divorced with kids train wrecks And or those feeling the biological clock and taking a break from the carousel for their nice guy sucker they will cheat on and take to the cleaners in a few years.

Best to be of the take them or leave them minds set. You won't come off and needy or desperate. Make them chase you. All the girls claim they want the good dependibal nice guy provider But tend to chase the bad boys that treat them like crap.

Know your worth. Have your boundaries and standards and dont move from them. always ask what is she bringing to the table. Women control access to the bed room men control access to relationships. Be confident and know you are the prize in the relationship.

Work on yourself before trying to get into a relationship. You will need to rediscover who you are in your new life and things you think you want may not be things you want. Your identity has changed. Get that figured out first or you won't be happy. And you are responsible for your happiness. Once you are content and have your bearings only then will you have a chandmce of a successful mutual relationship. You owe that to any woman you meet to not be a train wreck yourself.

Though you married your highschool sweetheart P.F.?

He probably mastered all those things in grade school

Lol

And make sure if you find some random woman online you meet in-person. Lots of crazy people out there on the internet.

I did and its probably the best thing I ever did I happened to be blessed and find The woman God made for me, or a unicorn, take your pick. Im also aware of how the majority of men and women act and behave today.. Its horrible. Yes men are pigs and like to sleep around but women are just as bad or worse. Probably becuse its easier for women to get laid.
MEN get screwed over in divorce and family courts 30% of men that have tested their kids are raising kids they think are theirs but are not. Thats just those tested so a small sample of the population it likely much worse . The ancestor dna, and medical needs testing have exposed a lot of this . Learn female psychology and men are better off and have more successful relationships.


Having your eyes open and knowing yourself and what you want is the only way I think you can have a successful relationship. But just because I have been with my wife since I was 16 and am now 45 by no means says im an expert. Just what worked for me and im not divorced so far. Many people with over 29 years end up divorced and anything can happen.

You guys are no fun.

He should try out a 21 year old redhead named Tiffany dancing her way through nursing school.

Could be interesting.

Could he afford that much fun???

Only one way to find out. You only live once.

would be ok if she doesn't talk. The immaturity would be way to much and not worth the entertainment. If you can't enjoy a conversation with them its best not to stick it.

Out of all that, you're worried about conversation? Psycho doesn't require words.

Lol

What, are you 100 years old or something? Yeah, a stimulating "conversation" with a 21 year old redhead stripper is the priority.

Who said anything about a stripper???????

Hopefully y’all aren’t suggesting that he have marital relations with said person outside of marriage!

No man any time you do the deed you have a chance of making a child. Myself I dont want to deal with a woman i can't stand to have a conversation with and enjoy being around for the next few decades.

Your urologist can take care of that and make it a zero percent chance.

Takes about 30 minutes door to door.

10/10 would recommend

The working her way through school part of the date a 21 year old clearly says stripper. Almost all strippers are just working their way through school.

You guys probably should tune it down a bit.... the guys 80 years old and newly divorced......this is like giving a child to much sugar and a red bull to wash it down with

I said "dancer," they are the classy ones that entertain at Gentlemen's Clubs, haha.

Spent plenty of time with a gal just like that in school. Glad I dodged that bullet in the long run. Had some crazy times though.

Not for me. 1 I have no need I am married and want more kids but my wife is missing some important equipment these days. So she went from for entertainment and reproduction to for entertainment only. Im quite happy with my wife. But should anything happen like green county or our free agent my new 21 year old may just want kids someday. (kidding) Future grand kids will have to fill that spot. I dont think I would ever want another woman . I have my One out of 4 billion once in a lifetime time woman im good.

I repeat...just say NO...lol

remember, for every single woman out there, there's a single man tired of her crap,
Internet is full of crazy, don't go there....

Take your time to decompress, or just do what Charlie Sheen suggests!....

My counselor told my for ever four years married it takes the average person 1 year to heal. You above or below average 330?

Im probably gonna heal fast...Im 60 not 80

With that kind of optimism, I assume you have a date for Friday night already.

It's not zero percent. 2 in a 1000 fail.

I happen to work with a guy who is one of the two

Hope you both find greener pastures

Steven, hopefully the guy you work with gets a DNA test.

My urologist told me that if my wife gets pregnant, I should ask to meet her boyfriend.

As long as I followed the after procedure instructions of course.

Google said it’s a .04-.08% chance after three months.

Maybe my doctor is just really awesome or something.

He did. It's his.

Did you ask your doctor if he ever makes a mistake?

Scott keep your kids and grandkids at the front. They are more important than anything even yourself.

Take your time