Originally Posted by 2zwudz

I’m not free of mistakes in this. I was not able to find a way to keep my mouth shut about her liberal ideology and her moral values being bestowed upon our kids. . I let it bother me too much. I was judgmental about it. I tried to get her to change who she is. I wanted her to take the news, her ideology and the liberal activism out of our marriage. I did not like her going to pride parades and volunteering to hand out condoms and needles for the addicts and celebrating this lifestyle. When I spoke my mind about the liberal ideology she took it as criticism. I was not able to find the kindest softest words to express myself without offending her. In her mind I did not accept her 100%. She may be right in feeling that but I still accepted her even with the things I did not like. Someday I hope to get to a point of forgiveness towards her for her ideologies and understand that is just who she is.

You can't control what she believes, but you can certainly confront her about her actions like handing out needles and condoms. She claims to be a Christian (albeit a "progressive" Christian), but those actions in particular are actually contributing to and subsidizing sinful behavior, and that's not what Jesus wants. I'd love to hear her try to defend that in light of scripture. Was she actually handing out the condoms and needles through her new church, or is this sone other group of activists she fell in with?